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for Larry Friedlander
Jim Sullivan
February 23, 2025
I miss you my friend.
Mariah Almonte
February 22, 2024
Hey Lar...so many years passed and yet The Hi Hat is still in my DNA.
Thank you again for sharing your vision and the protection your establishment provided..
Everything was outstanding!
Premier jazz club..
Love Always
Mariah Almonte
Jeffrey T Gardner
February 22, 2024
We Love you Larry. Miss you all the time. I can hear you laughing...
J. Gio Murillo (Santa Mamba)
February 22, 2023
I will always remember Larry with his big smile, passion for the music, for his family, charisma, and for sharing Life.
Gio Murillo
Santa Mamba
March 15, 2011
Ann, "L" will always be in our hearts for Larry was a genuine & kind individual. We knew L since the early seventies but in recent years only saw him at the Hi Hat. But he always treated us like close friends. I'll miss that smile so much. Paul & Janet Carbone
Joe Agresta
March 14, 2011
Dear Ann,
I was saddened to hear about Larry. I remember him and the whole family fondly from long ago when my son played Little League with William. My deepest condolences.
March 7, 2011
Dear Ann & Family-Larry was my accountant for 19 years. He took me on 19 years ago when I was a divorcing 30 year old single mom in a heap of trouble with the IRS. He saw me through that audit and was a trusted friend and advisor ever since. He earned my loyalty then and he will be missed. Dawn M. Richardson MD
Andrea Aiello
March 7, 2011
Erica and Family,
I am so sorry to hear the news. Know that I am thinking about you and keeping you in my prayers. My deepest Sympathy.
March 5, 2011
Dear Ann and Family,
Our deepest sympathy for Larry's untimely passing. In the 40 years we've been friends we never had a cross word or argument because we were either pulling a practical joke or just enveloped in listening to some awesome tunes. That freshman year in 1971 at URI when we first met I knew he was one of the great ones, especially when he lit my dorm room door on fire. Then the "big time wrestling" sessions in the URI pub which resulted in improving Larry's good looks as he went to the ER for a broken nose. Then there were the pool hustling days which led him to the 8-ball tournaments at the Riveria in Las Vegas and topping off the night with Chinese food, fond memories. I've never met another man like him and I was privileged to call him my friend. Larry will be long remembered as a caring father and husband, passionate, fun loving man who lived his dream,the Hi Hat. All our love and prayers are with you.
The Paglio Family, Las Vegas, NV
Victor Jr, Donna, Victor III, Veronica
Americo Correia
March 4, 2011
Dear Ann and Family, Our deepest sympathy goes out to you. Larry will be greatly missed, he was such a wonderful person and friend. It is hard to believe that he is gone. Our prayers goes out to your family.
Americo and Maria Correia
March 4, 2011
Dear Friedlander family,
How sad we are to hear of Larry's passing. We will miss his big smile, hearty laugh and generous spirit. Our most heart felt sympathy,
Nancy Hetherington and
Elaine Martin
Joseph and Mary-Ellen Benevides
March 4, 2011
Dear Friedlander Family,
We are so sad to here of Larry's passing. We will miss our conversations about family, politics,and business. He was a kind hearted man who we always looked forward to seeing. Peace to the family in this difficult time.
March 4, 2011
So Sorry with Deepest Sympathy,May you find comfort in God"s love during this most difficult time.John Alemidia *Lori Zorabedian
March 4, 2011
Dear Ann and Family
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Mike and Peggy Quinn
March 3, 2011
Dear Ann and Family, our family sends out our sincere condolences to all of you. Larry was a really nice man, always a gentleman. You are in our prayers.
The Puleo Family,
Julia, Andrew, Valerie and Joseph
Tom Fish
March 3, 2011
Ann and Family,
I was saddened to hear of Larry's passing and wish to extend my sincere condolences. I enjoyed working with Larry at Price Waterhouse and appreciate all he did to host the many PW reunion events at the Hi Hat.
Shaun Miller
March 3, 2011
I was so shocked and saddened to hear of the passing of Larry; he will be deeply missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. If you need anything please do not hesitate to call.
Dominic Ragosta
March 3, 2011
Dear Ann & Family,
May God comfort you as you mourn the loss of your wonderful husband and father. I had such great respect and affection for Larry and I will reflect often on the outstanding way he lived.
