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Thomas Francis Ulmer

1950 - 2025

Thomas Francis Ulmer obituary, 1950-2025, Ocean City, NJ

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1950

DIED

2025

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Ocean City, New Jersey

Thomas Ulmer Obituary

Thomas Francis Ulmer

December 9, 1950 - February 24, 2025

Thomas Francis Ulmer, of Ocean City, NJ, age 74, died on February 24, 2025. He was born December 9, 1950 in Philadelphia, PA. He was the son of Roseann Ulmer (nee DeFazio) and Walter Eugene Ulmer.

Tom was a proud graduate of Monsignor Bonner in Upper Darby, PA, and the first graduating class of Cape May Vo-Tech. He served in the Navy, and began his entrepreneurial journey at a young age by renting umbrellas and rafts on the 34th Street beach at Ulmer's Snack Bar. For over 44 years, he owned and operated Ulmer's Appliance; it was Tom's greatest honor to fix his neighbor's appliances in a time of need. He enjoyed talking with his customers and making friends everywhere he went. Tom also ventured into real estate development in Upper Township, NJ, and was actively involved in the Ocean City Exchange Club, Masonic Lodge, and Riverboat Club.

In addition to his parents, he is predeceased by his loving wife, Lizanne; and siblings, Linda Ulmer, and Michael Ulmer. He is survived by his children, Matt Ulmer (Sharon), Kate Mitchell (Todd), Beckie Allegretto (TJ), and Laura Ganiel (Craig). He adored his six grandchildren, Ameila, Slaid, Gianna, Cameron, Jack, and Grace. He is survived by his sisters, Rosemary Phillips (Ken), and Terry Helmig (Jim); and sister-in-law, Pat Ulmer.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to "The Tom Ulmer Memorial Trade School Scholarship" at Cape May Tech School (188 Crest Haven Rd, Cape May Court House, NJ 08210) in Tom's memory.

Friends and family are welcome to an open house at the Tuckahoe Inn (1 Harbor Rd, Beesleys Point, NJ 08223) Thursday, March 6, 2025, from 12 to 3 p.m. where a Masonic Service will be held at 1:30 p.m.

For condolences to the family, visit www.godfreyfuneralhome.com.

The Godfrey Funeral Home of Ocean City

809 Central Avenue, Ocean City, NJ 08226

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Published by The Press of Atlantic City on Mar. 1, 2025.

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Joe Fagan sr

March 22, 2025

I worked for Abbotts dairy in the 70´s I delivered to his beach stand I remember his dog a grey ghost my name is Joe Fagan sr. BLESS the family RIP

Dennis Deitch

March 4, 2025

Saddened by Tommy's passing, he would drive his tractor down Route 9 to do work at his properties and every time he would see me he'd ask if I needed anything plowed, tilled or cut in the backyard. Genuinely giving guy.

Sister Marjorie Smith

March 1, 2025

Remembering your Dad with the fondest memories!

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1:30 p.m.

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1 Harbor Rd, Beesleys Point, NJ

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