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1992
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2020
Matthew Cook Obituary
Vestal - Matthew Robert Cook, 28, of Vestal, NY, born May 14, 1992 on Mother's Day, passed away Saturday, October 10, 2020 after an accident. Matt was a dedicated son, brother, grandson, nephew, and cousin, a favorite coworker, and a damn good friend. He had a wild side and an infectious smile. His work ethic was unmatched, but he will be most remembered for being there first. He would drop anything he was doing to help someone he cared about.
Those who know Matt will find him on the water, the road, or the trails and go a little faster. They will find him riding in a caravan to ten acre fields and hit the next bump on purpose. They'll hear him while working or trying to fix something and work a lot harder. They'll see him in the trees, and they'll feel him when they listen to good loud music in their trucks.
Matt was predeceased by grandparents Leo Cook and Joan Barnard, and uncles Jeff and David Barnard. He is survived by grandparents Nanda (Opoe) Cook, Ray Barnard, and Frank and Myrna Vlasak; his parents, Jeff (and Myrna) Cook and Laura (and Michael) Corson; brothers Miles, Jake, and Riley Cook and siblings Michael Corson, Kirsten VanEnwyck, and Marisa Hicks; not to mention a small army of extended family members, chosen family members, and beloved friends that would take pages to write.
This is the legacy of a man who loved hard, lived fast, and left a mark. This is Matt's legacy.
The family would like to give an extended thank you to Matt's earth angels: Courtney Brown, Julia Dorber, and Vince Niedopytalski.
Services will be held at a later time. In lieu of flowers or donations, we ask that you show an act of kindness in honor of Matt.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
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Adrienne Beach
October 11, 2024
I think of you often and am still sad that you aren't here anymore.
JOE SHUTA
October 10, 2024
Still hard to believe...even though 4 years have passed...that this fine young man, friend & neighbor is no longer on this earth! RIP my friend.
Peter Pazzaglini
October 11, 2022
Every day I remember Matt when I look at our trees, bushes, stone patio and especially our oak tree which he and his family managed over the years. Matt was a mighty oak of righteousness and justice whose soul rests in eternal peace with Our Lord.
Amy Gavula-Tomminello
October 10, 2022
Always remembered and in our hearts.
tim bates
November 4, 2020
i just herd about matt so sorry for jeff and myrna i know some of the cooks from school and gary hats off to all cooks there all hard working folks sorry... matt rip ....
Julie Lewis
October 27, 2020
I'm so sorry for your loss. There is no heartache like the pain of a parent that loses a child, and the loss of of a life so young. My heart aches for you and the loss of your dreams for your son, brother, grandson, and nephew.
Jan Taft
October 22, 2020
Michael and Laura, I'm so very sorry to hear of your devastating loss. May you be surrounded by the love and care of friends and family as you go through this difficult time.
Maria Mcguane
October 21, 2020
Our deepest sympathies to you for your terrible loss. Our thoughts are with you.
The Derzanovich Family
Monica Jenkins
October 19, 2020
Laura, Mike, and family
I am so very sorry for your loss.. my thoughts and prayers for you all during this difficult time.
October 19, 2020
I first heard about this from my brother who worked with and spoke well of Matt. Devastating is as close as I can come in describing this news and feel how fruitless this condolence must sound in wake of such a tragedy.
But know that the thoughts and best from the Ferris family go out to you in an effort to lessen your grief and that the cherished memories of a son, a brother, a friend, the man you helped raise will carry you through these tough times.
Mike Ferris
Connie Clark
October 19, 2020
Laura, Mike and Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. You are in out thoughts and prayers.
Love Connie & Davve
Kathie Young
October 19, 2020
Jeff and family,
My heartfelt sympathies on the loss of your beautiful child. There are no words.
Peter Pazzaglini
October 18, 2020
Matt was a mighty oak of righteousness planted by the Lord (Isaiah 61.3) and now will soar high on wings like an eagle (Isaiah 40.31). We shall miss him dearly, but when we look at our red oak or see an eagle high in the blue sky, we shall know that Matt is there. Matt, see you soon my beloved friend. Peter
Dallas C. Galvin
October 18, 2020
I did not know Matt personally. I heard about him and his business partner, Ryan, regularly from my friend Professor Pazzaglini. Matt had a terrific landscaping company, and Professor P spoke so admiringly of his work ethic, his humor and "smarts," and his deep kindness as a human being. I live far away, but I, too, shall mourn and pray for this lovely young man. Recquesiat in pace to a young man of enormous promise. He gave a lot while he could, and that is the best anyone can do in this life.
