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Steven Diffendorf Obituary

Diffendorf, Steven W.

Steven W. Diffendorf, 58, of Concord, NC(formerly of Kirkwood,NY) passed away unexpectedly August 31, 2016 at his home.

He was predeceased by his parents Donald Sr. & Rose Ann Diffendorf and cousin Michelle (Brigham) Hand. He is survived by his daughters Stephanie & Stacy Diffendorf, his siblings-Sharon Murray, Susan (Jim) Brigham, Bea (Tim)Goff, Peg (David) Pitel, Donald Jr. (Michelene) Diffendorf, also several beloved aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews & friends.

Steve was a passionate NASCAR fan, loved all types of auto racing, drove a mini sprint car for 3yrs,loved to fish & hunt. He had a great love for his family and friends.He will be deeply missed by all who knew him. Though his smile is gone forever and his hand we can't touch, his memory is our keepsake, with which we'll never part. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us. A memorial service will be planned at a later date.

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Published by Press & Sun-Bulletin on Sep. 4, 2016.

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Lawrence J. Smith

August 8, 2024

memories they say , i have a lot of memories of you mostly of you at shangrala race track watching your dad race a couple of times at your mom and dads house playing board games in five mile point few occasions at the lake at grams and gramps cottages i remember you always were on the look out for us younger kids thanks for that " Steve " i always will remember you and to your family i am truly sorry for your loss RIP Steve see you on the other side Lawrence J. Smith

Brad Smith

September 12, 2016

Don and the Diffendorf family,
Sorry on the passing of Steve. My heart is with you.

Deb (Gilbert) Wayman

September 6, 2016

So sorry for your loss. Steve was a great guy. So many fond memories. We had so much fun as kids. Know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

September 6, 2016

To the Diffendorf family, I was very sorry to hear about the loss of Steve. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
- Diane Cullen

Debbie Hill(Gardner)

September 5, 2016

To all the Diffendorf Family, my condolences on the loss of Steve. He was a great guy. Lot of good memories. God Be With You all at this time.

Eric Mueller

September 4, 2016

I am sorry for your loss. My best memory of Steve was when he came into Mrs Butts' English Class. after seeing Elton John's movie "Tommy". He made plywood cutouts of his sneaker soles and screwed about 8" to the bottom of his sneakers. He had a great sense of humor.

Jim & Rene Terwilliger

September 4, 2016

God always picks the prettiest flowers first.

cathy holden

September 4, 2016

Don Diffendorf Sr. I'm so sorry for your loss You and the family are on in my prayers. Cathy Holden

brenda wayman

September 4, 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss , he's gone but not forgotten, my thoughts and prayers go out to his family's

Kathy Pasquale, Merhib

September 4, 2016

I am so sorry to hear of your loss, prayers and thoughts are with all of you.

Kimmie Emard

September 4, 2016

Stephanie,Stacy,Sue,Peanut,Sherry, Peggy and Donnie My Deepest Sympathy goes out to all of you for your loss of Stevie, He was a kind, loving and wonderful person..I always loved listening to the story's he would tell , We so enjoyed his visit to CT for his fishing trip many wonderful memmorys of Stevie..He will be missed..My Thoughts and Prayers to all of You xoxo

Julie Deemie

September 4, 2016

My sympathy goes out to Steve's family. Steve was missed at the Windsor Class of '76 reunion in July and will forever remain a cherished member and friend.

Phil Chris & PJ Peworchik

September 4, 2016

RIP Stevie

Joseph ( Spud ) Walsh

September 4, 2016

Thoughts and Prayers to the Diffendorf Family. Rest in Peace Stevie.

Chrissi Scott

September 4, 2016

Stevie, You are free from all Pain and Hurt. I will miss our Green Bay Packer Talks.....
To the Entire Diffendorf Family, I have no words, I am so sorry.....

Buck Teetor

September 4, 2016

Deepest thoughts and prayers to the family

Ann Quinn

September 4, 2016

So very sorry to hear of steves passing. You all are in my prayers. RIP Steve

Pat & Sheri

September 4, 2016

We Love & Miss You Steve !

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