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Richard Spencer Obituary


Richard P. (Dick)
Spencer
of Binghamton
Richard P. Spencer, 76, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, June 8, with his loving wife of 53 years and his family by his side. He was predeceased by his parents, Edgar Arthur and Shirley Spencer; sister, Nancy Snyder. He is survived by his wife, Dawn Spencer; his children, Richard Spencer (Kathy), Brenda Taylor (Michael), Jeffery Spencer (Mary), Dale Spencer (Korin); his brother, Edgar Spencer; sister, Leisa Boadway; nine grandchildren, Chris, Tyler, Meghan, Abigail, Chelsea, Hannah, Jessica, Riley Spencer, Mathew Cacialli. Richard was a veteran of the Korean War and worked for Allstate Insurance for 34 years. He was an avid antique car restorer and collector. He was also a member of Fairview UMC. He loved spending time with his family and "Bucka" was a consummate role model for his grandchildren. His fighting spirit will sorely be missed.
A Funeral Service will be held 10:00 a.m. Friday, June 11th, at Fairview United Methodist Church, 254 Robinson Street, Binghamton. The Rev. Cordella Brown will officiate. Burial will be in Glen Castle Cemetery. Friends may call at the Thomas J. Shea Funeral Home, Inc., 137 Robinson Street, Binghamton, NY Thursday, June 10th, from 4 till 7 p.m. In lieu of flowers, friends wishing may make memorial contributions to Fairview United Methodist Church or to Lourdes Hospice, 169 Riverside Dr., Binghamton, NY 13905 in memory of Richard P (Dick) Spencer.

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Published by Press & Sun-Bulletin from Jun. 9 to Jun. 10, 2010.

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brenda Taylor

July 8, 2010

been swimming at Kathy's parents house everynight. It reminds me of when i was young. We talk about you everynight. It makes me feel better. I remember when you taught me to swim and dive and i always enjoyed it so much. Love you dad. Miss you so much. We all do.

brenda taylor

July 3, 2010

Mom and i had dinner tonight and then i mowed the lawn. I miss you dad and i love you so very much. I wish we could have a long talk. I need one.

Brenda Taylor

June 29, 2010

Your Mets are doing so good. Alex hit a homerun last night that made me happy. They were saying that they can't really stand the fact that David Wright didn't make the top votes on the allstar team and i wanted you to know that i voted for him and Reyes and i did it for you and i also think they both deserved it. I love you so much Dad. Dale and i talk about you everynight as we walk to try and get healthy. I miss you beautiful face and i miss talking to you everyday. Tillie and mom miss you. Life just isn't the same without you.

Brenda Taylor

June 20, 2010

Hey Dad,
I mowed the lawn tonight and was hoping you would come over and tell me a better way to do it. I told mom about the time a few months ago when you told me you mowed out back and told me i needed to keep up with the mowing. I think you thought i let it get too long. This father's day was a hard one. I called the phone today at your house because i knew mom wasn't there and i could hear your voice on the machine.

I found this today

brenda taylor

June 20, 2010

Brenda Taylor

June 19, 2010

I wanted to tell you that Tillie still waits for you everyday. Dale was telling me that she keeps laying under the kitchen table but i think she started doing that before you got sick. I took her for a car ride yesterday and she seemed to like that but when i took her to work she cried the whole time. She is something else and i feel bad for her and how much she misses you.

Dale Spencer

June 18, 2010

To all who have wrote entries, sent cards, flowers,called,listened, brought food,attended calling hours, attended the funeral and many other acts of kindness we Thank You.You have been a source of strength.

June 18, 2010

My condolences to the Spencer family. I always enjoyed the enthusiasm Dick had for the old car hobby, especially the 1934 Ford. You were fortunate to have such a good man. God Bless Neal Jamieson Naples, FL

Brenda Taylor

June 15, 2010

Dear Dad,
I missed you alot today and i wanted to tell you that. I am walking at night with Dale and Korin and the girls and Diane went with us last night. The Mets are winning and so are the Yankees. I love you so much.

