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Peter Como Obituary
Dr. Peter G. Como, 63, of Ellicott City, Maryland passed away unexpectedly on March 14, 2017. Peter is predeceased by his father, Robert Como, as well as several Aunts, Uncles and Cousins. Peter was born in Binghamton, NY to Robert and Phyllis (DiRienzo) Como on September 20, 1953. He graduated from Union Endicott High School, St. Bonaventure University, The University of Texas at El Paso, and earned his Ph.D. in Neuropsychology from The University of Delaware. He began his career as a Clinical Psychologist practitioner at the University Of Rochester Medical Center, and was in charge of research, grant writing, and oversaw several clinical trials worldwide. For over 30 years, Peter dedicated his life's passion to his patients and speaking at conferences all across the globe for the Huntington's Disease Society, North American Neuromodulation Society, Parkinson's Disease Foundation, The Michael J. Fox Foundation, Tourette's Association of America, and The Epilepsy Foundation. Most recently, Peter worked as a Neuropsychologist in the Neurodiagnostic and Neurotherapeutic Devices Branch of the FDA. He was married to the love of his life, Lisa (Chase) Como, on April 26, 2013 at The Herrington on the Bay in North Shore, Maryland. Lisa graduated from RIT/NTID and works as an Interpreter for the Deaf. His beautiful life will forever be cherished by his wife, Lisa (Chase) Como, his daughters Brandi Gilbert, Meghan (Gilbert) and Stuart Miller, and son Christopher and Jessica Gilbert; his Mother Phyllis (DiRienzo) Como, his sister and brother-in law Catherine Como and Paul Conroy, his niece Marie Pisani and nephew Michael Pisani and very special friends John and Janet Updike. Peter was an avid New York Giants, Yankees, and horse racing fan who entertained friends at his Preakness Race party each year. He enjoyed spending his free time playing golf, traveling, and relishing his special beverage of choice, Bud Light, with friends and family. He was particularly proud of accomplishing 5 marathons including The Athens Classic Marathon in Greece, The Dublin Marathon in Ireland, The New York City Marathon, The Marine Corp. Marathon in Washington D.C., and The Boston Marathon. Peter treasured the relationships he developed with his friends from St. Bonaventure University and his colleagues from the University of Rochester Medical Center.
A Funeral Mass will be celebrated Tuesday 12 pm at Our Lady of Good Counsel Church, 701 West Main Street, Endicott. Burial will be in Calvary Cemetery, Johnson City at the convenience of the family. The family will receive friends at church Tuesday from 10 to 11:45 am. A Memorial Celebration is being planned for May 2017 in Rochester, NY. Donations can be made in Peter's honor to the Huntington's Disease Society of America at http://hdsa.org/
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Vesper Ramos
July 6, 2017
I am deeply saddened having heard of Peter's passing. I knew him at the FDA where I often knocked on his door with a question. He was passionate about clinical research, and had a truth-telling stance. He did not mince on words when things had to be brought up. I am so sorry for your loss. RIP Peter.
Howard Merry
June 6, 2017
Mrs. Como: I recently learned about Peter's passing from an FDA colleague at a conference. I am truly saddened. My company spent about 7 years at FDA. Peter was the best thing that happened to us in that time. He was the lead reviewer on our file. He was passionate and intelligent. He knew the filed well. He always treated us fairly and with respect. He was a good and honest man. And from me and my team who worked with him, we wish you comfort in this time of mourning.
Natalie Getzoff
April 2, 2017
Dear Lisa, Peter's passing leaves such a large hole in many people's lives, including my own. Peter was the first person I mentored at FDA, but I learned as much from him as he did from me. His knowledge, kindness, and humor were always present and always appreciated. I will always feel privileged to have worked with him and will miss him. May his memory bring you peace and comfort. ~Natalie
March 27, 2017
Lisa and family, Pete was an old friend of mine from St. Bonaventure; it has been years since we have seen each other, but I will always remember him for his wit and sense of humor and for in general being a really good person. My sincere condolences to you all. J.S. "Nate" Pomeroy
Don Crichton
March 23, 2017
Lisa,
I wish I had had the opportunity to meet Peter. As an avid baseball, football and golf enthusiast, I'm sure we could have had many relevant conversations over a cold beer. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Donna Snyder
March 23, 2017
Much sympathy and prayers to sweet Lisa and family on the sad and unexpected loss of Peter. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Nancy LaViola
March 22, 2017
Aunt Phyllis and Cathy, I have been in schlock sine I found out. I have been trying to think of the right words but I cannot. I can only say I am so sorry and that I look ve you all. My prayers and thoughts are with you daily. Love you
Sue and Donnie Wargo
March 22, 2017
To the Como Family , I was so shocked and sadden by the news of Peters passing . We just could not believe I had to call his Uncle Jerry in Tucson. I remember Peter when we were growing up he was always fun the hang out with. So we are so sorry for your loss Peter will be missed by all that met him . So until we meet again RIP Buddy .
deb lovecky
March 21, 2017
Peter will always be remembered as a friend to the HD community and to HDSA. He will be missed but will remain in our hearts forever.