Rich McPherson
October 18, 2020
Please know, we are saddened with your loss. What nice picture, he sure looks like a Cook ,works like a Cook, plays like a Cook and I'm sure loved like a Cook. Our Prayers to you all who loved Matt.
Christine M Hawley
October 18, 2020
Heart felt condolences to the entire Cook families & friends. I didnot know Matt personally; I feel as though I did. I heard his name a lot & have many pictures of him & my son Michael R. Hawley that good back years. He was an amazing friend to Michael. A true giant & hero in peoples eyes. I know he was kind , sweet & generous. I know he loved the outdoors & that he had a spirit of adventure that filled his whole being. ( hence the pictures I have of Michaels & other friends outdoor endeavors & adventures ) My daughter has a short video in her cell from last June of Matt & Michael just laughing & talking from last June when Matt attended Mikes Grsndmothers 80th birthday party. This is difficult time. My heart feels broken for all of you. Prayers & wishes for standing strong & together. Sincerely, Christine Hawley
Jerry Vlasak
October 18, 2020
To Myrna, Jeff, Mike and Laura We offer our sincere condolences and deepest sympathy on Your loss . Matt was a great person and Friend and nephew . Please know that Your loss is felt and shared by all that knew Him . Words can not express our feelings but may You find comfort in the outpouring of sympathy from friends and strangers help You through these difficult times .
Jerry Vlasak and Patty
Tim and Angela C.
October 18, 2020
We needed someone to keep our driveway clear whi!e we were away during sinter. Our neighbor gave us Matt's name. He plowed our driveway but never picked up his check because he wasn't happy with the way he cleared it. We texted back and forth several times but, still, he let it go. I often mentioned to my husband that he must be an extraordinary
young man...and this morning we are shocked to know he's gone. I am heartbroken. A loss like this is simply unexplainable. We are both so very sorry for his family and his many friends. My regret is that we never got to meet.
Jody Zimmer
October 18, 2020
We didn’t know Matt that well but obviously from the comments and things we have heard about him he was a great young man...Hopefully the legacy of his kindness compassion and his love of the outdoors will bring you comfort in the days to come...So very sorry for your loss.
Dave and Jody Zimmer
Eileen O Riordan
October 18, 2020
Condolences to Kirsten and her family at this sad time. May he rest in peace.
Sheri
October 17, 2020
To Matt's family...
I am so sorry to hear of Matt's passing...what a wonderful legacy to such an outstanding person..please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers..God bless
Shirley and Lynn Finch
October 17, 2020
We only met Matt a few weeks ago when he came to our home to look at a job, but we feel as if we had always known him. He lived next door to my sister and brother in law, and Don often told us of how Mat had been to visit him outside or in his workshop and what a nice little boy he was way back then when he was a child. We feel so bad about this and after the death of our own son, we appreciate what the family is enduring now. You will all continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
Rick Humphrey
October 17, 2020
We’re so sorry for your loss and keeping your family and crew in our thoughts.
-Rick’s Tree & Shrub Service
Sandy Woodward
October 17, 2020
Though I didn't know Matt personally, my heart is deeply saddened..... Jeff has been a friend of mine since high school and I know his heartbreak is unimaginable. I'm so very sorry for your loss.... to you and all your family I pray for comfort and peace.
Brian Allis
October 17, 2020
It was a honor to know Matt . He was one of the greatest kids ever born so gentle and kind . He will be missed by everyone he touched
Amy Gavula-Tomminello
October 17, 2020
I am so very saddened by your loss. Everytime I walked through the woods I will remember Matt. May his journey to heaven be as exhilarating as his life on earth.
