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Christopher O'Neill Obituary
O'NEILL, CHRISTOPHER JAMES "C.J." "BIG JIM" 18 - of Egg Harbor Township, went home to be with his Lord on Friday, November 16, 2007 in the Children's Hospital of Philadelphia in Philadelphia. Born on April 4, 1989 in Atlantic City, he was the son of James D. and Patricia (nee Yanni) O'Neill. C.J. was a graduate of the Egg Harbor Township High School's Class of 2007. He enjoyed sports - playing football, hockey and BMX. C.J. was an avid movie buff. He loved to make people laugh and to put smiles on people's faces. He worked as a bus boy, and he was formerly employed by J.D.'s Pub in Smithville and he also worked as a bag drop attendant / valet attendant at Harbor Pines Golf Club and most recently, at the Hidden Creek Golf Club, both in Egg Harbor Township. C.J. is survived by his parents James D. and Patricia ( nee Yanni ) O'Neill of Egg Harbor Township, his paternal grandfather Hugh J. O'Neill of Rio Grande as well as his numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and many, many friends. He was preceded in death by his maternal grandparents Frank, Sr. and Joyce Yanni and his paternal grandmother Elizabeth O'Neill. Relatives and friends are invited to visit with the family on Tuesday, November 20, 2007 from 9:00 AM. to 11:00 AM., in the Central United Methodist Church, Shore Road at Central Avenue in Linwood, where a Funeral Service will be offered at 11:00 AM., with the Reverend George Zigich officiating. Interment will be held privately, and at the convenience of the family. In lieu of floral tributes, memorial contributions are respectfully requested to either the Children's Hospital of Philadelphia - Oncology Dept., 34th and Civic Center Boulevard in Philadelphia, PA 19104 or to the Ronald McDonald House at 39th and Chestnut Streets in Philadelphia, PA 19139. Arrangements entrusted to, and written condolences may be left for the family at www.adams-perfect.com
Memories and Condolences
for Christopher O'Neill
Dana Schwarzenbach
November 26, 2007
Jim and Patti - I had the pleasure of working with C.J. for the short while he worked at JD's. He was a sweetheart. I then met the two of you at the fundraiser JD's hosted. Your strength and positive attitude touched me, as well as my parents and pastor who were also there. I am sincerely moved by the outpouring of love in all of the entries I just read from your guestbook!!! Although I did not know C.J. very well or for very long, or even the two of you for that matter, I wanted to write a quick note to send my apologies and wishes for comfort in this most difficult time. Let the fact that C.J. is finally pain-free and in Heaven watching over you bring you peace when needed most. Love to you and your family. If you come into JD's for dinner and I am working, please re-introduce yourselves. I would love to give you a big hug!!! - Sincerely, Dana
JEN
November 23, 2007
patty may your heart and soul find peace and comfort, my thoughts are with you and your family.
November 23, 2007
Diane
November 22, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss and hope you are finding comfort and peace in knowing that CJ is now with the Lord. I know he will be sorely missed by many and that he fought a brave battle. I am thinking of you and hope to talk to you soon. Love, Sug (Diane)
LISA
November 22, 2007
PATTY, MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY , MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL
Malcolm Brown
November 21, 2007
Jim & Patty,
I am truely sorry for the loss of your son. I will miss all the good times I shared with CJ growing up. He is in a better place now and he can look down on all of us. My prayers are with you. I love you CJ...I will miss you buddy.
Anthony Brown
November 21, 2007
Jim & Patty,
My condolences truly go out to you and yours. Ill never forget you CJ, you were our neighbors across the street growing up, the fun times we had throwing football, playing basketball. You will be sadly missed my friend. Your in a better place now. I was glad that I got to see you one last time. I love you bro!
Melissa Dillman
November 21, 2007
Chris was a precious gift to Jim & Patti. I know they are so encouraged though by the gift of time, the gift of support, the gift of God's presence day in & day out. After Ricci died, CJ was pretty mad at God for taking his friend. But Chris was able to see over these months not only the God that Ricci accepted 2 weeks before his home-going, but the God that was now there with him. He was surrounded by love daily. In Patti, my cousin, I saw a strength that was by far not of her own power. If I were to give anyone advice it would be that of Dr. Charles Stanley who says "The dark moments of our life will last only so long as is necessary for God to accomplish His purpose in us." I know I saw this happen with Patti. While this won't be easy for anyone who loved Chris. There is comfort and power in KNOWING that Chris is with the Lord, His real home, with his maker. He is whole, complete, happy, and one day, we will see Chris again ONLY if we ourselves have also received Christ to be our Lord & Savior. We will miss you Chris. See you soon.