Kathleen Clapp
March 21, 2017
I was so shocked to hear of Peter's passing. I enjoyed working with him for several years at the U of R and always found him to be a very compassionate & caring person to all. My prayers go out to his family & friends. God bless!
Tessy Prokop
March 21, 2017
My sincere condolences to your family. May you all feel some comfort and healing as you remember and celebrate Peter's life.
March 20, 2017
Lisa,
We are so sorry for your loss. Sending love and prayers to you and the family.
Love you, Uncle Denny & Aunt Lillian
Douglas Langbehn
March 20, 2017
I am greatly saddened and shocked to hear of Peter's passing, and I want to express my deepest condolences to Peter's family. He was indeed an invaluable colleague in Huntington's Disease research, and was always a friendly, bright, uplifting presence at every meeting that we attended together.
Michelle Papka
March 20, 2017
I'm so saddened by the loss of such a wonderful man. I met Peter in 1995 when I came to Rochester as a postdoctoral fellow. I have not been in touch with Peter since I left Rochester in 2000. But, I remember him fondly, always kind, supportive, and valuably knowledgeable in his profession. He will be greatly missed and very dearly remembered. My deepest condolences to his family and loved ones.
Laurie Ernest
March 20, 2017
Dear Phyllis, Cathy, Lisa, John and Janet........ There are no words to express the depth of my shock and sadness.
Although the pain that each of you is experiencing is unique, it is clearly understood. There is no greater pain than the loss of a child, a brother, a husband, or your closest friend.
The journey you have begun is long and unending. Please know that my prayers and thoughts will be forever with you, just as the love Peter felt for each of you continues.
Allison Komiyama
March 20, 2017
I am heartbroken to hear of Peter's passing. He was a cherished mentor and dear friend of mine from my time at FDA. He did so much to advance the field of neuropsychology and the memories shared here are a testament to how many friend's and patient's lives he improved. I will miss his laugh and friendship, though his legacy and memory will always remain.
Commish
March 20, 2017
Lisa,
Peter has been coming on our golf trip for years now. We always had great fun with him, he was a joy to be with and around. We are all are deeply saddened about his passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Arkendra De
March 20, 2017
Peter was a kind, considerate colleague and was always open to hearing what others had to say. It was a privilege and a great pleasure to work with him while he was at the FDA. He will be very much missed.
My condolences to his family and friends
March 20, 2017
Dr. Como was a godsend to me. With seven children, six of whom suffered from Tourette Syndrome, he was always just a phone call away! May he rest in peace. I shall have a mass said for the repose of his soul at my home parish of St. Mark's, in Kendall NY.
Sheila Fry -- near Rochester NY.
Vicki Brown
March 20, 2017
Lisa,
I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family during this tough time.
Vicki
Susan Halpin-Papathomopoulos
March 20, 2017
I first met Dr Como at a Huntington's conference in DC. Over the years I came to know him as a compassionate advocate for families battling neurological diseases. I often saw him when I attended my exams for one of his trials and he was a great support to my family during some trying times. I can only imagine how very much he will be missed by those dear to him. My heartfelt condolences to his loved ones.
Larry and Val Rodichok
March 20, 2017
It was an honor and an education to work with Peter at FDA. His background was unique and invaluable. He will not be replaceable. We enjoyed the all to brief opportunities to meet Peter and Lisa at Kelsey's and Facci. If there is anything we can do down here in Ellicott City please let us know.
Larry and Val
Daryl Kaufman, FDA
March 19, 2017
Peter was wonderful to work with and provided invaluable help to me with some of my applications. His passing leaves a huge void in our Division and at FDA.
penny pudiak
March 19, 2017
I know your heart is broken, Phyl and Cathy. I remember all the good times. I wish you had him longer, but glad you had him as long as you did. Penny
March 19, 2017
I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. Please find peace and comfort in Psalms 119:76.
Jeff Shuren
March 19, 2017
I had the privilege to work with Peter at the FDA. He was an integral part of our CDRH family -- smart, kind, dedicated, and passionate. He will be missed.