John Ricciardi

June 14, 2010

Dear Mrs. Spencer and Family,
Mr. Spencer was a wonderful friend. It was always a joy to be around him or to talk with him on the phone.
Your family is the best!

Ed, Malissa & Boys MacDonald

June 14, 2010

Aunt Dawn, Rick, Brenda, Jeff, Dale and Families. We are so sorry to hear about Uncle Dick. I remember him as a kind man who always had a positive word. Know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

chelsea spencer

June 13, 2010

hey bucka...i really miss you and i dont think that will ever go away. you were one of the best men i have ever known and you will be with me in my heart forever. I love you very much!

June 12, 2010

Dick was a very special friend of me and my family. He was a joy to be around, and he was always ready to lend a helping hand.He will surely be missed by all that knew him.Our deepest sympathy from the Teeter family.

Gordon Teeter
-Sarasota, Fl

June 11, 2010

Dale,
Sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Patrick Reilly

June 11, 2010

Dawn,

Jim called last night and Kathy and I were so sorry to hear of Dick's passing. Ever since that incredibly hot day of your marriage, which I remember clearly, you and Dick have been two of my favorite people. Even though we have seen little of each other the last few years, my understanding of your kindness and calmness together has always been important to me. Dick was a good man and will be greatly missed.

John Spencer

June 11, 2010

DAWN, I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I KNOW ONLY TO WELL WHAT THIS MEANS. I PRAY FOR YOU, TO BE GIVEN THE STRENGTH TO COME THROUGH THIS. I'M SURE ALL OF YOUR MEMORIES IN TIME WILL BE A GREAT COMFORT.MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU, FEEL FREE TO CALL ME ANYTIME, A FREIND ALWAYS, BETTY VANVORCE

June 10, 2010

Rick,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time of loss.

Ambrose, Mary Beth & Kelly Madden

June 10, 2010

Hi Dawn,
I forgot to add, when we were on the phone the other night ,I was going to suggest if Dick were in any kind of responsive mood ,to relate to him the time when he and I and Gene Mazza and Gene's grandfatherI('m sure there were others) were in the 'play pen 'and pouring some babbitt bearings, that we were not sure it would work. Gene's grandfather suggested that we wipe the part with
"lip-a-stck".All during the proceedure Gene's grandfather admonished" don't forget "lip-a-stck".Everytime we did somehing ,he'd say, don't forget the " lip-a-stck",
I never heard Dick laugh so hard and so long when that phrase was uttered. What a sense of humor! I'm sure Gene Mazza remembers, as do I (and Dick).
Just a light note to ease things--

God Bless .
Don

Sabina Lindsley

June 10, 2010

Dick was a wonderful person and a good Christian man - he helped me many times when I was a member of Fairview United Methodist Church. His death is a great loss to the community.

June 10, 2010

Rick, Kathy, Chris, Tyler and Meghan,

We were saddened to learn of the death of your father and grandfather; it's never easy to lose a loved one. May your cherished memories comfort you. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Cathryn, Rick and Michael Bunker

joanie sage

June 10, 2010

hi dawn and family....so very sorry to hear of dick's passing.....he was a great guy....and we'll miss him....i probably won't be able to attend any ceremonies..but you are in my prayers and thoughts..as we as a family, say farewell to dick....with sincere sympathy to all.

Janet Pergl

June 10, 2010

Dear Spencer Family,

All of us in the Pergl family are saddened to learn of Dick's passing. Decades worth of memories came flooding back and we will re-live the good times of car shows and picnics that our families shared together while thinking of you all in the coming weeks. For myself, I add memories of seeing Dick in the kitchen at church dinners and behind the desk ready to accept my car insurance payment! What a wonderful man, our family was blessed to have known him.

