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Matthew Barber Obituary

BARBER, MATTHEW H., 21, a student at URI, died Saturday April 16, 2011. Born in Newport, he was a beloved son of Ronald and Beverley K. (Gebelein) Barber of Jamestown. He was a lifelong resident of Jamestown. He was a graduate of The Jamestown Schools and North Kingstown High School. He was finishing his BS Degree in Electrical Engineering with a Physics Minor from the University of Rhode Island. He was an Engineering Intern at Northrop Grumman for the past two summers. Most recently, he was completing his CapStone Engineering Project at American Power Conversion. He was a warm-hearted, generous friend who was always willing to help. His latest adventure was a road trip with his friends to DC for the Rally to Restore Sanity. His favorite things was hanging out with his friends, playing video games, baking bread, and watching movies. He was the loving brother of Cheryl E. and Wesley J. Barber of Jamestown; cherished grandson of James and Dorothy Barber of Hope Valley, Margery and Edward Greenan of Jamestown, and Edward Gebelein of Winsted, CT. He is also survived by numerous loving aunts, uncles, and cousins. His Burial Rite will be held Thursday April 21, 2011 at 10am in St. Matthews Episcopal Church, 87 Narragansett Avenue, Jamestown. Burial will follow in Cedar Cemetery, Jamestown. Relatives and friends are invited to visitation Wednesday 4-8pm in the FAGAN-QUINN Funeral Home, 825 Boston Neck Road, North Kingstown. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory to the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation (JDRF), 2374 Post Road, Suite 203, Warwick RI 02886 would be appreciated. For information and condolences visit: FaganQuinnFuneralHome.com

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Published by The Providence Journal on Apr. 19, 2011.

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Kathryn MacKenzie

April 13, 2023

Thinking of everyone and remembering Matthew´s sweet, quiet demeanor. I include him in my nightly prayers and think of him on my and Neil´s anniversary.

Peggy & Bill Keating

April 22, 2011

Ron, Bev, Cheryl & Wes,

We were so saddened to hear of your loss. Bill has such great memories of coming to your house and hanging out with Matt. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Elisabeth Gregoire

April 21, 2011

I am so, so sorry for your family. I remember Matt from Jamestown Elementary and Middle school, particularly the Alton Jones 6th Grade trip when I was in his day group. He was such a sweet, kindhearted person.

Keivan Ettefagh

April 21, 2011

I am so very sorry, sad, and shocked to hear about Matt. I will always remember him as one of the happiest boys I have had the pleasure to watch grow up. We will all miss him. With deepest sympathy.

April 20, 2011

Ron, Bev, Cheryl and Wes, we love you. You must be very proud of who Matt was and how much he was respected and loved by so many people. Cousins Kathy, Neil, Courtlyn, Ryan & Autumn

Molly Bandola

April 20, 2011

Matt and I were in Mr. Foley's homeroom together for 4 years at NKHS. At URI I would often pass him walking with a smile on his face and chatting with friends. Though words do not begin to express the pain of losing such a kindhearted and genuine person, I extend my thoughts and energy to your family in this time of sorrow.

John & Lorie Van Hook

April 20, 2011

I am very sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Ken Springhetti

April 20, 2011

Im very sorry, Matt was a bright and friendly young man.

DC & MC

April 20, 2011

Deepest sympathies -- He will live on forever in your hearts & memories. Always remember the good times. You've raised a good man.

kathy suzzi

April 19, 2011

I did not know Matt very well, I know he was a great guy, and will be sadly missed by many. You and your family are in our prayers. There are no words that can take you pain away just time and holding on to all the wonderful memories that Matt has bestilled in all that he met.
So very sorry for your loss
Hank and Kathy Suzzi

Ann&David Dougherty

April 19, 2011

words can't console the hurt that you both are feeling right now. Matt will be truly missed by so many.He was a sweet big bear with a wonderful smile,we're here if you need us.
~with lots of love~

Caitlin

April 19, 2011

I am so very sorry for your family's loss. I grew up with Matt on Jamestown and went to school with him all through high school. Although we weren't close, I remember him well, and he was an incredibly friendly person! He will be dearly missed by those close to him and I offer my condolences.

Melissa & Mike Pinksaw

April 19, 2011

We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that your friends at the JFD are all here for you in your time of need.
~Much love & respect to the family~

April 19, 2011

Time has taken me from you,
Although not very far.
I'll be watching through the sunshine
And through the brightest star.

I'll be watching all of you,
From the heavens up above.
So take good care of each other
And carry all my love.

If you're ever wondering
If I'm there, here's where you can start.
Take a look inside yourself
Deep within your heart.

I'll always be your baby,
Your child (grandchild), your best friend.
So anytime you need me,
Close your eyes I'm back again.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
With Sympathy,
Betsy and Larry Riccitelli

April 19, 2011

My deepest condolences for the Barber family. Matt was a great guy and will always be missed. - A friend at URI

W W

April 19, 2011

You don't know me but the obituary brought tears to my eyes. With sincere sympathy and condolences of your loss to the family.

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