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Alan Coburn
April 22, 2008
Barbara
I'm sorry for your loss. Although not as great as you I also felt the loss. Leland operated on me when I was 9 years old. That operation allowed me to continue in life's road in good health. He was a gifted surgeon and a kind man. I thank God for Leland as he saved my life. Again I extend my sympathy to you Barbara and to the family.
Philip Jones
April 22, 2008
[Dear Friends: This is a transcript of the address I made at my dad’s memorial service on April 10th at Christ By the Sea church, Vero Beach. My remarks follow the address by Minister Dawn, who described the key milestones in my dad’s life, and the remarks of my sister Stephanie, who described key memories of dad from her perspective as a daughter, a mother of 2 children of her own, and a surgeon herself.]
[Philip arrives at the pulpit, looks out at attendees, adjusts to the lights.] Hello everyone… please allow me a few seconds to adjust to my surroundings. It’s been years since I’ve been in a church, [turning to look at Minister Dawn] sorry about that Minister Dawn perhaps we can talk about that after the service [subdued laughter from attendees] and only the second time that I’ve been behind a pulpit. Perhaps, Brad [looking at Brad Jones, cousin to Leland], you remember the first time. But that is a story for some other time and some other place.
To start please allow me to express the family’s deep appreciation to all of you here today for coming out and showing your respects to Barbara my dad. It’s good to see all of you.
I am number 6 of the Jones siblings. I actually started life as number five but when I was eleven years old my cousin Everett (thank you Minister Dawn for referring to him and the 11 children that we became) came to live with us after his dad and new step-mom were killed in a plane crash. Since Everett is one month older than I am at that point I became number 6… but that’s well okay in my book because he became an integral part of the gang then and is still to this day.
As some of the folks whom I’ve had the pleasure to meet down here know, I’ve lived in Asia for the last 15 years, most of that time in Japan. For someone from Japan to stand up and talk about a loved one’s various accomplishments, even among friends, is just not a part of the culture. In many respects I have absorbed that cultural conditioning but there is one achievement of my dad’s in particular for which I can easily set aside that conditioning. More than 30 years ago my dad, through a combination of Jones charm and determination, probably 9 parts determination and 1 part charm, convinced a wonderful lady from the south of our country to take up with him. This is remarkable because a few years prior to that, shortly after the death of my mother, my dad said to me something along the lines of, “Phil, I don’t mean any disrespect to your mother but I will never, ever go out with a southern woman again”. So when he started dating Barbara I reminded him of our conversation and asked him if he really wanted to go down this road. He assured me that he had everything worked out. And for sure that was true because not long after that Barbara and my dad got married and that way stayed for 29 loving years.
With Barbara’s love and influence in my dad’s life, during the course of those 29 years I had the chance to develop a closeness with my dad that, frankly speaking, was not there while growing up in a family of eleven kids. Maybe it was just the numbers. But Barbara brought out in my dad a warmth, that, while it had probably always been there, I just had never gotten to know firsthand. And she got him to, well, for the lack of better words, she got him to “lighten up”. My dad was the type of guy who never say issues in shades of gray, something was either right or wrong and that was it. Barbara got him to, well “insisted” would be more accurate I reckon, to slow down and, as they say, “smell the roses”. Yes it was okay to drink a glass of wine now and again, something unheard of in his previous life, and, yes, okay to take pleasure in sliding across the dance floor in the arms of one’s loving spouse.
Who here has heard of a rock band by the name of “Mike and the Mechanics”? [Turning to nephew Steven, grandson of Leland] Steven, maybe you can help me here. Several years back they released a song by the title of “In the Living Years”. In this song the writer refers to the inter-generational strife and squabbles that seem to arise in just about all families. His main regret is that, perhaps with the memories of those quarrels still in mind, he never had the chance to tell his dad that he loved him. Well, not “in the living years” anyway. With Barbara in my dad’s life I was able to get to the point where, while on the phone or saying goodbye at the doorway, that, yes, I could and did say that I love them both. [Pause]. While “in the living years”. For this I owe Barbara a debt of gratitude that can never get repaid. Barbara, [looking at Barbara], you are my favorite step-mom, and yes I know you are my only one, but you will be my step-mom until the end of time.