Gloria Brubaker
November 20, 2007
Our Bible Study has been praying for both of you and CJ. Please accept our deepest sympathy. We will continue to pray for you. May God richly bless you both with peace knowing CJ is with the Lord.
Bob, Dolly, Gracie, RJ Dube
November 19, 2007
Dear Jimmy & Patty I am so sorry to hear about C.J. my deepest sympathies to you both.
Genna Vezinho
November 19, 2007
CJ, there's nothing i miss more then seeing you in the halls and always making me smile, between the "hey beautiful"'s and the "When are we getting married!?"'s you always knew how to make me feel better. i miss you so much. love you<3
nancy joyce
November 19, 2007
Patty&Jim.Iam so sorry you lost a love. your son is in the God hands,and God will take good care of him. and C.J. is so happy he his in God house,and C.J.will look down, on you&Jim.And C.J. said to God to take care of my mom&dad.
Judy Dickson
November 19, 2007
I never met you but I feel like I know you. I have been watching the progress of CJ and his family as they fought through this cancer. I have heard it said that God is closest to us when we are going through difficult times. I know that you can agree with that. God bless you as you go on without him.
Midge and Tim Kerr
November 19, 2007
Dear Patti, Jim, and Chris-
Our families were recently brought together for a reason. Our short time spent with all of you has had an incredible impact on all of us. We are so grateful for the time we had with Chris. What an amazing young man who accomplished so much and touched so very many lives, especially the children that raced for Chris through the Tim Kerr Charities event on Labor Day. Chris's life encouraged them to participate and reach out to others in need. All of those touched by his story will be empowered and Chris will live on in their hearts forever. Thank you for welcoming us into your lives. With love and sadness-
Tim, Midge , Kayleigh, Kim, Garret, Wes, and Tanner
Kathryn Steiger
November 19, 2007
John and I send our deepest sympathies. Please know we will keep you and CJ in our thoughts and prayers.
John & Kathie Steiger, Cape May, NJ
Erin McAllister
November 19, 2007
Dear O'Neill family,
On behalf of Gilda's Club South Jersey, I would like to express to you my deepest sympathy for the loss of your beloved son Chris. I had the opportunity to meet him last year at the Gilda's Teen Club at EHT HS & when he attended our teen conference at Stockton last May. He was kind, funny, and open about his experience. He shared things about his cancer that I know helped other teens deal with their own situations- whether it be their own cancer or that of a loved one. We will always remember his contribution to Gilda's Club. Your family is in our thoughts & prayers.
Terre and Mark Hutchinson
November 19, 2007
We know your emotions have run from extreme sadness, crying, through disbelief and numbness. Please lean on others during needy times, talking much about C.J. his personality, his accomplishments, his memories and know that he was loved and surely will be missed by you both. We are so sorry for your loss.
Loretta Henry
November 19, 2007
Dear Patti and Jim,
You will be in my prayers.
God will be with you through this most difficult time. My very deepest sympathy.
Barbara Lamoreux
November 19, 2007
Pattie and Jim I am so very sorry for your loss. I am Aunt Peggy sister. I am praying for you and Jim for strength to be able to get through this. I never got to know CJ but I have been reading the care pages for Months and have been praying for all of you every single day. Your son is out of pain and I know you are so thankful for that. Just know my prayers are with you..Love Barbara
Linda Kolb
November 18, 2007
We are very sorry for your loss. We had the pleasure of meeting CJ through our cousin John P. They would spend the night at our house especially during the summers since we lived so close to Ocean City. CJ would always make us laugh and entertain us. We have such great memories with him, they will never be forgotten. CJ is now an ANGEL watching over and protecting us all. May his soul Rest in Peace. Until we meet again. We’ll miss you!! Rob Hayden and Linda
rashema smith
November 18, 2007
to family, sorry to hear of your loss, many prayers goes out to all of you touched by his passing.
