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Helen Caven Obituary

70, passed away March 16, 2010 in Las Vegas, Nevada, following complications from heart surgery. Helen lived in Boulder City, Nevada for the past five years with her husband of 27 years, Melvin Caven, following several years in Guerneville and Geyserville, California. She was born Helen Ann Butler on June 4, 1939 in Roseville, California to Mary (née Marija Antonija Picelj) and Harold Samuel Butler. Helen's family migrated through Utah before settling in Bliss, Idaho, where she graduated as valedictorian from Bliss High School in 1957. During her first marriage to Kenneth Edward Pugh, Helen lived in Glenns Ferry, Idaho; and San Lucas, King City, Lodi, and Santa Rosa, California. She retired after 20 years from the Accounts Payable department of Sonoma State University, following employment for several years at Bank of America in downtown Santa Rosa. She was preceded in death by both parents, sister Mary Lou Anthony, stepson Bruce Caven, and granddaughter Domini Brown. Helen is survived by husband Mel Caven; daughters Jeanene Pugh and Coleen Pugh (Ron Woodard); son Kenny Pugh (Kay Lynn); stepdaughter Tracie Larcom; grandchildren Kent and Jared Brown, Madison Helena Pugh, Anna and Abby Pugh, and Emma Larcom; brother Harold Butler (Peg); sister Jeanie Florence (Harry); brother-in-law Jack Anthony; and many friends and relatives. A memorial service officiated by Father Denis O'Sullivan will be held at 3:00 p.m. on April 10, 2010 at St. Rose Parish Hall, 322 10th St., Santa Rosa, CA. In lieu of flowers, charity donations may be made to the American Cancer Society, or St. Jude's Ranch for Children, Boulder City.

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Published by Press Democrat from Apr. 7 to Apr. 10, 2010.

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Hilda Parsons

April 12, 2010

I grew up in Santa Rosa and met Kenny Sr. and Helen's three children, Jeanene, Coleen, and Kenny Jr. in Junior High School. My two sisters and I were the same ages of their children and they also knew them well, through high school. Kenny Sr. and Helen did an outstanding job raising three incredible children, who were kind, intelligent (obviously it ran in the genes- I recall the two daughters being valedictoians, like Helen,) and considerate. I even stayed at their home for a short time, when I was a teen, going through problems with my parents at home. Their entire family was very hospitable and I am grateful for the happy memories I have of this family. May Helen continue to be cherished, and with us in spirit. Our prayers are with all of her loving family members, during this time. May the resurrection through Jesus Christ find comfort to us all. Thankfully, through her wonderful children and their families, her legacy lives on.
Love, Hilda Parsons (Coleen's friend of 38 yrs.)

April 8, 2010

As a sister-in-law of Helen's I can attest to the fact she was a wonderfully kind and thoughtful person. When I was recovering from a broken ankle she came everyday to walk my Scottish Terrier, Molly. I was confined to the house and Molly would run back and forth as she saw her coming up the street. I was so saddened to hear of her death. My heartfelt wishes go out to her family and friends. She will not be forgotten!
Blessings,Carole Caven

April 7, 2010

Dan Schwan My deepest sympathy to you nand your family .

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