June 10, 2010

Mrs. Spencer, Rick, Kathy and family:
Please accept our sincere sympathy at this most sorrowful time. We were saddened to learn of Mr. Spencer's passing. We have many fond memories of your parents in the grandparent cheering section of Chenango Forks sports, especially baseball and the summer leagues as well. May God hold your Dad and grandfather in the palm of his hands.
Sincerely,
Gary, Ellen, Dan and Kevin Pendleton

Rich Chordas

June 10, 2010

To the Spencer family,
Dick was a special person that I got to know when I lived in Binghamton. He was always smiling and friendly. He will be missed by all whom he touched in life.
My sincere deepest condolences.

Cheryl Plahanski

June 10, 2010

Rick, Kathy, Chris, Tyler & Meghan,
Sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad and Grandpa. May the wonderful memories you have help you get through this most difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Randy Kocher, Cheryl, Tyler & Megan Plahanski

Sue (Hubbard) Papastrat

June 10, 2010

Dear Spencer Family,
I am very sorry to hear of the passing of your Dad. He was a "staple" in the "old neighborhood" and will be dearly missed. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Linda nash Nash

June 9, 2010

Brenda, I am so sorry about the passing of your dad. Prayers are with your family
Linda

Brenda Taylor

June 9, 2010

Dad,
Rick is picking on me again. He was busting me about the time I fell through the ceiling in the backroom right after you had told all of us to be carefull if we had to go upstairs and where not to walk. I was thinking at the time you were not too happy with me. Could you tell Rick to stop picking on me? Or would you just laugh along with him? I wonder. What about the time i had the car accident and Rick had to carry me out of the car and he told you his back was never gonna be the same.

Debbie Sacco

June 9, 2010

Dear Jeff and families,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Recently talked about how your dad was always so kind to take the "Calvin Coolidge kids" for rides in his antique cars.
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

June 9, 2010

Dale, Korin, Hannah, Jessica and Riley,
Our thoughts and prayers are being sent to you and your entire family during this time of loss. Dale, we will certainly miss seeing your dad at the basketball games. He will be cheering the girls on from the heavens above. Our Deepest Sympathy. Love,The Trumino Family, Mari-Jo, Ron, Olivia, Aaron,Emma & Celia

Carol & Wayne (Lord) Zebrowski

June 9, 2010

Mrs. Spencer,
I lived @ 5 Nash Street as a youngster. I knew Ed, as did my husband, Wayne Smith, now Zebrowski. His Mom worked in the counselor's office. I will have you and your family in my prayers. God's peace to all of you.

Olivia & Aaron Trumino

June 9, 2010

Dear Spencer family,
We are very sorry to hear of the loss in your family. You are in our prayers and we are thinking of you.
We know how much you loved him and how much he loved you. Our deepest sympathy. With love,
Olivia & Aaron Trumino

Jim Gage

June 9, 2010

My condolences to the Spencer family. Dick was always a ball to work with at NuLook. He dished it out as much as we gave it! I enjoyed working on the T Bird in the beginning stages and not to long ago he had stopped to show it off to me. A man who will be truly missed.

June 9, 2010

To the Spencer family, We are very sorry for your loss. Your dad was a wonderful man. Our condolences.

Hank and Jennifer Nanni

June 9, 2010

Brenda,
You and your family are in our thoughts. I know this is a difficult time, but hang in there. I love you. If there is anything you need, I'm only a phone call away!! *HUGS*
Love always,
Jeanne

Brenda Taylor

June 9, 2010

Dad
You could never know how much i really loved you. When i was young i always remember you coming home from work and walking in the door with that smile of yours. I remember sometimes i would say to you "Its gonna be a bad day at work today". You would say "If thats the way you feel going into it then thats the way it will go" You would say that I was the only one who could change it. You taught me to always be positive and to be happy at anything i ever did. I will always miss you and i wanted to say thanks for leaving me a wonderful mom and three boys that you raised to be as great as you were.