March 3, 2011
Ann & Family
Words can never express how one feels when one of our loved ones have died so suddenly. At this time Angelo myself, and the girls want to express our sincere condolences and prayers to you and the family. We were saddened to hear of your recent loss. Sorry did not attend we found out too late. May Our Lord watch over you Ann, and the children for they have loss a great individual. His smile will last forever. Your husband, your friend, will live with you always.
Love
In sympathy
Angelo & Maureen Bigelli
Marissa & Briana Bigelli
Tim Mulligan
March 3, 2011
Even the west coast(Oregon) is a wee bit stunned over Larry's passing..Saw Larry for a fine summer meal on Federal Hill with Ron Marks and of course all the various people around us who gave a shout L's way ......We ended up at Hi Hat which he opened for us..and of course L poured us a pint each of Guinness...t'was the last time I saw Larry and is a most fitting memory of a most genuine individual...An honor to have been a friend of Larry's....My best of energies to the family...My St Pats party will hoist a "bevy" with the crowd in honor of Larry's special time with us all...L'chiam! Slainte!
Jarrod Broccoli
March 2, 2011
To the Friedlander family,
especially Ann Alicia and Erica,
as well as Joe and the Hi-Hat family,
my condolences and sympathy.
Ed Bryden
March 2, 2011
My deepest sympathy to the Freidlander family.Larry was such a great person and will be missed by all that know him had some great times with him playing pool.
Diane Gebhart
March 2, 2011
To the Friedlander Family,
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Larry's passing at such a young age. I had the pleasure and privilege of working with Larry at Mutual Benefit many years ago. He was always smiling, fun-loving and supportive, he taught me a lot! Please accept my condolences and know that I will keep Larry and your family in my prayers.
Ed Pickering
March 2, 2011
My deepest condolences to the Freidlander family. Larry was such a great person and always had a smile on his face.
Kelly Hersey
March 2, 2011
Dear Ann,
My deepest sympathy is extended to you and your family. Larry was a great boss and became someone who I looked at as a friend. During my time at the Hi Hat, Larry became my "Uncle Larry" too. My thoughts and prayers are with you and and your family.
Bob Ventrone
March 2, 2011
Ann and Family,
I was stunned by the news of Larry’s sudden passing. I have fond memories of Larry from our days at Bryant. My sincerest sympathy go out to all of you.
Tami Kirton-Doti
March 2, 2011
Sending my prayers and thoughts to the Friendlander Family during this very difficult time.
I worked with Larry many years ago at Mutual Benefit. In my opinion, he was the friendliest representative on the sales force. In the recent years I was reacquainted with Larry at La Moia as well as Hi Hat in addition to just running into him at the bank. Regardless of the place/time/etc. One thing remained constant and that was the warm friendliness that Larry exuded. Larry was a wonderful man!
God Bless You
Joe Barone
March 2, 2011
To my very best friend, you were my brother, you worked so hard to make The Hi-Hat a success, I will do my best to keep the your dream alive, Rest in Peace,
Love, Joe
David Pereira
March 2, 2011
Dear Ann,
Terry and I are very sad for your loss. We always looked forward to visiting Larry at the Hi Hat when we returned to visit family. He was a great friend and will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
March 2, 2011
In the world of accounting, there is only one "bionic pencil" - that was Larry. We will truly miss him. Our condolences to his family.
Jerry and Robin Jackman
Peggy DeLucca and Gil
March 2, 2011
Dear Ann and family,
May God give you all the strength to deal with a great loss. I had the honor of Larry's smile every day that he worked for over 20 years. He would stop at my glass door with a wink and a smile. He was my accountant, a compassionate, kind and gentle man and my good friend.
Tommy O'Connor
March 2, 2011
My deepest sympathies to all the family. Larry was a good man and will be missed.
Jerry T
March 1, 2011
They say you can truly tell the life a man has lived by his obituary. Larry was one in a million. Gonna miss you on tuesday nights buddy.
Darrell and Robin (Pena) Brown
March 1, 2011
To the Friedlander and Hi-Hat Family -
We are so shocked and saddened to hear of the passing your beloved Larry; he will be deeply missed. Please know our prayers and thoughts are with you. May happy memories see you through this difficult time.
mo lazib
March 1, 2011
to Larry's family,friend's and Hi-Hat family sorry for your loss. I have good memories, I will never forget." mo
Gerry Audette
March 1, 2011
So sorry to hear the news. My sympathies to Ann and the kids.
Mercier Family
March 1, 2011
Dear Erica and Family,
Our sincere sympathy go out to you and your family for the great loss of your father. May Faith, Family & Friends get you through these hardest of times.
