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NELSON SPEIGHTS Obituary

A Time to be Born

SFC (Ret) Nelson Speights was born August 27, 1933 to the late Charles Matthews Speights and Tivis Dickens Speights in Marianna, FL. He was the baby of eight siblings, Rufus (Inez), Castoria (Harold), Elma (Lula), Kayola (Charles), Fletcher (Margaret), Pearlie (Flozell), Elenora (Elijah) all of whom preceded him in death. Nelson's wife the lovely Margaret Cowan Speights also preceded him in death after 55 glorious years of marriage.

A Time to Work

Nelson enlisted in the United States Army immediately after graduation from Jackson County Training School, Class of 1952 in Marianna, FL (Jackson County). He served with distinction and valor with the famous 82nd Airborne Division, Fort Bragg, NC. Much of his career was during peacetime. Out of state tours included: one tour in the Panama; Canal Zone and three during the Vietnam War that included combat in the Battle on Hamburger Hill. After retirement from military service he and his family settled in Petersburg, VA.

Nelson was a master gardener and shared his "crops" with friends and neighbors. He and Margaret always had canned and frozen food on hand. They also enjoyed traveling extensively but Nelson's heart was never far from home. He and his family worship regularly at the Base Chapel in Fort Lee, VA, however Bethlehem A.M.E. Church, Cottondale, FL was his home Church.

A Time to Die

Nelson passed away on July 13, 2020 at Southside Regional Medical in Petersburg, VA after recently declining health.

A Time to Reflect

Nelson leaves surviving family with saddened hearts but precious memories to his sons, Mitchell Speights of Richmond, VA and Anthony Speights of Petersburg, VA; grandsons, Anthony Speights, Jr., Alexander Speights of Raleigh, NC and their mother, Adrian; nieces, Lucy Speights Hawthorn (Lambert) and Helen Speight both of Marianna, FL, Beverly Evans Long of Tampa, FL, Eva Speights of Orlando, FL, Mattie Young (Charlie) of Leesburg, LA, Ruby Speights Jones and Juanita Speights of Newark/East Orange, NJ, Tonya Scott Henderson (Vic) of Fort Pierce, FL; nephews, Johnny Speights (Leola) of Marrianna, FL, Eddie Fields of Port St. Joe, FL, Ronald Scott (Karen) of Ocala, FL, Alfonso Chester and Charles Allen Chester (Lettia) of Fort Pierce, FL, Elder James Hubert Chester of West Palm Beach, FL, Glenn Speights of Owens Mill, MD, Calvin Speights (Carolyn) of San Antonio, TX, Vernon Speights of Marianna, FL, Alvin Speights of Tampa, FL, Elmer Speights, Jr. of Waco, TX and Fletcher Speights, Jr. of Newark , NJ; sisters and brothers-in-law, Katherine DeWitt, Josephine Remar, Annie Ashford (George), Robert Cowan (Martha); and a host of nieces, nephews, great nieces, great nephews, cousins, other relatives and friends.

Service will be held 11:00 A.M., Saturday, July 25, 2020 in the Chapel of J. M. Wilkerson Funeral Establishment, Inc., 102 South Avenue, Petersburg, VA. The interment to follow at Dale Memorial Park.

Please follow the CDC and State of Virginia guidelines.

J.M. Wilkerson Funeral Establishment, Inc., 102 South Avenue, Petersburg, VA, (804) 732-8911, watch the funeral services live online at www.jmwilkersonsince1874.com.

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Published by The Progress-Index from Jul. 23 to Jul. 24, 2020.

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George Monroe

July 27, 2020

I'm sorry to hear of SFC Speights' passing. Soldier and loyal citizen of the country and the neighborhood. Rest now dear soldier. And to the family my deepest regrets.

Kim C thomas

July 26, 2020

I worked with Nelson at ICI in Hopewell when he was a security guard I had the utmost respect for him and his time that he spent in the military which I always thanked him for he was a man of very few words at work with the exception of I know for a fact he loved his family I would like to wish my condolences to all of you

Carol Howard

July 25, 2020

It deeply saddens me to hear of Mr. Speights passing. I met him once at a large birthday celebration for my aunt. He seemed to be such a warm, funny and friendly person. i wish to express my deepest sympathy to my cousin, Glenn Speights and his entire family. Rest well Mr.Speights.

Annie Raye Cowan-Carr

July 25, 2020

I extend my deepest sympathy to Mitchell, Anthony and all the Speights Family. Annie Raye Cowan-Carr, Alba Carr

Lambert (Dodie) Hawthorne

July 25, 2020

Goodbye for now Uncle Nelson.

Thank you for so many memories in my lifetime. Sheila & I always speak fondly and with much laughter of you and our family restaurant meal together in Dothan 20 years ago!

I will always remember the time we visited together in Raleigh and had cold beers and you told me of some of your time in the service. We talked for hours that evening and
I never forgot that time. It was the one time I had to really enjoy you to myself.

You are missed.

Danielle Newman

July 24, 2020

To the Nelson Speights Family
I am so sorry for your loss. May your father rest in peace. May your father join your mother once again.

Russell Jefferson

July 24, 2020

You did well ole friend. Now RIP You will be missed.

Nelson, Elenora, Pearlie Mae, Elmer and Castoria. May they all and rejoice and welcome the last of the family. Welcome home Uncle Nelson. The family awaits you. Vernon

Vernon Speights

July 24, 2020

Branson Ashford

July 23, 2020

My deepest sympathy my uncle was 1 of a kind and will be in our hearts Always. R.I.H.

Annie Ashford

July 23, 2020

In love and memories to my brother-in-law and the Speights Family. Stay strong. Lots of love

Alfonso Chester

July 23, 2020

We will miss you greatly.You inspired all of the family to do and be good.

Tonya Scott Henderson

July 22, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful Uncle. Love you Mitchell and Anthony.

Mr. Elisha & Mrs. Elsa Howerton

July 21, 2020

To the Speights Family, our heart goes out to you all. Mr. Speights was a nice, very wise man, and father figure to all of us that knew him as we grew up in the neighborhood. He was well respected in the Village of Ettrick. He will surely be missed. To be absent from the body, is to be with the lord. May God continue to keep you and the Speights Family.


Mr. Elisha & Mrs. Elsa Howerton

Helen Speights

July 18, 2020

Rest in Heaven, Umcle Nelson

Pauline Gore

July 16, 2020

Mitchell and Anthony, please accept our heartfelt sorrow in the homegoing of your father. He and Gore were such good friends and strong soldiers.

Sessoms Family

July 15, 2020

Your Dad was a kind, quiet soul. Our hearts go out to Anthony and Mitchell in your time of sorrow.

Harry ans Constance Kenney

July 15, 2020

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