Sally Hayes
November 18, 2007
Dear Jimmy & Patty I am so sorry to hear about C.J. my deepest sympathies to you both.
Sally Palmisano Hayes
Frankie and Breana Rudolph
November 18, 2007
To The O'Neill Family:
It will be the little things
that you will remember,
the quiet moments,
the smiles, the laughter.
And although it may seem
hard right now,
it will be the memories
of these little things
that help to push
away the pain
and bring the smiles
back again.
With Deepest Sympathy
CJ you will be sadly missed!
Theresa Kemp
November 18, 2007
Our sympathy and prayers will be with you. Thank you for the testimony of love, courgage,and faithfulness that you have shown all of us and may you feel the comfort of the Lord everyday.
Sincerely,
Theresa Kemp(Classmate)& family
Brandy Beaver
November 18, 2007
Your family is in the thoughts, prayers and hearts of many during this hard time. Although you did not know all of us eprsonally, your e-mails sent words of life lesson's and encouragement to many. Thank you for blessing our lives!
Nancy Stuckey
November 18, 2007
Dear Jim & Patti, It has been such a long road for you, yet we have tried to pave it with prayers for you, and will continue to. We will miss CJ yet we know he is rejoicing in his new body with Christ and he had a great testimony, as did you. We hope to meet you again some day on better circumstances. The Stuckey's of Northumberland, PA.
RoseAnne Wert
November 18, 2007
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I pray you and your family are comforted at this time and always. I'm sending you a hug and crying with you. Thank God for His promises and His mercey. God has a place for us in heaven and we will see our loved ones again. Praise God for His Goodness
Heidi Bingaman
November 18, 2007
Dear Jim and Patti,
I just lost my message to you. I am not sure if it was sent;however, I wanted to finish. My name is Heidi. I am Melissa's neighbor. Whenever I pass by Melissa's house, I would pray for Chris. You have both shown remarkable strength through this. You have been an incredible witness of God's grace to me even though I don't know you. I pray for God's presence and peace in your life in a way that transcends human understanding.
I am grateful that you have the hope of seeing him again. May God give you supernatural stregth during the days ahead.
Sue Swezeny
November 18, 2007
I had the great pleasure of having Chris in my chemistry class when I substituted for EHT. He is a great person and the world is a much better place for him having been around. I can remember Chris telling a student, who was very sick at the time, that he looked upon him as a hero. Chris, know that many see you as a hero! You are missed already.
Linda Morgenweck
November 18, 2007
Dear Patti & Jim:
My deepest condolences to you both on CJ's passing. I thank God for the hope that one day you will be reunited with him in heaven. I am praying that God will give you strength to endure, as you try to keep your lives on an even keel during this most difficult time.
martha pagliei
November 18, 2007
To Patti n Jim, Im very sadden today from the news of your son.My deepest condolence goes out to our family. He was a brave young man and what I heard he also was very strong threw his ordeal. Patti I luv ya and Im prayin for u and your family. love Martha and Joe Pagliei
Michelle Kasper
November 18, 2007
Chris and I went to middle school and the beginning of high school together before I moved to New York. He was a huge influence in my life and I am who I am today because of him. He had the best attitude a person can have and he was always happy. I will love and miss him forever. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Harry & Connie Robb
November 18, 2007
We send all of you our deepest sympathy for your loss. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers at this most
difficult time. Take Care & God Bless You.
Randy Clark
November 18, 2007
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
You are all in my prayers.
God Bless
Randy
Melissa Elbertson
November 18, 2007
CJ, you will always be in my heart. In highschool, you made me laugh all the time...You were such a good friend. You will be missed my me and Ashley (Jr). We love you.
Arlene DeFord
November 18, 2007
Patti and Family
There are no words that one can say when a parent loses a child. Please know my prayers and thoughts for peace and comfort for you in the upcoming days and months. I am truly sorry.
Love
Arlene DeFord
Stacy Szaniszlo
November 18, 2007
Cj, your my hero. your an amazing person. im thinking about you non stop. your greatlyyy missed and will NEVER be forgotten. i know your looking down on us all from heaven. i love and miss you sooo much!!!! your always in our heartsss! <333
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