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Paul O'Connor Obituary
Ponte Vedra Beach - Paul Joseph O'Connor, of Ponte Vedra Beach, passed away on Friday, June 22, 2018.
He was born on September 9, 1943 in Oxford, New York. Graduated from Oxford Academy High School, received his BS from Oneonta State University, taking Masters courses from Georgetown University and Nova University. He was the son of Paul and Edna (Carter) O'Connor. He married Marigene Broward on December 26, 1997 in Jacksonville Beach. He is survived by his son and daughter, Daniel O'Connor and Kathryn Barnes (David) of St. Augustine, Florida; his grandson Ethan Barnes; his brother, John O'Connor (Kelly) of Oxford, New York; his nieces and nephews, Shannon (Keith), JP (Carly), and Brighid (Ian). PJ was predeceased by his wife, Marigene in October 2017. He was a European History teacher for 41 years, teaching at Vestal High School in New York, Sandalwood High School, Bolles School, and Stanton College Preparatory School in Florida. PJ was known for his lifelong devotion to the San Francisco 49ers, the St. Louis Cardinals and Notre Dame football. Along with this, he was known for sharing his quick wit over a cup of coffee and pastries. PJ was proud of his Irish heritage and he beamed with pride at his grandson.
A Memorial Service will take place on Friday, July 13, 2018 at 1pm at St. Paul's by the Sea in Jacksonville Beach, FL.
A Memorial Service will also be held in Oxford, NY at a later date.
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M O
July 20, 2018
Mr. O'Connor will always be one of my favorite teachers. He taught the stories of history in a conversational way and kept it all interesting. I really enjoyed his style, and his passion for the subject was evident! When he had breaks from class he would often walk down to to the Sky Hi and drink coffees with my dad, also a lover of history. I have never forgotten him. M.O.
Janine Federowicz
July 9, 2018
Mr. O'Connor was also one of my favorite teachers at Vestal High School. Beth Holleran and I had so much fun with him and he made you take serious, serious notes...pages. I also had the pleasure of babysitting his son once or twice. As an educator now (Elementary and Music) I really appreciate his fun, dry, witty sense of humor along with his high expectations and unwillingness to take bologna. (He gave me detention when I yelled out his window at friends one day...). God bless him in heaven and God bless his family here. I am very sorry for your loss. He was a great man and a very good teacher as well as friend. Loved shooting the breeze with him and talking about anything. He made, as one other said, learning-and I'll add high school- fun. I was sad when he left NY. God bless.
Jamie Oliver
July 7, 2018
Had Mr. O'Connor for history at Vestal HS back in the 80s. One of my favorite teachers ever. Sparked my love for history, for sure. Thoughts and prayers for your family. X - Jamie Wasley Oliver
Olive Hinnant
July 7, 2018
Mr. O'Connor was one of my favorite teachers at Vestal High School in the early 70's. He made learning fun. Condolences to his family and friends.
Carol Dutton
July 7, 2018
Went to school with PJ. He was such a great guy and always was quick with a witty remark. May the Lord bring you peace and comfort at this difficult time. Carol Emmick Dutton.
Mary McIntosh
July 5, 2018
P.J. was my first love. He will always live in my heart. Mary Leary McIntosh
Barbara Miles
July 4, 2018
PJ and I were in the same class. I remember he was tall and handsome. He also was witty with a good sense of humor. I am sorry for your loss. May h= rest in Peace.
July 2, 2018
May the God of comfort and peace continue to be with family and friends to see you through this difficult time. Hosea 13:14
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