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ARMS, JONATHAN D., loving father, financial counselor and advisor, community leader, and compassionate friend, died unexpectedly at his home in Providence, Rhode Island, Sunday, October 26, 2008. Jon was 39 years old.

Born in Cleveland, Ohio in 1969, he was the son of Margot D. Stone, currently of Marion MA, and the late David S. Arms. Jon moved to Marion with his parents and sister Robin in 1976 at the age of 7. He was educated at the Sippican School, Friends Academy, and Tabor Academy, graduating from Tabor with highest honors in 1987. He then attended Dartmouth College, graduating summa cum laude in 1991, with a double major in Psychology and Economics. He received his M.B.A. from Stanford Business School in 1995 with a certificate in Non-Profit Management.

Jon began his career as a management consultant with McKinsey & Company in New York, where he worked for 4 years. He later served as an equity research analyst with Dresner RCM Capital Management in San Francisco CA until 1999, when he returned to Marion to become a Vice President and Investment Manager for American Research and Management Company, a firm his father had helped to found some 20 years earlier.

After returning to the east coast, Jon became involved with a number of community and charitable organizations. From 2000 to 2005 he served as Treasurer and Chairman of the Investment Committee for the Sippican Historical Society. During the past five years he also served as a member of the Investment Committee for the Gordon School (East Providence RI) and Friends Academy (N. Dartmouth MA), while also serving as Chairman of the Town of Marion's Music Hall Advisory Committee.

Beyond his professional and civic life, he was a man of many diverse passions. He loved traveling, blue water sailing, mountain biking, playing his guitar, touring on his motorcycle. He was a reader and seeker of spiritual enlightenment. He was a lover of music. He was a compassionate friend. But most of all he was a loyal and dedicated father who valued his time with his two young children and loved them before all else.

Survivors include his grandparents Elizabeth and Charles Arms of Marion MA and John Davenport of Cleveland OH; his mother Margot and her husband David Stone of Marion MA; his sister Robin, her husband Timothy Shields, and their children Abigail age 5 and Benjamin age 2, all of Fairhaven MA; his own children, Ella age 7 and Salter age 4, and their mother Heejun Hong of Providence RI; his cousin, Heather Stuckey of NYC; and his aunts, Deborah Stuckey and Drew Davenport both of Mayfield Heights, OH.

A Memorial Service will be held at 11:00 AM Saturday, November 15, at the Wickenden Chapel at Tabor Academy, Spring St., Marion, MA. Gifts in Jonathan's memory and in honor of Ella and Salter Arms may be made to the Gordon School, 45 Maxfield Ave, E. Providence RI 02914.

Arrangements by Chapman, Cole & Gleason Funeral Home, Wareham, MA. For directions and on-line condolences, please visit: www.ccgfuneralhome.com

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Published by The Providence Journal on Nov. 2, 2008.

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Christine Blanchet

March 23, 2009

My memory of Jon dates back to my freshman year at Dartmouth. Freshmen were not allowed into fraternities so I would sneak into the window to dance with him. I will always remember his lovely smile, his sparkling blue eyes and his exuberance. My blessings to those he left behind. Christine Blanchet, Class of 1992, Dartmouth

November 16, 2008

Jon may you rest in eternal peace in heaven. My blessings to all those left behind that loved him so dearly

November 16, 2008

Good bye to you Jon....May you rest in eternal peace in heaven where I know you now are. And may the hearts that so sorely miss you be also blessed with peace..........

Genie Rice Egerton-Warburton

November 12, 2008

My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Arms family and Jon's children. I remember Jon's happy smile and wonderful personality at Tabor. He will be truly missed!! Thinking of all his family during this sad, sad time. Warmly- Genie Rice (Tabor- class 1989)

Matthew Pappas

November 10, 2008

I am deeply saddened by the news of Jon's death. I was a classmate and teammate of his at Tabor Academy. I remember him as an incredibly bright and exceptionally kind person. My heart goes out to his family...

- Matt Pappas (Tabor '87)

Joshua Stewart

November 10, 2008

My love and prayers to all the Arms, Bogels, Parcells, Wagoners and Stewarts.... We have all lost a special person and Jon will be missed.

Michael O'Flynn

November 9, 2008

I am saddened to hear the news of Jon's untimely death, and pray for the repose of his soul.

Melissa Hinebauch

November 5, 2008

I am so sad to hear of Jon's passing. He was a dear friend of mine at Dartmouth. I remember our many ski trips, wacky dances, and psychology experiments together.

A brilliant, buoyant and bold person, John was always up for an adventure. Jon was also a loyal friend and good listener. I will remember his joyful smile, spontaneous nature, and boyish charm always.

My thoughts are with all of those who loved Jon. The world was a better place with him in it.

Jim Feroce

November 5, 2008

Grew up in Marion with Jon. Recalling today a scout canoe trip down the Saco river with him, his sister and late dad. Peace to his family.

Jennifer Feroce MacDonald

November 5, 2008

Deep sympathies to the Arms family.

Tammie & Jeff Shields

November 5, 2008

We had the pleasure of meeting Jon at Robin & Tims' wedding. God speed.
Our thoughts & prayers are with you all at this very sad time.