JOE SHUTA
October 17, 2020
I've known Matt all his life. Being a neighbor and friend of the family...I've watched him grow up and mature into a fine, upstanding young man. I cannot express how sorry I am to have heard of his passing!!! My deepest regrets and condolences to Jeff & Myrna Cook...Laura & Michael Corson...and all the family & friends that knew & loved Matt. He had a great smile...an infectious smile. He was a kind & humble young man...always willing to help. A reliable, hard working young man from what I've seen & known. Just tragic to have lost a young man with all the attributes that any parent could be proud of! "Matt...you will be missed beyond any understanding you could have had. Rest in Peace."
Jeannette Eiklor
October 17, 2020
Iam so sorry for your loss My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this most difficult time .May he RIP and fly high with the angels
John Manley
October 17, 2020
Of all my sons friends Matt all ways was and all ways will be my favorite. He was a great person and I will miss him. Rest in peace Matt
John and laura Manley
Kristi Gutshall
October 17, 2020
I am so sorry to hear about your loss! Matt always took such great care of my mom in the winter. He was always there to plow the driveway so she didn’t have to use the snowblower. She and the rest of the family appreciated his kindness. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Kristi (Grover) Gutshall
Laura Zakrajsek
October 17, 2020
Dear Myrna and Jeff, I am so sorry for your loss, My heartfelt thoughts &
prayers are with you and your family. God bless you all.
Sandra Keech
October 17, 2020
My heart goes out to the family. Praying for them all!
Sue Smacher
October 16, 2020
Mike. Laura and family, Mark and I are saddened to hear of the passing of your son. He was loved by many and will be greatly missed. We are thinking of you during this difficult time.
Johanna
October 16, 2020
Matt was such a kind hearted soul. Always smiling and having a great time. He loved his family and friends and just loved life. He was not family by blood, but is family in every way. God bless you Matt! You have a great time in heaven! You can be the amazing man that you always have been. Please watch over all of us and enjoy. God bless the whole family. God is with you and Matt. I pray for you all.
Isabel Campo
October 16, 2020
So sorry to hear about your son. My prayers to your family and to Matt. God bless you all.
Vicki Thierfelder
October 16, 2020
This beautiful child has pulled/ towed me out of more ditches on tracey creek and underwood on the worst of snowy days. He was an angel and will continue to be one in our lives. I am so sorry and sad to hear of his passing, but know, he was cherished as the neighborhood watch and sweet kind soul. Our thoughts and love are with you all.
Vicki Thierfelder
October 16, 2020
This beautiful child has pulled/ towed me out of more ditches on tracey creek and underwood on the worst of snowy days. He was an angel and will continue to be one in our lives. I am so sorry and sad to hear of his passing, but know, he was cherished as the neighborhood watch and sweet kind soul. Our thoughts and love are with you all.
Robert Lee
October 16, 2020
Matt was a inspiration to so many, no matter how tough the job was, Matt always made the best of it and had a smile on his face. He we dearly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. RIP Matt
Rebecca
October 16, 2020
We would like to send our thoughts and prayers to all of Matt’s family and friends. He will be greatly missed. Matt left a great legacy and lots of fun memories. We will miss him very much . Sending our love to you all! Rich, Becky,Christina and Theresa Wrobleski
Adrienne Beach
October 16, 2020
Matt stood for kindness and good. He was hard working and determined. He worked hard and lived to be outdoors. His smile was infectious as was his laugh. He adored and loved his family. Not a sportsman but an outdoorsman. He loved nature and would rather be outside, no matter the weather, rather than be stuck inside.
Let us hear you laugh for it will lift us up Matt..............always.
Adrienne Beach
October 16, 2020
My heart is broken as I have JUST NOW learned of this...OMG No!!! Matt you are not gone,,,ever. I can hear your laugh and see that smile, I am so sad. I have known you since way back when, I am so sad for your mom and dad-who you adored, for your brothers-who you cherished forever. You were wise beyond your years..and yes my friend, you were WISE too always making me laugh. Just the way you could tell stories of this or that, it was that look you gave that gave it all away and then I would laugh. So many times you would say nothing but I could tell what you were thinking. How crushed and empty so many will be without you. Climb to trees, snowmobile as fast as you want now, go boating and fishing there too. I am numb and in total shock. Cook Family my deepest deepest forever condolences to you all, they are not enough but he will always and often make you laugh and smile with so many wonderful memories. Rest High On That Mountain Matt.
Always, Ms. Beach (Kurt Burkhardt's mom)
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