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Kenneth Helisek Obituary

Helisek, Kenneth Paul

Binghamton: Kenneth Paul Helisek, 80, died Sunday, September 30, 2012 at the NYS Veterans Home in Oxford. He was predeceased by his parents, Paul B. and Josephine (Nemec) Helisek. Ken is survived by his faithful and loving wife of 59 years, Anna B. Helisek and cousins Fred and Irene Sabacek, Vestal and Barbara Beckman, Maryland. Ken became an Eagle Scout at age 15. He attended Johnson City High School and was a member of the undefeated 1948 & 1949 football teams. Ken played varsity baseball and was Section IV diving champion. He attended Hartwick College on a football scholarship and also lettered in track and tennis. In high school, college, the army and law school he played trumpet in dance bands and "combos". Ken was an army veteran serving overseas during the Korean Conflict. He completed his undergraduate education at the University of Maryland before graduating from Syracuse Law School in 1958. Ken practiced law in the Broome County area for 51 years and specialized in trial work, i.e., criminal, vehicle, traffic law, domestic relations and personal injury cases with his partner of 35 years, Fred Conte and ultimately in private practice retiring in 2009. On his return to the Binghamton area he played volleyball with the Binghamton "Y" varsity and played in 8 nationals. Ken and Chuck Durgin founded the Oquaga Lake Sailing Club, which was in existence for 31 years. He was a charter captain for 8 sailing trips in most of the Caribbean. Ken was a dedicated big game hunter with 17 trips to the western states, Canada and Newfoundland. Anna and Ken traveled extensively to Europe visiting Holland, Switzerland, Austria, the Scandinavian countries, the Eastern European countries & Russia. They also did the Alaskan, Panama Canal, Australian and New Zealand tours. Ken was a very aggressive person who always competed on the highest levels. His friend, Amherst professor, William H. Pritchard was his lifelong mentor. Ken was also an International Lions Club member for more than 50 years serving as president with the Binghamton club and was a Melvin Jones fellow, the highest award in Lionism. At Ken's request there will be no services. Memorial contributions in his memory may be made to the American Cancer Society, 13 Beech St., Johnson City, NY 13790 or a charity of your choice. To forward condolences please visit www.demunnfh.com. "Charity is the rent one pays for his place on earth." KPH

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Published by Press & Sun-Bulletin from Oct. 2 to Oct. 7, 2012.

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Jerry and Patty Lynch

October 7, 2012

Dear Anne,
Please accept our heartfelt sympathy. Ken's strong will
certainly kept him alive for many years, as well as your
caregiving and loyal support.

We have many fond memories of time spent with you
and Ken on the St. Lawrence. Those were good days.

We pray for your strength during this sad time. .

Maureen Conti

October 4, 2012

Dear Ann, I will always remember you and Ken coming into the Roaring Fork and how you were both a big part of the Fork Family! Always sitting on the end, and how Ken loved to talk sports with Gregg. He was a wonderful person Ann, and made the world a better place. My God be with during this time of loss. Love, Moe Conti

Francis/Vaughn Julia Frisk

October 3, 2012

Dear Annie:
I knew Ken from playing ball against him. He was well respected. As U-E classmates of yours, we send our most sincere condolences for your loss. Fran & Vaughn Julia Frisk, Bradenton, Florida

Mike Celeste

October 3, 2012

To Ken's family,
It has been a long time, but I remember Ken as a very classy guy, along with being a great football team on some of the best teams that every played football in the area. My prayers are said for a fine man.
Mike--JC class of '52

October 3, 2012

Ken was a great man in so many ways.
He will be missed.
Ed and Faye Utyro

Kevin Janasak

October 2, 2012

Anna, I will always remember boating on the St. Lawrence with you, Ken and my family. One rainy evening you almost left the aft and stepped into the water. The boat had been docked on that side the prior night and our partying had made the evening foggy. You couldn't tell if I was teasing you or not when I stopped you and sent you to the dock side of the boat. Lucky for us all you trusted me!

Barbara Janasak

October 2, 2012

I remember the first time I met Ken and Annie. It was Christmas, 1953 when Ken and my husband, Rudy were home from the Army and Air Force. It was such a joyous time for all of us. The times we went to the camp Ken's parents built in PA was always so enjoyable. Thanks for the privilege to knowing you Ken. I will keep you in my prayersm, Annie. Barbara

October 2, 2012

I am deeply sorry to learn of Ken's passing. When I married your cousin, Rudy in 1954 I remember meeting all of the family members Christmas, 1953. You and Rudy were the two military men in the family. Going to the camp your parents built in PA was aways a thrill for our fanmily. Anna, I will keep you in my prayers. Barbara JanaSAK

Keith Janasak

October 2, 2012

I will always cherish fondly the memories we had with "Uncle Ken" when I was a child. He has always been a respected role model for me, and was indeed a brother to my father. The stories of the two of them.... We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers as well.

Nancy Hamm

October 2, 2012

Anna,even though I didn't know Ken personally,I felt I knew him as a person;through all your stories of him and you.I am so very sorry for your loss.Greive now but remember the past and all the joys and wonderful years you've had together.

Patrick O'Neil

October 2, 2012

As a member of the next generation of club traveling volleyball players that originated at Y, I remember Ken's aggressive personality and play, and I have been likened to be the same. Thanks for the lesson in drive, Ken: Only guys like us know what that means.

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