Lynda Bogel

November 5, 2008

Perplex'd in the extreme

Night falls too fast

His failing light confounds us all.

As an infant even, Jon lit us up. I see him in footie pajamas, in The Lodge in Huron City, dashing from one to another aunt and cousin to kiss us all goodnight; that grin, that golden joy. The rest of the evening was dimmer, for his going off to sleep.

An afternoon in Marion became brighter, for sharing a simple lunch with Jon. Those eyes held me, assuring that all his attention was with me. Was there not enough light that could come back to him, to match his, to sustain him?

That golden loving boy, that loving man.

Peace and gentleness forever to Ella and Salter, Margot, Robin, Betsy and Chuck.

I am Jon's father's close cousin, and hope for everyone's understanding.

Sarah (Russell) Stefanak

November 4, 2008

Some of my fondest memories of college were spent in the company of Jon. My sincerest condolences to his family and closest friends...no one could light up a room like Jon.

Laura Lovelace

November 4, 2008

Jon was in my dormitory at Dartmouth and one of the first people I met. We gave each other career advice while he lived in NYC and frequently pondered the meaning of "life." I am shocked and saddened to hear this news. He left behind many memories of joy.

Garrett Gryska

November 4, 2008

Zander and I will miss Jon...he was our new friend that we shared so much in common with. He is a tremendous loss to the community!
God Speed, Jon!

John Eggleston

November 4, 2008

Jon and I became friends at Dartmouth and I last saw him at a reunion there dancing with his young child in arms. I have thought often of that sight as I raise my own 2 young sons. I will miss you, buddy.

Karen (Weltchek) Mueller GSB '95

November 3, 2008

Although it has been years, I can conjure images of Jon's friendly, smiling face as if I just saw him, with his indelible and infectious happy vibe. What a loss...I am heartbroken for Jon's loved ones...

Kim Taylor

November 3, 2008

Robin, Margot and the entire Arms family. I was deeply saddened to hear about the death of Jon. There are many great memories we all share of him from our days growing up in Marion. With deepest sympathy.

Alex von Summer

November 3, 2008

Jon was one of the first friends I made at college. He was kind, outgoing, caring, fun, and very bright. He was a joy to know. He will be greatly missed as he brought great enthusiasm to everything that he did. He helped me make friends, he helped me have fun, and he even helped me with my math homework. He was a great guy!

Kristin Taylor

November 3, 2008

I baby sat for Jon as a young boy. He was such a loving and smart kid. I left New England after college and moved to San Diego. I had hoped one day we might speak given my role in Investor Relations for the technology firm I have been with for ten years. Sadly, we never did talk. My thoughts go out to his two children, Margot and Robin.

Kirk Mills

November 3, 2008

Just a great guy. always smiling.

Kenneth Anthony

November 3, 2008

I am very sorry for the family's loss. Jonathan was a warm, fun, and energetic person that cared about others. He was a real optimist and left this world too young. You have our heartfelt sympathy.

Eric Chin

November 3, 2008

I had the pleasure of befriending Jon at Dartmouth. He was a wonderful person and represented the best parts of the Dartmouth esprit...smart, athletic, cultured, and social. He will be dearly missed. Sincere regards, Eric '91

Eddie Gilmartin

November 3, 2008

He was a great friend to me at Dartmouth and thinking of him since then has always brought a great smile to my own face. He will continue to brigthen the world shining through those of us lucky enough to have known him. Condolences to all who mourn this great loss.

Jenell Haas

November 3, 2008

Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and that this is a devastating loss to the Tabor community. Jon was a remarkable young man who was truly loved by everyone.

Holly Ainslie

November 3, 2008

Jonathan was truly a gentle soul, I feel blessed to have known such a sweet man. I will always see his smiling face when I think of him and am grateful to be left with wonderful memories.

gerry travers

November 2, 2008

i only met you a couple of times sorry to hear the lost of your son i know he will be surely missed take care i am diane rezendes sister gerry

Eleanor & Bob Sundblad

November 2, 2008

Such a sad day. You have our heartfelt sympathy.

Peter Whealton

November 2, 2008

I did not know him well but I never saw him without a broad smile on his face.

Judy Waller, (Davidson)

November 2, 2008

Margot and Robyn I am so sorry for your loss of a truly wonderful person. Words cannot say enough about how fantastic Jon was and he will be in so many hearts forever. May you always have great memories of him especially during this difficult time.

Laura (TAFT) Mercer

November 2, 2008

I am a childhood friend of Jon's and I am very sad to hear this news.Jon was ALWAYS silly,laughing and ready for action in the nieghborhood.Although most of my time I really knew Jon,was when we were in elementary school, those days have a lasting impression on me as fun,free,lazy days- times when kids bonded to each other because we seemed to have TIME.
My deepest condolences go to everyone in jon's family and especially his children-may the universe be gentle with them and bring them understanding & love**

diana taft

November 2, 2008

Words cannot express how I feel when receiving the news of Jon's passing. He will be missed as well as that smile that could brighten a room. All my love to your family, Diana

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