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DARLENE CLAY Obituary
A Time To Be Born: Darlene was born on June 12, 1955, to the late Calvin Clay and Gladys Green in Richmond, VA. She was also preceded in death by one brother, Calvin Clay, Jr. She was educated in the Chesterfield County and Petersburg, VA, Public Schools, and graduated in 1972. After graduating she was employed as a private nurse aide.
A Time To Live: Anyone who was blessed to come in contact with her immediately knew that dance and music were her first love. Darlene fortunate enough to win a "Soul Train Dance Competition" which afforded her the opportunity to perform on Soul Train at the same time as the Jackson 5 where popular and also appeared. Darlene was also known for her infectious personality and humor. She would be able to make you "smile and laugh" upon entering a room with her "radiant personality." Darlene was blessed with two children, a daughter, Lewisha and a son, Donald.
Darlene accepted Christ at an early age and was baptized at A.M.E. Zion Methodist Church in Chester, VA. There she participated in the youth choir and other youth programs.
A Time To Mourn: Darlene leaves her children, Lewisha Hoskins (Eliza) and Donald Clay; two grandchildren, Skyla Clay and Kelvin Clay; sisters, Willenette Scott, Jacqueline Clay (Willie), Debra Bryant and Pamela Jones; brothers, Thurlo Clay and Larry Clay; step-sisters, Rebecka Clay-Hill, Margaret Clay (Makini) and Gloria Dunham; step-brothers, Clifford and Carlton Clay; aunts, Ethel Lewis and Mary Thomas (Abd); uncles, Joseph J. Clay, Charles S. Clay (Sarah) and Eugene Green; long-time companion, Benjamin Henley; a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, other relatives and friends.
Service will be held 3:00 p.m. Saturday, September 21, 2019, in the Chapel of J.M. Wilkerson Funeral Establishment, Inc., 102 South Avenue, Petersburg, VA, Elder Vernon Waller, eulogist. The interment will be private.
J.M. Wilkerson Funeral Establishment, Inc., 102 South Avenue, Petersburg, VA, (804) 732-8911, watch the funeral services live online at www.jmwilkersonsince1874.com.
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Julane Armbrister
September 23, 2019
Darlene's (Wyouka) personality and smile would light up a room. She was a free and giving spirit. To the entire family, we pray that you will always be blessed by fond memories that you shared with her and the knowledge that she is with the Lord.
Love,
John and Julane Armbrister
Sherella Braswell-Daniels (Clay)
September 21, 2019
My Aunt has received her wings to exit this earth entering her new home. Sleep In peace.
Latoya Snowden
September 21, 2019
As I prepare to make this journey to see you for the last time to say my final goodbye tears flood my eyes knowing this is the last time, I will see you. I can remember how we use to joke about how short you were and how I was not that taller than you lol. I am going to miss those early morning 3-way calls with you and my mother and we would just laugh and talk about nothing really lol lol but enjoyed hearing each other voices. I am going to miss your BIG Smile, our talks and MOST IMPORTANTLY I am going to MISS YOU. I LOVE YOU Auntie. Until we meet again. XOXOXOXOXOXO
Your Loving Niece
Latoya
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Karen Clay-Braxton
September 19, 2019
My deepest sympathy to the family of Darlene Clay May she rest in Heavenly Peace
Jenene Johnson
September 19, 2019
To Ms. Jackie Clay and family, I offer this prayer...
Father Jehovah... I ask that your Spirit of love, comfort, peace, and strength be with this family during this sad time. Father wrap each one of them in your caring arms as they experience their individual moments of emotions. In the times of reflection, let them hold onto the sweet memories of laughter and love they shared with their beloved sister and mother. Father you are our strength in times of uncertainty a solid rock that we can stand on for support. I ask that every door that needs to be open for this family is granted. Release your Spirit of peace and joy as they come together to celebrate the life and legacy of Darlene. As the days unfold ahead...let them continue to look to you for their strength and encourage them that earth has no sorrow that Heaven can't heal. Father, thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. In Jesus Name... Amen
Brenda McLeon
September 18, 2019
Behold His Everlasting Glory Dear Cousin Darlene.
May the Lord Bless Your Loved Ones with His Matchless Strength and The Peace that Surpasses All Understanding in the Name of Jesus Christ Amen.
Love,
Cousin Brenda and Family
Andrea Stafford
September 18, 2019
Clay Family, during this time of loss I pray that God's hands will stretch wide and cover all of you with his love and peace. May you find comfort. My deepest sympathy
Jacqueline Clay
September 18, 2019
"May The Flame Never Burn Out ... Forever in my Heart!"
Valerie A Brown
September 18, 2019
I light thiscandle for Darlene
Valerie S Brown
September 18, 2019
To the Clay family, I am sending my deepest sympathy to your family. I am sending you love and prayer of hope during this time.
Pamela Jones
September 17, 2019
Darline... Sleep well my sister... I'm glad I had the time I spent with you ..and you will remain in my heart and memory.. Your baby sister. Pamela clay Jones
Sandra Johnson
September 17, 2019
To the Clay Family. I know that nothing seems to help the loss you now feel.
Even though your heart may be broken hold on for God's grace is sufficient. Continue to lean on Him for when youre at your weakest He will be your strength.
Skyla clay wyouka granduaghter
September 16, 2019
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Diane Robertson
September 16, 2019
To the Clay Family,Extending our deepest sympathy to your family during this time. Our prayers and blessings are with you.
No amount of words can express the pain that you are going through. We are sending you love and prayers and hope you are able to find strength during this dark time.
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Greg K. Gibbs
September 16, 2019
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Your granddaughter lost a piece of her but i'am her bandaid mommy....
donald clay
September 16, 2019
Mommy....
I won't give in and won't give up I will always be goofy happy kind and a dreamer....
donald clay
September 16, 2019
Mommy...
I don't know everything about earth and the reasons but im going to be of service to people around me. I love you more then yesterday and the day after as you always tell me. Ill see you some day me you and GOD can talk about this journey and experience. I'll always be happy, goofy, full of smiles because that's how you made me and you always said for me to never lose that gift "I WONT" its a mean cruel world out here but I got this..... lol your the "BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO ME.
Jacqueline Clay
September 16, 2019
My Dearest Sister,
As I sit here thinking of you with tear-filled eyes, I can only think of the good times we had, the conversations that lasted for hours and hours at a time. My, my, time sure does go fast! I know you are in a better place and that GOD only takes the "best" ... but it still hurts! Just knowing that I have a "Special ANGEL" up there looking out for me gives me the strength to go on and the fortitude during my pain. Heaven has gained an Angel and as they say: "Save a Seat for ME!"
Your Baby Sister Forever~~~
Love for Eternity --- Jacqueline
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