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Ben Whitaker Obituary

Ben Whitaker
September 14, 1941 - April 28, 2023
Now here's a challenge. Try writing an obituary for a man whose life directly influenced over 30,000 people and, indirectly, an entire community. Ben Whitaker - the master welder - spent 50 glorious years on faculty at Santa Rosa Junior College teaching many of you the fine points of welding. For Ben, it was part occupation, art, and always fun.
The "indirectly" among you also know Ben. For local athletes, he repaired your batting cages and football tackling sleds. For anyone with a disability, he fabricated handrails, ramps, wheelchair systems, and other specialized equipment to make the world a more accessible, welcoming place.
For night students at the Junior College, Ben kept the light poles vertical when an errant vehicle knocked them down. The school's once-broken wrought-iron Legion Gate stands as a sentinel to Ben's skill and his love for all students.
Oh, and let's not forget the wine drinkers among you. Ben taught nearly everyone who welds stainless steel tanks for our wine industry. Give Ben a toast the next time you open a Sauvignon Blanc.
Fair goers? Ben was there to repair the broken gates and corrals before you arrived.
State Park visitors? Ben volunteered hundreds of hours at the California Youth Authority guiding the hands and hearts of young offenders as they made fire rings and picnic tables for the parks.
But Ben was about much more than welding. Yes, he could TIG weld an aluminum Coke can (his favorite) - a thin-walled feat that only the most experienced can manage.
If a job applicant scored a recommendation from Ben Whitaker, industry bosses knew to hire the applicant. If you met Ben's standards as a welder and a person, you were certified in welding and life. You were a person who had learned from Ben to work really hard and show up to the job on time, every day. You learned about kindness and respect and putting away your tools. You learned about tough love. If Ben's midwinter class started at 8:00 a.m., and you showed up at 8:01, the door was locked and you were left standing in the cold. Enough said; lesson learned.
Ben mastered welding at an early age. But he mastered everything that interested him. He was a legend on his Bultaco two-stroke, flat-track motorcycle. Then, it was on to the rugged Rubicon in the Sierras in his Willys Jeep (license plate: SRJC) where nearly everyone broke down in tears or trouble and turned to Ben for repairs and a steady hand.
Ben canned 60 quarts of Joe Imwalle's cucumbers every summer ("the best puckin' fickles you ever ate") and took blue ribbons at the fair for his efforts. He brewed beer until you could not tell his beer from that of famous breweries. He built fishing rods and invented lures to attract kokanee salmon in Stampede Reservoir - a feat that landed him on the cover of a magazine. He took up shooting trap and sporting clays until he earned perfect scores and the Presidency at a local gun club. He cooked in cast iron, a tradition he blamed on his mother and Fanny Farmer from his childhood days in Missouri and Utah. Ben believed that a thing isn't worth doing unless you do it well. His end-of-semester BBQs with carbon soot and Randy Travis wafting in the air were legendary.
There are trucks and trailers and motorcycles (and people) that have escaped the trash heap thanks to Ben. When a repair shop told you that a crack in your aluminum engine block was beyond repair, you took it to Ben. He repaired it. Then, you took the engine back to the repair shop just to show off. Ben's boat (and your trailers, trucks, homes, and cabins) shine with his "Cal custom" touches in stainless steel and aluminum.
He could have launched his own version of Sierra Nevada Brewing. He could have launched a career as a boat manufacturer. Instead, he unselfishly launched the careers of others, then watched them fabricate and flourish from beneath his own welding helmet, emblazoned with the Jack Daniels logo. He was proud of you. He made you feel like an adopted child.
Ben is also survived by siblings, many children, grandchildren, great grandchildren, and innumerable friends.
Ben Whitaker - the stuff of a Jack London novel. There is so much more to tell. In lieu of flowers, plant a garden.
Come celebrate Ben's life at noon on Saturday, June 24, Gold Ridge Fire Department, 1690 Watertrough Road in Sebastopol.
Please RSVP by email at [email protected] by June 20th with the number of guests that will be attending. Wear your cleanest blue jeans.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Press Democrat from May 19 to May 21, 2023.

Memories and Condolences
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Sponsored by Daniels Chapel of the Roses Funeral Home and Crematory, Inc. - Santa Rosa Daniels Chapel of the Rose.

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Donna Geney

April 20, 2024

I will never forget riding mules to the bottom of the Grand Canyon. Never a dull moment with this guy.

Cory Hruby

April 15, 2024

RIP Ben! It was a pleasure being your student back in the late 90's coming out of the youth authority. U truly help me excel in life!

Tim Tewksbury

June 25, 2023

Ben's Celebration of Life, 6-24-23, was standing room only. Many great stories were shared. Thanks to all involved.

Steve

June 20, 2023

Knew Ben for ever sorry to hear he has gone on to a better place. Your friend Steve Sharpe

Juvencio Salazar

May 30, 2023

I met Ben when I was looking for direction in life. I thought i knew what i wanted and welding seemed mysterious and unobtainable. I had never met anyone so committed. He had a passion for teaching that could be felt even if he was in the other room. He made you want to learn and have pride in whaf you were doing. I gravitated towards him as a mentor and after taking his classes he helped me get my first welding job which then lead a few years later to me opening my own fabrication shop. Ben gave me so much more than a career, he inspired me to persue becoming a welding instructor myself and when that time comes I will gladly pass down everything he taught me.
You will be missed, by me and thousands of others. You truly changed my life.
You are filling your seat among the "Welding God's" now. We'll keep the torches lit for you.
Thanks for everything.
Juvencio S.