Nicholas Cerasaro
March 19, 2017
Thinking of the family in these hard times God bless
John & Maureen Slocum
March 19, 2017
So sorry to hear of Pete's passing, we'll always remember him with a big smile and a quick wit. Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Al Chechatka
March 19, 2017
To Phyllis, Lisa and the loving family of Peter.
I am so sorry for your loss so unexpectedly. I met Peter a few times. One time at dinner up in Rochester. It really was one of the memorable nights with wonderful friends. I will always remember how both Phyllis and Bob admired their son. With my deepest sympathy's.
John Como
March 19, 2017
Dear Aunt Phyllis, Catherine and Family and Lisa and Family,
Please accept our sincere and heartfelt condolences and prayers on the untimely death of Peter. My God comfort you in this time of sorrow. John and Alice Como
Allen Chen
March 19, 2017
I had the pleasure of knowing Peter through a working group at FDA. Peter was so genuine, always contributing his thoughts and ideas to make things better, and always willing to help others. One could see that his work was motivated by a true care for patients. Peter has positively impacted and inspired many of us at FDA, and we will miss him. I am grateful for having had the opportunity to meet such a wonderful person.
Sandy aka Sam Plumb
March 19, 2017
Sending love and healing thoughts to all those close to Peter. He was always willing to laugh, tell funny stories, have a good time, and be kind to all. If you needed his 'in' be it work or play he was there. Peter you will be greatly missed.
Linda Edwards
March 18, 2017
My sincere condolences to all family and friends of Peter. Obviously a great loss to those who knew and loved him and those who never met him. Thoughts and prayers
- Linda (Monforte) Edwards
Linda Van der Wal-Arnold
March 18, 2017
Mrs Como, I was so sad to hear of Peters passing. What a shock! I had not seen him since high school but can recall all the kids from Boswell Hill as if it were yesterday. My thoughts are with you all at this difficult time.
Wendy Seitz
March 18, 2017
Another Angel has found his wings. Such a wonderful person to loose at a young age. God must have his reasons.
Katrina Gwinn
March 18, 2017
I only knew Peter for about four months, he was my mentor at FDA. His knowledge of neuropsychiatric disease and of clinical trials methodology was impressive, and his kind and helpful approach was always evident. He made a huge difference to patients across the country and the world.
Sandy Lagares
March 18, 2017
To the family of Dr. Como, my sincere condolences to all of you. I am truly thankful to Dr. Como for what he did for my son back 18 years ago when he diagnosed him with Tourette's syndrome and getting him on the correct medicine and taking the time with him and me! My son today is now off the medicine and doing wonderfully . I am grateful to his family for being able to share him and his knowledge with my family. I was very saddened to see this today may you cherish many wonderful memories .
Louis Medved
March 18, 2017
I am saddened to learn of Peter's unexpected passing. When I was a resident in neurology at the University of Rochester Medical Center, I worked with a team of researchers, including Peter, on a field study investigating a large Mennonite family in northern Alberta with a number of members affected by Tourette's Syndrome. He was diligent and extremely dedicated. I learned a great deal from him and enjoyed working with him. This is truly a great loss. My deepest condolences to his family.
Judy Amuso (Esposito)
March 18, 2017
Phyllis, my sincere condolences on the passing of your son. He was a very accomplished man and loved by so many, and I hope the fond memories of raising such a fine son will sustain you through this difficult time. My heart goes out to you and his family.
Sam and Kathie Rotella
March 18, 2017
We were so sorry to here about Peter he was loved by all his family members, he was always a pleasure to talk to at any family function he attended he will be missed by all
Susanne Goldstein
March 17, 2017
I had the privilege of working with Peter on several projects at FDA and always greatly appreciated his contribution. He will be missed.
Cindy Comella
March 17, 2017
I had the privilege of working and knowing Peter during his years at Rush. He was a great friend and colleague. My heart goes out to his family.
Jean (Hanks) Crowley
March 17, 2017
Lisa, I never met your husband, but I am sorry for your loss. I will be thinking of you and praying for you and the family....
Diana Calhoun
March 17, 2017
god Bless Lisa and Family! Our love is with you.
March 17, 2017
Dear Phyllis and family I am so sorry to hear that Peter passed away. My thoughts are with you. Love to all from cousin Marie Cianciosi
Lila Chase
March 17, 2017
Loss of a great man way to soon. My wonderful niece Lisa was blessed for such a short time with him and send love and prayers to her and the family. God Bless each and everyone of you.
Matthew Nicholas
March 17, 2017
I will always remember how Uncle Bob beamed with pride whenever mentioning his son Peters academic achievements. Peter was an inspiration and truly a good man. God bless.
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