Sincerely,
The Mercier Family
Angelyn Sotirakos
March 1, 2011
Dear Ann,
I know you have suffered many loses over the years and all I can do is pray for God to send you and and your beautiful children extra blessings during this most difficult time. God bless you Ann.
Dolores and Marvin
March 1, 2011
To Larry's family,friend's and Hi-Hat family, We are sorry for your loss. We have good memories, we will never forget.
March 1, 2011
Rest in Peace. Sympathies to the family.
March 1, 2011
Larry and the family will be in my prayers. He was a lovely man always able to comfort and care about others. He will be greatly missed by all. Joanne Gilden
Frank and Maureen DiTerlizzi
March 1, 2011
Dear Friedlander family and Hi Hat family,
We were shocked and saddened to hear of Larry's sudden passing. He was such a warm, gentle and kind man. We will miss him and keep you all in our thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time.
Dina Veiga
March 1, 2011
May your memories of Larry comfort you in this difficult time. He was an incredible man and friend. I am so sorry for your loss.
Dorothy Rogers
March 1, 2011
Dear Mr Friedlander's family, Mr Larry Friedlander was a customer here at the Rockland Trust Bank. Condolences to his family. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers."
Dorothy Rogers
Rockland Trust Bank
March 1, 2011
Dear Ann
Deepest sympathy on your loss.
I will always
remember Larry for his great work ethic.
Roger Francoeur
Delray Beach,Florida
Dennis Hughes
March 1, 2011
So sorry to hear about Larry. He was, truly, a nice guy. Condolences to his family.
Vic Rodrigues
March 1, 2011
To Larrys' Family,
My condolences to you all. He was a great guy he will be missed.
Jennifer Kieon
March 1, 2011
Dear Friedlander family,
My sincere condolences to you all on the sudden loss of Larry. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
George and Carol Mitola
March 1, 2011
We are deeply saddened by the loss of Larry. We have been friends with Larry over twenty -five years. He was always a kind gentleman with a great sense of humor-his hearty laugh will always be remembered. He was proud of his family and enjoyed sharing stories about his children and had a sincere interest about our children. We thought the world of Larry. We share in your loss and sorrow. We offer our heartfelt condolences.
March 1, 2011
God Bless your family in coping with this unexpected loss. We will miss you Uncle Larry!
Frank Monti
March 1, 2011
Ann and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about Larry and will remember all of you in my thoughts and prayers. Larry was a unique individual and will be missed by many. May he rest in peace.
March 1, 2011
Dear Ann & Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. Please take comfort knowing we share in your loss and sorrow.
Our deepest condolences,
Robert, Joan and Jennifer Lawson
March 1, 2011
Dear Ann and Family, We are very sorry to have lost Larry. The fine memories go back to 1971 at U.R.I. all the way thru last week when we spoke. He always managed to put a smile on his and my face not matter how hard life was at the time. He will be sadly missed by many. Jeffrey Nancy and Thomas Gardner
March 1, 2011
although we didnt stay in touch as much as we should have,can never forget the great times we shared at classical attending "big time wrestling". you were a great friend who leaves many fond memories...was really looking forward to reminiscing at the "reunion". well miss you eddie sammartino/class of 71
David Hill
March 1, 2011
Dear Ann & Family,
I am so sorry for your loss, I was looking forward to seeing Larry at our 40th high school reunion, Ann I have very fond memories of you, your parents and brothers as well when I worked at Tomco from 1969-71. Please know that you and your family will remain in my thoughts.
March 1, 2011
Larry,
Thanks for always making me feel like I was the special one in the room although we know you made everyone feel that way. I appreciate your friendship and your kindness. Even though I only had the pleasure of knowing you for a few short years you will always hold a special place in my heart. I will never forget how you introduced me to your many friends...."He is one of the good ones and there aren't too many of them left".
Deirdre will always remember her chats with you about the band Traffic and other musical tastes that you both had in common. You were her favorite at Alibis. It will never be the same without your booming laugh! God Bless you and your family.
Love,
Deirdre and Charlie
John Allmark
March 1, 2011
To the entire Friedlander family...
I thought the world of Larry and am so saddened by his loss. I'll miss that booming laugh and great sense of humor. He loved life, music and was so proud of his family. He was an example to all of us that it's possible to live your dream if you work hard enough and believe in yourself.
I'll always smile when I think of him and am proud to have been his friend.
To all of you I offer my heartfelt condolences and deepest sympathy.
May God bless.
