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Charlie Gili
October 12, 2024
Hello,
We wanted to let you and your family and friends know that we are sending care packages to deployed troops this coming holiday season in the name of Philip J. Diaferio US Army Private First Class. PFC Diaferio will also have a flag placed on our Field of Flags during our annual Memorial Day event in Brooklyn, NY.
We recognize that these are humble tributes, but we wanted you to know that each is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals across the American youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Kim Paglia
February 23, 2021
Greg, I’m so very sorry for the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you..
Kim
Sherry Snyder
December 12, 2007
Greg,
We just found out about Phil. I am so sorry for you! Phil was such a nice kid--he used to hang around with my kids Christina and Billy. I just spoke to him not that long ago he was supposed to come and visit us in PA. You are in our thoughts and prayers! Take care!
Sherry, Bill, Billy & Christina Snyder--Coplay, PA (lived in Endicott for 9 years)
Kat Navarro
December 9, 2007
I'm so sorry, no parent should ever outlive a child. But Katlyn is still here so please cherish her and not shut yourself up in your own sorrow. Phillip has someone to hold him, those of us left behind are the ones who suffer and need you greg and lisa. I'm sorry I couldn't be there for you in person. Love and hugs aways your cuz, Kat and family Lecanto, Florida
Lisa Wahila
December 9, 2007
Philip,
We are so proud of the young man you were and the soldier who was honored to defend and serve our country. You will be in our hearts forever. We miss you and love you. We will be together again one day. Love, Uncle Mike, Aunt Lisa, Michael, Andy, Jim, and Mark xxx ooo
Betty Havel
December 7, 2007
Greg, I would like to thank Philip for serving our country. I will remember him as a hero,as you will. Congratulations to you for being blessed with such a wonderful boy. My thoughts are with you at this sad time.
Vicki Peters
December 6, 2007
I didnt really know Phil but from what i have heard... he was a great man. I admire all that he did and what happeden was undeserving. He is in a better place now... and this proves my theory. "Only The Good Die Young"
We love you Phil and you will be in out hearts forever.
james boreffi
December 6, 2007
phil is in a much better place
pauline porretta
December 3, 2007
Dear Greg and family -
we wish to extend our heartfelt condolences to you over the great and tragic loss of your beloved son Philip -We pray that our lord will give you all the strength you need each day to carry on. love, the Porretta's Dominick and Pauline
Vana and Tom Tzivanis
December 3, 2007
As I read all of these messages from friends and family near and far it is clear that Phil touched many hearts. Looking at his picture, wow, what a great smile; happy. We hope that will comfort you through this most difficult time.
You're in our hearts.
Dawn Jones
December 1, 2007
Dearest Leni, John and Kaitlyn,
Needless to say I was shocked to received the news about Philip from your Mother. I send my deepest sympathy to you at this very difficult time. My heart goes out to you all during this time of sadness. I will be there for your Mom as much as I can, and if there is anything else I can do, just let me know. Love, Dawn
PFC Jordan Mancini
December 1, 2007
I send my condolences for the loss of your son, Phil. May the love of those around you, help you through the days ahead.
In Deepest Sympathy,
Dan Jordan
December 1, 2007
I knew Phil when her was a teenager.I'd just like to say,Phil was a great kid!! He truly was!He will be in my thoughts.It's a shame he had to leave us.Rest in peace my friend.
Ashley Watkins (the Alari Family)
December 1, 2007
I'm so sorry for your loss. Phil had a great spirit and a warm heart. My thought are with you.
Kyle Muggeo and Family
November 29, 2007
Phil,
You will forever be in our hearts. I'll always remember the fun times we had playing baseball and football. You will never be forgotten.
Greg, Leni and family,
We are all so sorry about Phil, but so proud of the man he became. You are in our thoughts and prayers. <3
sandy porcari
November 29, 2007
Dear Greg and Family,
My deepest sympathy goes to you and your family. I remember Phil for when he was in my class at St Anthony's Preschool. He was a great kid then and it sounds like he became a great man. My prayers are with all of you and I hope you have comfort in knowing that he is the Angle watching over you and he continues to protect.
May God Bless you and your family.
Sandy Porcari
LTC John Hashem
November 29, 2007
Greg,
With deepest sympathy I send my condolences for the loss of your son, Phil. Though I never had an opportunity to meet him, I praise and thank him for his selfless service to our nation. My and my family's prayers and thoughts are with you. Your Friend...
