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Patty Paula
January 28, 2025
My dear nephew; you were like a younger brother to me; you were my friend, my confidant, my heart and soul. Today (January 18, 2025) marks 20 years since you went to Heaven. I wish I could hug you. I love yuou forever and always. (I will always remember how you loved the song, Swingin', by John Anderson - you especially loved the back-up singers part!)
This is my favorite photo of you and me.
We love you forever and always - until we meet again in Heaven.
Aunt Patty and Uncle Frank
Patty Paula
January 24, 2024
Dear nephew, Pat, We miss you every single day, but especially in January, which is the time you left us. We love you always and forever. That you are with us is evident in the signs you send to us - the beauty of the sky, the music that happens to be played on the radio, the moments that take our breath away in joy. We miss having you physically here with us, but we know you are with us just the same. We will be so joyful when we see you again. We love you always and forever, Aunt Patty and Uncle Frank
Patty and Frank Paula
January 24, 2023
Dear Nephew, Pat, you are forever and always in our hearts. We love you and miss you so very much. I think of you when I take my walks through the town you and I love so much, Petaluma. I think how wonderful it would be if you could be walking beside me in person; for I know you are there with me in the air around me, the song of the birds, the fresh scent of the morning air, the beauty of the sunrises and sunsets. You are with me always. We love you and miss you, dear Pat. Aunt Patty and Uncle Frank
Patty Paula
January 24, 2022
Dear nephew, Pat. I think of you all the time. You are in my heart forever and always. Just the other day, Frank and I were talking about how you may have aged. This year on January 18th, it was 17 years since you left this earth and went to Heaven. We were wondering how you might look as an almost 56 year old. We both agreed that you would not have changed very much. You would still have your signature smile, your dashing good looks, your full head of hair, your sense of humor - you would have had more stories, that is for sure. I sure to miss your stories and how you could make me (and all of us) laugh. You were a bright light in our lives, dear Pat. We love you and miss you forever and always. Love, Aunt Patty and Uncle Frank
Patty Paula
January 24, 2021
Dear Pat, I miss you always, but especially this time of the year - the time when you left us. You are forever in our hearts. There are so many times that I want to call you so we could talk for a long time like we used to do. There are so many times that I want to see you and hug you and share observations with you. We love you and miss you forever, dear nephew. I know, too, that you are in Heaven with Grandma and Grandpa and all our loved ones. Aunt Patty and Uncle Frank
Patty Paula
June 20, 2020
On June 17, 2020 we honored you on your 54th Birthday. We wondered what 54 would look like for you. You would still be full of energy and love, still making us laugh with your stories, still gracing us with your smile that lit up our lives. I miss you every day, my dear nephew. I love you always and forever. Your Aunt Patty and Uncle Frank
Susan Olsen
June 19, 2020
You would have been 54 this week. You will be forever young now. It's been 15 years. It feels so long now. You are still missed so much. Thought about all the time. I wish you could have stayed.
Patty Paula
January 24, 2020
Remembering all the fun times we shared, Pat. Love you and miss you always and forever. Aunt Patty
Patty Paula
January 24, 2020
You are always in our hearts, dear Pat. We love you and miss you forever. Aunt Patty and Uncle Frank
March 14, 2013
We keep the light on for you, Dear Pat. xo - Aunt Patty
March 14, 2013
We love you, Pat. We think of you every day and we miss you. Aunt Patty and Uncle Frank
Michelle
March 13, 2013
Hey pat...still thinking of you, each and every day
January 19, 2012
Thinking of you, Pat and sending my love. You are always in my heart.
Aunt Maggie
Pat 1969 such a cutie - always!
January 17, 2012
Dear Pat, January 18, 2012 - it marks 7 years since you left us to go to Heaven. We miss you every single day - we love you every single day - always and forever. Love, Aunt Patty and Uncle Frank
January 18, 2011
Dear Pat, We are thinking of you especially today. It was 6 years ago today that we saw you leave this earthly life and go on to your life in Heaven.
We miss you and we love you.
I think of you every single day.
Love, Aunt Patty and Uncle Frank
June 25, 2010
Thinking of you with love, Pat. You're always in our hearts.
--Aunt Maggie
Patty Paula
June 23, 2010
The light is always on for you, Pat. Your light will always shine on in all of us. We love you, Frank and Patty
Bisbee, AZ 1999
Patty Paula
June 23, 2010
June 17, 2010 Pat you would have been 44 today. I love you, think of you and miss you every single day. We love you, Patty and Frank
Sue Olsen
May 17, 2008
You've missed so much since you left. I still want to turn to you to tell you what's going on. I went and saw Eckhart Tolle speak at the Marin Center last month and wished you were sitting next to me. You are the reason I was there! He talked about living in the present...and I sat and thought about the past. You still inspire me! I wish you could meet my son Kristian. But I know you're up there helping me guide him and helping make the world a more peaceful place for him. I miss you lots.