Dave Hamel
March 1, 2011
"The World just lost a Great Man." - Dave Bebop Hamel.
Paul Mazzei
February 28, 2011
Larry will be greatly missed, he was a one of a kind friend that can't be replaced. Very sorry for your loss, Mrs. Friedlander & Family, Joe, Pete & his Mom. Paul Mazzei and Family
Rae
February 28, 2011
Deepest sympathies to you all, The Hi Hat has been such a memorable part of my life.
Mariah Almonte
February 28, 2011
I am grateful to you, Larry, for consistently providing the music for my danceful expression. Thru your intention, I felt safe and cared for at The HiHat. Never to be forgotten.....Peace to Larry's family...with a song in my heart....
The Zannini Family
February 28, 2011
We are so deeply sorry for your loss. God Bless.
Steve Bello
February 28, 2011
Larry was, well, fun. Always. I always had a great time with Larry. He will be missed.
To his wife and family - you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
February 28, 2011
All of you are in my thoughts. Sincere condolences
Todd Arrighi
Joanne Recchia
February 28, 2011
Dear Ann and Family,
We are very saddened to hear of your loss. Larry will be remembered for putting a big smile on my face with a one-liner about my dad that I wished I could have used at his eulogy. It got me through that very sad day. He was a great guy! You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
The Recchia/Votta Family
Kelly Alves
February 28, 2011
I am saddened to have just read the RIP on the Hi Hat Wed Site..I was so shocked..I haven't been there in a year but had planned on it this weekend. Larry was so personable, he was the nicest gentlemen, and I always made it a point to find him, when I went there before I left..I'm so sorry for your loss..He will be missed. May your memories give you strength..Sincerely, Kelly Alves, from Ma.
February 28, 2011
Dear Ann & Family,
We were shocked and saddened by Larry's passing. We have been friends for so long. He and your family will remain in our thoughts and prayers always. Larry will be deeply missed.
Our sincere condolences,
Sandy, Ernie & Sherrie Patricio
Jimmy Reynolds
February 28, 2011
I am saddened to hear of Larry's untimely passing. I know the pain of losing a loved one. May your memories of him give you strength to carry on.
Jimmy Reynolds Hi Hat Audio engineer 2004 to 2007
Stephen Graham
February 28, 2011
Larry was always so friendly and supportive of me and my causes. He helped numerous times with discounts and donations and always with a free drink, whether I wanted it or not. I will have nothings but good memories of Larry. I will miss his laugh, his conversation and his smile. Rest in peace Larry, you were one of the good ones.
Michael & Julie Fox
February 28, 2011
To The Friedlander Family:
Please accept our deepest sympathies on the loss of Larry. He was a true gentleman, professional and friend.
Frank Herrington
February 28, 2011
My sympathy, prayers and friendship to the Friedlander Family. Erica & William ( whom I've met ), lift up your heart, be filled with remembrance of joy, laughs and Love. I certainly will. Your Dad will always be watching over you.
Chris Wilterdink
February 28, 2011
Dear Erica and Family,
My most sincere sympathies are with you all. Erica has always been an incredible friend and a very thoughtful and generous person. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless
Dianne Colardo
February 28, 2011
Dear Friedlander Family,
Larry was my accountant and friend for over 18 years. He was also a true, compassionate friend to all. I could always count on him to make me laugh and see the optimistic side of things. He called himself my "Jewish Priest". I am so shocked and upset to hear of his passing. My sincerest sympathy goes out to all of you. God Bless Larry and the Friedlander family.
Anthony Dolbashian
February 28, 2011
To the Friedlander family
we are so sorry for your loss Larry will be saddly missed. Larry thanks for the great memmories love always your friends from the alibi cafe.
Peter Garzone
February 28, 2011
Please accept my sincere condolences on Larry's untimely passing. His quick smile and wit will be greatly missed by all.
Mike and Naomi Quadros
February 28, 2011
Dear Ann and Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy. Larry will truly be missed and always remembered.
Jennifer Megna
February 28, 2011
Dear Ann and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I had heard such wonderful stories about Larry from Ann, and I imagine that he will be missed by anyone he crossed paths with. I am here if you need anything.
February 28, 2011
Dear Ann & Family,
We are deeply saddened by Larry's passing. We had spent time with him two Saturdays ago. He was a wonderful friend and we will deeply miss his ingratiating smile.