Paula Warholic
November 28, 2007
Dearest Greg,Leni & Family;
I am so sorry for your loss. Phil was a great kid.Whenever he was at our house,he was always laughing and joking.Even as time passes we will always remember the good times at the ball field and at our house.He will be missed. My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. May God bless you all.you are in our prayers.
Paula Warholic(Mike Wood's mom)and Family.
Holly Afarian
November 28, 2007
To Philip's family and friends:
May God bless you and keep you.
Rascal Flatts-It's Not Supposed to Go Like That
"It's not supposed to go like that, it's not intended to end that way. Life is a journey, constantly turning down an unknown path, but it's not supposed to go like that.
miller family
November 28, 2007
Our hearts go out to the family and phil who was a great friend to me my family and many others. may phil rest in peace and we'll see you when we get there buddy
Lisa & Nate Grassi
November 28, 2007
Greg, Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Katelyn Warren
November 28, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Rick, & Dan Custodian night crew
November 28, 2007
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Haskell Family
November 28, 2007
Greg and Family,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your son Philip. Losing a child is something life does not prepare us for. I hope you can find some peace in knowing that he is in a restful place. Just know that we are thinking of you at this difficult time and our prayers are with you and your family.
cioci & davis families
November 27, 2007
greg,
our prayers are with you. your loss is not yours alone. we all feel the loss with you. phillip's memory will live on forever. we are here for you if you need us...we will always be the EYB family.
Amy Lea-Inman
November 27, 2007
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, my son Stephen and Phil were friends in grade school played baseball together before we moved away. My heart and prayers go out to your family.
Tami, Mike, Jordan (Pero), Nicholas&Matthew (Alari) Beach
November 27, 2007
Greg and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Phil was a wonderful young man he was always respectful and kind and a smile always on his face he will remain in our hearts forever.
Michael Mauro
November 27, 2007
I'm sorry I wasn't there for you tonight you have been in my prayers since I heard you were in Iraq. We go all the way back to little boys at St. Anthony's preschool. I love you Phil your always going to be remembered we wont forget you. Thanks for all the memories and protecting us, heaven needed another good soldier love you buddy. See you again someday.
Michael Mauro
November 27, 2007
I'm sorry I wasn't there for you tonight you have been in my prayers since I heard you were in Iraq. We go all the way back to little boys at St. Anthony's preschool. I love you Phil your always going to be remembered we wont forget you. Thanks for all the memories and protecting us, heaven needed another good soldier love you buddy. See you again someday.
Cathy Conlon
November 27, 2007
Leni, I am so sorry for your loss. I know your friends and family will help you with your grief ... that no mother should ever have to go through. My prayers are with you.
Melissa Poklemba
November 27, 2007
Greg and Family:
It is with heavy heart that I tell you how incredibly sorry I am for the loss of Phil. I remember the days watching him and my brother play sports. Phil was an amazing young man. He will always be remembered as a HERO and a great man. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.
Dallas Saunders
November 27, 2007
Greg,
I dont know if you remember me from Tioga Hills but i want to tell you how sorry i am about Philip. I hope that you will always remember all the good times the two of you had together over the years. Greg my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sadness. I want to also thank you for letting us have Philip keep our country safe.
Maria, Jeff, Jeffrey & Joey Fish
November 27, 2007
Greg, Leni and Kaitlyn.
We are so sorry for your loss. I know there are no words that can take the pain away, but please know he will always be in our hearts and prayers. Time was short but know he always new how proud you were of him. Our deepest sympathy to you and your families.
The Silvestri Family
November 27, 2007
We are so sorry to hear of your loss....are prayers are with you and your whole family. Phil will be be greatly missed by many. He was a wonderful young man and please know we are here if your need anything. God bless you!
theresa baker
November 27, 2007
leni, I'm sorry for your loss-he was a good boy who grew into a wonderful man-love each other and hold your memeories close.he will always be with you in spirit and i heart.Philip, thanks for fighting for our freedom and the many people in this country to enjoy the things we do.
Betty Buckley
November 27, 2007
Dearest Leni,John, Kaitlyn and Greg, My very deepest condolences.
Words can't express the sadness I feel for you.Keep him close in your hearts where he will always be safe
in your memories of him
Much love,
kevin and kasey miller
November 27, 2007
a good freind forever will miss you but heaven has a great angel will remember all the fun times we had together.