Mike Hrehor

June 9, 2010

Mrs. Spencer and Family,
Sorry to hear about Mr. Spencer, I awlays remember him from my days of playing little league and playing sports with Dale. He was always there to support the teams and of course Dale. I will keep you in my prayers. God Bless.

June 9, 2010

Aunt Dawn & family, Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Uncle Dick was a great role model of a loving, strong husband, father & grandpa for our family. Love, Bradd & Renee Lasch , Plymouth, MN

Marty Loughlin

June 9, 2010

Oh, Dawn, I was so saddened when Jim called this morning to tell me about Dick. I wish I was there to give you all hugs. He took the role as eldest of the clan well - I was always glad that you both were there for Art & Shirley, and Doris. Lots of memories, but most of all his hearty laugh. Love Marty (cousin) and Joe Loughlin

Mike Propst

June 9, 2010

Jeff, Mary, Abby and Chelsea,
Words seem inadequate to express our sadness at the passing of your dad/grandfather. He was a fun, energetic man who truly loved his family. The world is a little darker place because of his passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, but Love leaves a memory no one can steal."
Mizpah
Mike, Kim, Glenn and Jonathan Propst

June 9, 2010

Bucka,

I thought maybe this weekend I would take the T-Bird down to 5-Mile point and participate in the Figure 8 Race. Love you and miss you.

Chris

June 9, 2010

Meghan & Hannah,
I'm so sorry to hear about your grandpa. I'm thinking of both of you.
Your friend,
Sarah Munson

Peggy (Mullins) Chapin

June 9, 2010

Very sorry to here about Mr. Spencer. He was a wonderful man, father-in-law to my sister and grandfather to my niece and nephews. God bless all of you.

June 9, 2010

Brenda, Michael and the Entire Spencer Family,
I was very saddended to hear of your father's passing. I know all to well the heart break of losing a parent. Your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers.

"Everybody wants to go to heaven, get their wings and fly around!"

There are 2 beautiful angels above who have already received their wings and are waiting at the gate to welcome your father in so he can get his wings, fly freely and be at peace. He will always be there watching over you.

Love you
Candice & Jim Taylor

Dale Spencer

June 9, 2010

Dad
The rules were I needed 3 votes in order for me to speak at your funeral.Nobody thinks I can do it without breaking up. The boys put the over/under at 15 seconds. Chris and Dawnie said Yes. I used your name for a write in for the third vote.I'll do my best. I miss you bad already.
Your Son,
Dale

Jean Shaw

June 9, 2010

Dawn, Sending our sincere sympathy to you and your family in the loss of your loved one. May you feel the God's comfort, love, and peace.
Jean Lawson Shaw for the your long time neighbors, the Lawson family

June 9, 2010

Dad
The rules were I needed 3 votes to allow me to speak at your funeral. Nobody thinks I can do it without breaking up. The boys put the over/under time I'll last at 15 seconds.Only Chris and Dawnie said I could do it. I used your name as a write in vote for the 3rd. I'll do my best.I miss you bad already.
Dale

Deidra & Jon Atkinson

June 9, 2010

We are so sorry about your Dad. We know how important he was to all of you. He is now in heaven with our Father looking down on all of you smiling. We will be keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. We love you all!

Michele Munson

June 9, 2010

Kathy & Meghan,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss. Your whole family is in our prayers.If you need anything PLEASE let us know.
Michele,Sarah and Andy Munson

Mark Clark

June 9, 2010

Brenda & Mike,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
With all our love!
Mark & Judy Clark

June 9, 2010

I am so sorry to learn of Dick's passing, but he is in a much better place! He was a wonderful neighbor, and we will miss him! Barbara Sponable

June 9, 2010

Dear Dale/Korin & family,
Our prayers are with all of you. May you experience God's comfort and love.
Rev. Daniel & Chin Ai Ling

June 9, 2010

Dawn, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know what a devoted couple you were. I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Your wonderful memories will sustain you in the difficult days ahead. God bless you. Carol Palmer

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