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BORN
1928
DIED
2024
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Mays Landing, New Jersey
Shirlee Neustadter Obituary
February 17, 1928 - July 17, 2024
Beloved Matriarch of our family. Adored by all who knew her, but we were the luckiest as she was ours. She gave her family, especially her children, a beautiful life.
She was always surrounded by love. She was predeceased by her adoring husband, Milton, with whom she shared a wonderful, long, and happy life together. She was also predeceased by her beloved son, Michael, with whom she shared a special bond as the "laughers" of the family.
She is survived by her devoted son, Larry and his wife Diane; daughter, Lisa and her husband Larry; and daughter-in-law, Anne. She had nine beautiful grandchildren, who she luckily got to watch grow up, and nine great-grandchildren. She is also survived by her loving sister-in-law, Jean, who was more like a sister, as well as Terri Smith, her confidante, almost-daughter and wonderful friend for so many years.
She lived all her 96 years by the shore. Her roots were deep and she was loved by so many in our community. We are so grateful for the life she lived and that we got to share it with her for so many years.
Synagogue services will be held on Friday, July 19th, at 10 a.m., at Shirat Hayam, 700 North Swarthmore Avenue, Ventnor. A livestream will be offered at www.JSGFunerals.com for those unable to attend. Interment will follow at the Rodef Sholom Cemetery in Egg Harbor Township.
The family asks that contributions in her memory may be made to the Michael J. Neustadter Pancreatic Cancer Fund, www.mjnpancreaticfund.org.
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Barbara Shapiro
July 23, 2024
Shirlee was such a beautiful, gracious and charming woman who was loved and admired by all who knew her. I shall miss seeing her.
My thoughts and condolences are with her family.
Dom and MaryAnn Diorio
July 20, 2024
Larry and Diane. MaryAnn and I send our deepest condolences to you during this time of bereavement. Kot that you are in our prayers. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Marvin Hyett
July 19, 2024
Please accept our sincere condolences in the passing of Shirley. It was my pleasure to have known her for so many years. A most gracious and beautiful lady. The world is diminished by her absence.
Marilyn and Marvin Hyett
barry titton MD
July 19, 2024
JUDI AND I, AND OUR FAMILY, WANT TO SEND OUR CONDOLENCES TO THE NEUSTADTER FAMILY... SHIRLEY WAS A BEACON OF LIGHT TO OUR COMMUNITY... WE HAVING TRULY LOST A SHINNING STAR.... RIP, SHIRLEY.... barry titton MD/judi titton/ross titton MD/amanda charno....
Marylou Reiff
July 19, 2024
My condolences to the Neustadter family on the loss of a beautiful woman..
Carol Braverman Schreibman
July 19, 2024
Dear Anne, Larry , and Lisa, I was so very sorry to hear of Shirley's passing.
I was very, very fond of her; Shirley was a wonderful and beloved lady who
was always so gracious to me. Please accept my sincerest and deepest sympathies. Love, Carol Braverman Schreibman
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