American Legion Post 82 Camp Gordon Johnston
November 27, 2007
We are so sorry to lose a young person but we are also proud to have had him here with us for the time we did. May God bless and keep you and console you as much as possible
Darlene Moore (UEHS)
November 27, 2007
Dear Greg and family,
Although I didn't know Phil personally,whenever I hear of something this tragic happening, my heart aches not only for the family, but for the child who was taken so young. May God let you feel His presence and Phil's to get you through this. My heartfelt thoughts are with you, his Aunt Lisa and Uncle Mike, and all your family.
PFC Meara
November 27, 2007
I remember seeing Phil on my return to Fort Lee for AIT training. He was very excited to be in the Army and we talked about our experiences in Basic training. I am sorry for your loss. God Bess.
Karen Antalek Wright
November 27, 2007
Leni and family,
My heart is breaking for your loss. I can't even begin to know the pain you are feeling. Please take strength in knowing you are in everyone's prayers.
Pamela Gardner
November 27, 2007
Leni & John,
I cannot find the words to express how deeply saddened I am for your loss. Philip was a great boy and was a great soldier. I know how proud he was to serve. You are both in our thoughts & prayers.
Pam & Gordon Gardner & the boys
Ralph Butler
November 27, 2007
Greg
Sorry to hear of your loss. If there is anything I can do to help PLEASE call.
Ralph (and the rest of the Security family)
Michael E. Barton
November 27, 2007
My thoughts and Prayers and my sympathy be with the family and friends of Phil. He is a very special friend to my son Michael. God Bless
Pat & Paul Musa,Sr.
November 27, 2007
Greg,Fran and family,
We were so very sorry to hear of your loss. God give you the strength you need at this time. May your memories comfort you.
Katelyn Warren
November 27, 2007
From the earliest time I can remember me & Phil were always friends. I am soo sorry about your loss. Phil is a great friend and him serving made him so proud. I am thankful I got time with him before he left for duty. Know he will always be in our hearts. He is Our Angel!
Jan and Chris Taft (Guiles)
November 27, 2007
Leni and family;
We were shocked and saddened to hear of Phil's passing. We're so very sorry for your loss. May God hold you close and grant His peace that passes understanding as you navigate these difficult times...God bless...
Lori Beckmann (Novicky)
November 27, 2007
Leni-
I was just so devastated to hear this news. Philip and Kristen played together when they were just little ones. Remember my Dad used to call him "Punxatawney Phil"? I cannot even imagine the depth of your loss. Know that I am thinking about you from across the country and sending you my prayers.
someone who cares
November 27, 2007
Your son was a HERO. Thank you for letting him fight for us. God has a better place for him.
Janet Mosco
November 27, 2007
Leni, Greg, Kaitlyn, John,
I cannot find the words to express how saddened I am about this terrible tragedy. Know that you now have an angel watching over you from heaven. I am sure that you have countless wonderful memories that you will hold in your hearts & cheerish forever.
Sincerely,
Allison Monticello-Finiasz
November 27, 2007
I'm so very sorry for your devasting loss. I vividly remember his smiling face and energy at family get-togethers, and how cute he was. He will never be forgotten.
Tammie Cappelli
November 27, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Greg Diaferio
November 27, 2007
Philip....you will forever be in our hearts, life will not be the same with out you. I was, and still am, proud to call you son and Kaitlyn was proud of her big brother. May you now find comfort in Gods arms my dear son until we reunite in Heaven. Stand tall my Soldier and my hero. Love Dad & Kaitlyn
J.J. Pado
November 26, 2007
I heard the news through family and friends, I'm very sorry for your loss...and the loss for America. God bless.
Pamela Sellitto
November 26, 2007
My deepest sympathies to your family. Treasure all the memories -- they will help you get through each day. We never prepare for the unexpected loss of a child, but Phil will always remain in your hearts.
Pamela Sellitto (UEHS)
David and Linda Barkofsky
November 26, 2007
My dear friends,
We are all put on this earth by God to do our best with what He has given us.Philip truly fulfilled our Father's plan. He was a brave solider,loving son and brother and loyal friend.Believe me when I say,you are a very special family. I have never witnessed such a strong bond of love and devotion as when I have been with you all. May that love sustained you in this time.
Rest in peace, Philip. We will miss you.Remember how proud we are to have you touch our lives.