Now my dad is gone and Barbara will move on to yet another chapter in her life. In this new chapter I hope and expect that Barbara will find some dashing guy with whom to pass time together and take in a dance or two whenever the fancy strikes them. There’s just one thing, Barbara, that this new guy will need to understand… in getting you he gets a “package deal”. That is, along with you he gets your two loving sons, their families, and a loving step-son and more. If he can’t handle this then I guess you’ll need to find another guy. Not a problem because I know you can.
Thanks everyone.
....
Leland and Barbara, Vero Beach, 2005
April 22, 2008
Karin Kohl
April 14, 2008
With heartfelt sympathy. Dr. Jones and family attended the church of my childhood, Barrington Baptist. His daughter, Cynthia was a friend from childhood through the beginning of my college years. Dr. Jones was a great physician and innovator in his field. I know he will be greatly missed by many people.
God's peace--
Karin (Johnson) Kohl
Kevin&Candy DeGrenier
April 11, 2008
Barbara, Our thoughts and prayes are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Kevin really enjoyed working for you and Dr.Jones @ Jones Warehouse.Alot of good times at the Christmas Parties you had for your employers. Dr. Jones may you rest in peace.
TED Kobziak
April 10, 2008
Mrs. Jones
My condolences to you and family.
Dr.Jones was a fine man.
Your former now retired mail carrier.
Ted Kobziak
April 10, 2008
Mrs. Jones
My condolences to you and family on the passing of Dr.Jones. He was a fine man.
Your former now retired mail carrier.
Madeline freiberger
April 10, 2008
Barbara,
Please accept my sympathy and wish I could be there with you. Leland was a wonderful kind and compassiate man and an excellent doctor and surgeon I will always rremember him and also you for how kind you both were during Charlie's long illnesses. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I will contact you in a few days. Love Madeline
George Sherring
April 10, 2008
How do you say thanks to someone that gave me life. You were my doctor and best friend through it all. I can never stop thinking of you, and what a great man you were and also a great father.You will be missed for your foresight and your ability to teach and make other doctors to walk in your footsteps.I am so sorry for your family this is a great loss to everyone. I only know that god blessed me when he brought you in to my life, and I guess it is only fair for me to cry and to hurt with your passing. There will never be a time that I won't look up in the sky and say hi doctor Jones. As long as I live I will always tell people about you.
tom & charlene slidkevich
April 10, 2008
dear barbara
Please accept my sincere sympathy. it was a sure pleasure to work for you people when you had jones moving and storage. you and leland were top notch people. one of a kind. it was great to know you both may he rest in peace.
Christopher & Hazel Sirr
April 10, 2008
We extend our deepest sympathy to Mrs. Jones and family.
He was a highly talented physician and surgeon, but we also remember Dr. Jones as a very warm and kind human being. May your fond memories of him give you comfort at this sad time.
Ed Avery
April 10, 2008
Dear Barbara:
Please accept my sincere sympathy and prayers on the passing of your beloved Leland. Leland was such a fine example for all that were blessed to know him. His contributions to our human society were many. May God give you the strength and courage to withstand such a devastating loss.
Bruce Bennett
April 10, 2008
Barbara,
My mother Anne wife Patti (Matteson) Bennett and I send our condolences to you from Rhode Island.
Kenneth & Roseline Ringwood
April 10, 2008
R.I.P. my dear friend Leland,enjoyed swimming with you at the Sheraton,Warwick and seeing your beautiful wife,Barbara. We too live in FL,had I known I would have visited..my condolences to Barbara and your children,you were a fine gentleman,caring,always advising me of how to deal with my chronic back pain,we need more Leland's in this world,God be with you......
Cynthia E. Field
April 9, 2008
I am writing from Rhode Island and am pleased to be first to pay tribute to Dr. Jones. He saved the life of my mother (Ellen L. Field) on at least two occasions. He was a brilliant physician and a wonderful human being. May his beautiful soul rest in peace.
Lucretia Payton
April 8, 2008
Barbara-
My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family in this time of need.
Your best friend,
Lu
Kim Goldman
April 8, 2008
Barbara-
My thoughts and condolences are with you and your family.
Warm Regards,
Kim
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