Chris Banzet

May 28, 2023

I took several semesters of Ben's welding class so I could learn to weld correctly. I had a few things over the time that needed to be welded that only Ben could do to perfection and he used the chance to teach his class with these items as it was something they may run into but not a every day item. My last semester with Ben was spent more on glass beading of engine parts for a VW Bus so I could do the repairs to them then take them to be powder coated. Ben said to me you do realize this is a welding class not a glass beading class while laughing about it. Ben you will be sorry miss by oh so many! You are well know through the state as one of the very best weilders.

Ben Conrad

May 23, 2023

Ben was a great friend, a great mentor, and a great man. I feel honored to have known him. Like thousands of other people, he profoundly influenced my life and career. Aside from the encyclopedic number of things he taught me about welding he also taught me many life lessons. He taught me to help people and do charitable things because it was the right thing to do, not to seek recognition. I saw him help people with disabilities and people who faced discrimination for who they are. He taught me the joys of teaching and I will always look up to him. Like many, I have much to thank him for and will never forget him.

Mary Kay Rudolph & John Kolhoven

May 23, 2023

Ben was one of the first people I met when I started at the JC. I was taking a little tour of the trades building and Ben decided to show me around. I immediately loved his Missouri, down-home honesty and humor.

For the next 13 years we would periodically take a walk or have a chat together but it wasn't until I retired that I really got to spend quality time with Ben. Meals at Betty's or Oysters anywhere, and crab feeds. My homemade Peppers were too hot for him, even when accompanied by a Flat Tire.

When I moved from Santa Rosa in 2020 we began weekly phone chats, sometimes at all hours and visits when I was in town. When I last saw him a month ago I held his hand but he couldn't reply. I still know that HE knew I was there.

Ben, we miss you. My husband John and I cherish the time we had around you. You always brought humor, honesty and fun. Thank you.

Eric Williams

May 22, 2023

You said you were too stubborn to die. First time in your life you were wrong I figure. I had the pleasure of taking your classes, teaching under you, and becoming a great friend. You were a father figure to me and so many others. I think this picture is worthy of your obituary. You blamed this award on your bad eyes but I've seen you weld blind, shoot squeakers, and pheasant with those same bad eyes. Guess that's the stubbornness we all grew to love about you. Rest easy, Jack and coke for you tonight!

Judith

May 21, 2023

What an influence this great man had on so many!!!

This has to be the most riveting obituary I have ever read in my 76 years of life! My son took welding classes at night while earning his A.S. degree and Electronics certificate. He thoroughly enjoyed the mood and spirit of the welding dept.; the lights were definitely left on!
May Mr. Whitaker rest in eternal peace and his family take comfort in a life well-lived as a result of his influence on so many, even those who simply read this obit. God Bless all!

Judith in Santa Rosa

Tim Tewksbury

May 21, 2023

Many of us raced with Ben. Later, he joined our Flat Tire Club men's club, and was much respected and loved. His wry humor always "Sparked" everyone up. RIP old friend.

alex sundberg

May 20, 2023

Thank you Ben

Nancy

May 20, 2023

I didnt know Ben. But this is the best written obit I have ever read!

Mike cmelik

May 20, 2023

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Bent Carstensen

May 19, 2023

I met Ben at the JC to do a welding test for him from a friend of mine John.We hit it off and became friends.This is early to late 70s we kept in touch about my job his job what a great teacher. I have great respect for Ben

Gary Poffenholz

May 19, 2023

God Bless Ben! And all his family! I took welding classes back in the mid seventies at SRJC and became friends, I remember his van, it was the coolest! He was a great teacher! Thank you!

Dennis Simontacchi

May 19, 2023

Did not know Mr. Whitaker, but wish I had. That is about the best obit that I have ever read.

Brenda Flyswithhawks

May 19, 2023

We all love and respect you Ben! I know you are welding something on the other side, even as we continue to celebrate you on this side! You made a difference! Your colleague and friend, Brenda Flyswithhawks

Gary Henshaw

May 19, 2023

Stand back Loretta, there will be a lot of sparks here in just a minute...................................................................................................................

DAVID HUEBEL SR

May 19, 2023

Got my 1st welding job in March of 79. I was taking Ben's class and he gave me an "A" for the semester. He told me you get a job, you get an "A".

Howard

May 19, 2023

I was fortunate to study under Ben in the early 70s. He had us building motorcycle trailers to help pay for remodel of the weld shop at srjc. He was one of a few that made my career possible. Thanks to him and his family.
Howard Jewett
H&V Tool Repair, Santa Rosa, CA
Retired

Debbie Kerrigan

May 19, 2023

The man, the myth and the legend - in this case, it actually applies. To the happiest of memories and the trenches that were waded thru, Ben, may you rest in peace.

Timber Alkire

May 19, 2023

Love you Ben!

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Celebration of Life

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1690 Watertrough Road, Sebastopol, CA

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