In Jesus name we pray.Amen.
All our love and prayers,
Elena S Stacy and Paul's mom
November 26, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. Phil will be alwayas in our hearts. He was a nice young man and very good friend for my kids. We will miss him.
Courtney Hull
November 26, 2007
Hey guys. My aunt Tami asked me to do this. I really don't know what to say. I've known Phil for: wow 15 years. Since I moved to GWJ. He's always been a friend, a brother and an amazing person. I know my cousin Paul is devistated too. Through all the good and bad, Phil was always there... trying to do his best. It kills me, I just saw him Wednesday jogging up OakHill. I wish I had kept in better contact with him when he left for the military, but I was very proud of him. Love you all. Your in my prayers & my entire families because Phil was family to us.
-Courtney, Kaleb & Koston.
Angela Monticello-Tourtual
November 26, 2007
Greg,Leni,and Kaitlyn
I am so very sorry for your loss.You are all im my thoughts and prayers.
Harold, Janet, Jordan, Justin, and Josh Wayman
November 26, 2007
Greg and family,
I do not believe we ever met Phil, but I'm sure he was a good man based on knowing his Dad. Please accept our deepest sympathy's during this most difficult time. The thoughts and prayers of this entire family are with you.
The Wayman family
moises donato
November 26, 2007
Leni & John: My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead. May God give you strength in this difficult time. Our prayers are with you now and always.
Moses & michelle Donato
Andrea Monticello
November 26, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
cynthia vega
November 26, 2007
To Leni and family:
My deepest condolences to you and your family. May the Lord protect you all and be with you through this difficult time. With deepest sympathy...
NATALIE OLIVER
November 26, 2007
MY CONDOLANCES TO THE FAMILY THOU I NEVER KNEW YOURE LOVED ONE, HE SERVED FOR ME SO THAT OTHERS MAY LIVE, AND FOR THAT I AM THANKFUL.
Jamie & Frank Russo (Picalia)
November 26, 2007
Greg & family...Words cannot express the sadness that I am feeling for you right now. Phil will always be close to your heart with all the fond memories you carry with you. My heart goes out to all of you. With Love
Mike Wood
November 26, 2007
Phil you were a great friend. Lots of great memories growing up. You will truely be missed and always will be in my heart.
To the family, my thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. Phil will truely be missed.
Celia Randesi
November 26, 2007
RIP Phil I'll never forget you and you will always be in my heart. I'm going to miss looking for you online for our little late night chats and I will never forget your smile or laugh. You and your family our in my prayers and thoughts. <3
Patrick & Valerie Cartwright
November 26, 2007
Greg, Leni, John, & Kaitlyn-
Please accept our sympathy for your sad loss.
We want to express our heartfelt sympathy.
Philip was such a special person and it must be so difficult to come to terms with the fact he died so suddenly.
May it comfort you to know that so many people care and are thinking of you and your family at this time.
May the love of family and friends comfort you.
There are no words to express our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.
While there is nothing we can say that will ease your loss, we wanted you to know that we am grieving and thinking of you all.
God Bless,
David & Erika Cannone
November 26, 2007
Greg, I am so sorry to hear of your Son Phil's death. You and your family are in our prayers.
Dewi Jennifer Jade Liam Evans
November 26, 2007
Leni John Kaitlyn
We are thinking of you all at this sad time.
The Steber Family
November 26, 2007
Greg, Kaitlyn, Leni, and John,
May god Grant you the serenity to get through this tough time. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you. Phillip was a very strong young man and we all will miss him.
Bob Mies
November 26, 2007
John & Leni
We would like to send our deepest sympathy to you at this very difficult time. Our hearts go out to you and the rest of your family at this horrible time. If there is anything that we can do for you let us know.
Bob & Patti Mies
Kay Bohlman
November 26, 2007
I'm very sorry for your loss, You are in my thoughts and prayers.
heather briggs
November 26, 2007
phil we will miss you so much youwere alwaysthe funny one who made everone one a good time and in school you were the one who was there for everyone and none of us will forget that and we'll think of you everyday and miss you like cazey.
Brian & FelixRoma Bakery Staff
November 26, 2007
Greg and Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Myself and all the boys from the bakery have spent the past few days remembering some of the funny things that we remember about phil and the time we got to spend with him and we will miss him very much!