Peacefully, Donna & Vin Mesolella
David Patriarca
February 28, 2011
Dear Ann and Family, Larry was very generous with his time and concern for his employees, his unexpected loss is so difficult, our prayers are with the family/children. Please accept our sympathy Dave & Deb Patriarca
Ellen and Petter Wallstrom
February 28, 2011
Larry was a wonderful man, and we are so sorry to hear of his passing. Our deepest condolences go out to his family. We'll really miss him.
Cindy Capezza
February 28, 2011
Dear Ann and family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy during this difficult time. May you find peace, love and strength in the memories you cherish.
Cecile Cardente
February 28, 2011
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
bob davis
February 28, 2011
..will never forget Larry covering for us ruffians in Mr Shapiro's Hebrew School class. He showed us then that even big guys could be real mensches.
..will not forget Flagg talking about the time when Al Morro saw Larry thru a compound-fracture from Classical football.
.. will not forget many years later catching up with you and Joe Bargar at the HiHat. I'll miss you alot Larry...
B. King
February 28, 2011
Thank you for Tuesday nites Larry, jazz be with you. Love never comes to an end.
Ed Mace
February 28, 2011
Dear Friedlander family-My sincere condolences to all for the sudden and unexpected loss of Larry.His vision provided a unique venue for so many musicians. Ed Mace
jim sullivan
February 28, 2011
My heart goes out to Ann and family, Thank you Larry for so many years of friendship and being a great accountant. I'm at a loss for words, bye my friend, you will be forever remembered and missed.
Stephen Hartley
February 28, 2011
To the Friedlander Family and the Hi Hat Family,
My thoughts are with you all as I have done many shows at the Hi Hat over the years and Larry was always a good sport with my jokes. I will miss him and his generosity every time we did a fundraiser at the Hi Hat. I will also miss his smile and the way made us feel welcomed.
Stephen Hartley AKA Kitty Litter
February 28, 2011
Dear Ann and family,
I extend my prayers and condolences to you on the death of your husband and father. I am unable to attend the services since I am in Italy. I will be in contact with you after my return. My sincerest sympathy on your loss, I know that God will give him rest and I pray God will give you comfort in your pain and sorrow. Sincerely,
Fr. Ed Cardente
Gio Murillo Santa Mamba
February 28, 2011
Dear Erica and Family,
Our most sincere condolences to you and your family.
Corinne Callahan
February 28, 2011
Mr Friedlander was a kind, understanding gentleman. I will always be thankful for the headstart he gave me upon my return to the US from the UK. He always had a smile with a laugh. My prayers are surrounding your family, GOD BLESS.
February 28, 2011
So long, Larry. You taught me some lessons back in the old days, and I benefitted greatly from knowing you for a short time. I will never forget the joy you gave me.
My sincere condolences to Ann and the rest. Larry was a man of uncommon integrity and the gifts he gave us will live on.
Tom Brien
Juie Allen
February 28, 2011
Dear Ann, Irma and family,
My deepest sympathy to you. Larry was the best boss I have ever had and he will be missed dearly. May he rest in peace. If there is anything I can do, please just let me know.
February 28, 2011
LARRY WAS A GREAT HUMAN BEING.A MAN OF GREAT COMPASSION,ALWAYS READY TO HELP THOSE IN NEED .HE TOUCHED MANY LIVES.HE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.AN EXTRODINARY PERSON.MY DEEPEST CONDOLANCES TO HIS FAMILY ,THAT HE WAS SO PROUD OF.BOBBY MANCINI ,AUSTIN,TEXAS.IRMA,CALL ME WHENEVER YOU CAN,PLEASE,I WOULD LOVE TO TALK TO YOU.512/569/2791
Peter Maroni
February 28, 2011
Dear Erica, We at the North Kingstown High Best Buddies are so sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathy for you and your family during this difficult time.
Jo-Anne Micheletti
February 28, 2011
To Ann and Family:
Everyone at Basta was so saddened to hear about Larry passing. We not only considered Larry a great customer but a Dear Friend. We will truly miss spending time with him at our establishment. If there is anything we can do for you please contat us.
Our Deepest Sympathy
The Entire Staff of Basta
Lou Vastano
February 28, 2011
Dear Ann and kids, I am so sorry for your loss. Larry was a great man and will missed by all.
Ross McDermott
February 28, 2011
I was saddened to hear of Larry's passing. He was a great guy and will be missed by all who knew him.
Jack Quattrocchi
February 28, 2011
To Ann and Family,
My deep sympathy at this time of loss. Larry was a mensch.
I hope that your many fond memories will comfort you and that you will find the strength to carry you through these times.
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