Michelle
January 19, 2008
Not a day goes by that I dont think of you and your corny sayings...ie "LATE!...." or one of the many others you have, er, had. You still reside in my china cabinet. I can't bring myself to scatter your ashes across my property just in case - I want you near to me no matter where I go.
I love you, Big Brother!
Frank and Patricia Paula
January 19, 2008
Dear Pat,
We are thinking of you as we always do, but during this time more than ever. You are always with us - in whatever we do, you are with us.
We love you,
Frank and Patty
Maggie Morth
January 18, 2008
Thinking of you, Pat.
Love, Aunt Maggie
Patty Paula
August 6, 2007
August 6, 2007
Hi Pat,
I have been thinking of you each and every day - always. Today Michelle submitted an entry into your guest book and I read it and the other entries once again. It's been almost 2 and a half years since you left us. You would have been 41 on June 17th of this year. I mark every day thinking of you. Alex was here with Angela this weekend - we went to church and lit a candle for you. We love you,
Aunt Patty and Uncle Frank
michelle
August 4, 2007
Terry Jacks, Seasons in the Sun.
Still thinking about you Pat
Patricia Paula
January 18, 2006
Dear Pat,
We miss you and we love you. It has been a year today that you left this life for the next. You are still and always with us, though.
Love,
Frank and Patty
This picture, as corny as it, still makes me laugh.
December 9, 2005
Michelle Steidl
December 9, 2005
Hey Pat - it's the holiday season and your on my mind even more-so lately. I'm still kicking myself because our communication was limited, and I could have done something about it but didn't. Hell, I can't even recall the last time I heard your voice! BUT - I do have fond memories, and some are really quite comical - like that softball game fiasco when I threw the ball at your face or when you told me to sit in the wheelchair in Heathrow's airport so you could wheel me around. Everyone smiled at us nicely, until you abandoned me near some gate and I was "miraculously healed" and had to run to catch up to you. The ones that smiled glared when we ran by laughing.
Anyway - I think about you often. Your niece Sabrina will get to look at lots of pictures of you and when she gets older, she has a pair of your sunglasses.
I hope you, Lars and Ariel are together and at peace.
I love you Pat & I miss you.
Patty Paula
July 20, 2005
Dear Pat,
I think about you so very much and I miss you. I hear you laughing and telling stories just like you used to when you were with us. Susan, Mark, Frank and I celebrated your Birthday on June 17th. We remebmered you with love.
Another Birthday occurred on July 13, 2005. Your little niece, Sabrina Elizabeth Steidl/Schlessinger was born that day! She is absolutely beautiful! I can imagine you holding her and being the very best uncle to her, loving her with all your heart and soul. I know she will carry on your spirit, Pat. I think of you very very often each and every day. I love you. Your Aunt Patty and Uncle Frank
Yvonne Mayer
February 28, 2005
Pat, I will always love you and keep you in my heart. Mom
Maggie Morth
February 16, 2005
We miss you, Pat. Your life touched so many others, who will love you forever. I hold you in my heart, and I always will.
Love,
Aunt Maggie
Thomas Morth
February 14, 2005
Good-bye, Patrick,
We saw far too little of one another, and now we will wait a little while until the next time - in a better, happier place. You brought much joy into this world.
Aunt Sue, Uncle Tom, & your cousins Mel and Allie
Patty Paula
February 8, 2005
Pat's life was full of energy. He was extremely intelligent, witty, well-read, sensitive and talented - every room he entered was brightly lit by his personality. He appreciated art, music and history of all types. He loved to laugh and loved a good joke - and told many. Pat was a kind and loving: son, grandson, brother and brother-in-law,nephew, uncle, cousin and FRIEND. Pat touched us all with his life and left us with good memories of quality time spent with him. I am Pat's Aunt, Patty. I miss him greatly, but keep him in my heart always. I love you, Pat
debi turner
February 3, 2005
I was lucky enough to spend 5.5 years with Pat and our dogs. I was also lucky enough to experiece the move to Montana with him. What an adventure will never forget. The weekend hiking in Glacier National Park, the tubing down the river from our own backyard, and the first fish I cought. For anyone who knew Pat, knew him to be very adventureous, extremely intelligent, and a funny person. He could fix anything. There is so much more I could say but that I hold close to my heart. I would like to say that the Steidl Family has been like a second family to me and I know they know it. I love you all.... Pat we always called eachother our bestfrieds, even though we ended up going our seperate ways, you will always be a bestfriend. I never forgot you and I never will. Love you always, debi
We'll miss you, Pat. Love, Jean
February 1, 2005
geraldine ielmorini
January 30, 2005
I am the mother of the Gibbs boys. I knew and loved Pat dearly.Went to Montana with my son Scott and his wife Carrie and my son Ryan...We stayed at Pat'. place for 9 days. He will certainly be missed. Loved his character.
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