The Carmine Family
November 26, 2007
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Bill and LeAnn Baker
November 26, 2007
Greg and family,
Very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Betty Comstock
November 26, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time. Phil was a friend of my kids and I fondly remember the years of youth sports. You can never be prepared for something like this but remember that God will get you through it.
Jessica Keyes
November 26, 2007
Leni,
I am so sorry. Phillip was a wonderful man. He always made me smile. He will be missed!
A golden heart stopped beating,
Hard working hands at rest
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.
With love, Jess
Staff Sergeant Sparling
November 26, 2007
PFC (Phil) Diaferio,
I was proud to have you as a brother in the U.S. Army. You were a great Soldier, Friend, Brother, to all, and will live on in the memory of others.
God Speed PFC (Phil) Diaferio
When a Soldier is wounded far beyond repair
the loss and pain felt can not compare
The Cost of a Soldier is set so very high
they assure our freedom will always apply
Eddie Ramsey-Lewis
November 26, 2007
May he be laid to rest with the shield he carried so bravely to protect God, his Family and us.
Karen & David Harvey
November 26, 2007
Leni, John, Kaitlyn, and Family:
We are so very sorry for your loss. Philip was wonderful young man, someone we were very proud of, and we know you all were proud of him too. He will be greatly missed. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Allison Monticello-Finiasz
November 26, 2007
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sandra Devlin
November 26, 2007
Dear Leni and John, My heart broke for you when I heard this terrible news. I know how you hated for Phil to go to Iraq but who would have thought............. May your precious memories of your beloved son sustain you thru these difficult times. God has received His newest Angel.
Love Sandy
lorie babcock
November 26, 2007
My deepest sympathy. Your in my prayers.
Linda Pflum
November 26, 2007
I am so sorry for the loss of your son! I Thank him for his service to our country. Colorado Springs will join you in your grief
since he was stationed here.
He will always be in your heart!
Linda Pflum
Karen & Larry Sutliff
November 26, 2007
Greg and family: Please accept our heartfelt condolences in your time of sorrow. Phil was a wonderful young man. All of you are in our thoughts and prayers. Trust in God to help you through this time and keep your memories in your hearts. If you need anything please don't hesitate to ask.
Michelle Ramsey
November 26, 2007
Leni, Kaitlyn, & Family,
Words can't express how sorry we are for your loss. Philip was a good boy & we are all proud of him for serving our country. God Bless all of you. With love, Michelle Ramsey & Eddie Richardson
Gina Daniels
November 26, 2007
Leni and Greg....what crushing news! I am so sorry for your loss. I will have the fondest of memories of Phil growing up and going through the ranks of little league and teeners. He was such a cute kid! My thoughts are with you along with my very deepest sympathy. Take care.
Gina Daniels
NANCY & BILL ZEIGLER
November 26, 2007
WE ARE SO SORRY, GREG AND KAITLYN. WE ARE PRAYING FOR BOTH OF YOU. LOVE, UNCLE BILL AND AUNT NANCY
verna brooks
November 26, 2007
My prayers are with all of you at this time of the lost of a loved one
verna brooks
November 26, 2007
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
verna brooks
November 26, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
verna sleeper
November 26, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Renee Mancini
November 26, 2007
Greg, Lisa and Fran, we were so sorry to hear of your devasting loss. Phil is now in a much better, more peaceful place.You are all in our thoughts and prayers. All our love, Vicki Leri and Renee Leri Mancini
Joanne La Barre
November 26, 2007
Philip was a great young man. I had him as a student in my second grade class. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Joanne Alari (paul's grandmother)
November 26, 2007
My deepest sympathy. Words cannot telll you how I feel Phil spent alot of time at our house and was a very repectful young man. I was always asking Paul Michael how he was doing and if he was safe in Irac. May you find some confort in knowing my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jerry and Louisa and family McQuade
November 26, 2007
Greg and family - we were deeply saddened to hear about your son - and we wanted you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this difficult time... you hold a special place in our hearts and our children will always have fond memories from EYFL because of your leadership.
Nothing can prepare you for the loss of a child - We pray you feel God's touch and a 'peace that surpasses understanding' that only He can provide ...
With sincere sympathy,
Jerry and Louisa McQuade and family
(Jerry Jr. (Middle - Raiders 05) , Ernie (Lower - Patriots 05), Jimmy, Mary, Michael Angelo and Georgia Rose)
Kennesaw, GA (but Endicott will always be home)
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