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Raymond Ouellette Obituary

OUELLETTE, RAYMOND, A., 65, formerly of Riverside and Tiverton, died peacefully on July 16, 2010 at the Dartmouth Hitchcock Medical Center, Lebanon, NH. He was the beloved husband of Paula M. (Gonsalves) Ouellette.

Born in Adams, MA, a son of the late Raymond J. and Sarah B. (Fortin) Ouellette, he lived in East Providence for 30 years and Tiverton for 5 years.

Mr. Ouellette was a registered Representative for New England Financial for the past 5 years. He previously was with Almerica Financial for 22 years. Raymond was a communicant, eucharistic minister and lecturer at St. Brendan Church. He was a 30 year member of the St. Brendan Church choir, a 10 year member of St. Brendan Parish Council and also was a confirmation teacher.

Mr. Ouellette was a graduate of Providence College Class of 1971. He also studied at St. Joseph's and St. John's Seminary in Maine. He was a ten year member of the East Providence Community Chorus and former Treasurer of the RI Life Underwriters. He enjoyed spending time with his family.

Besides his wife of 41 years, he is survived by a son; Timothy P. Ouellette and his wife Kathy of North Thetford, VT, five sisters; Anita Mulcahy of Woonsocket, Lucille Ouellette of Westerly, Doris Santoro of South Kingstown, Florence DiFanti of North Kingstown and Michelle Alexyon of Cary, NC and six grandchildren. He was the father of the late Ann-Marie Blake.

His funeral will be held on Wednesday July 21, 2010 from the W. RAYMOND WATSON FUNERAL HOME, 350 Willett Avenue, Riverside at 8:45 am with a Concelebrated Mass of Christian Burial in St. Brendan Church, Turner Avenue, Riverside at 10 am. Graveside burial will follow in Gate of Heaven Cemetery. Calling hours are Tuesday 4-8 pm. Flowers are respectfully omitted. Contributions in Raymond's memory to St. Brendan Church, 60 Turner Avenue, Riverside, RI, 02915 or St. Theresa Church, 265 Stafford Road, Tiverton, RI, 02878 or the ALS Association of RI, 2915 Post Road, Warwick, RI, 02886 would be deeply appreciated.

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Published by The Providence Journal on Jul. 18, 2010.

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Ron Valiquette

July 13, 2022

Ray was a good man, I continue to pray for his family and friends. God bless John 3:1-21

Sister Isabel Borg-Cardona

August 17, 2010

Dear Paula, Tim and family,

I returned from my visit to my family in England and in Malta, and from my retreat, and learned the sad news of your great loss. I was sorry not to have been able to be there for this difficult time of your life, but Ray will continue to be in my prayers, along with all of you, his beloved family. The passing of a gentleman is one that will remain in our minds and hearts, as will all the years of friendship with your family. God bless and give you comfort and strength.

Isabel Peck

July 26, 2010

To the Ouellette Family, I had the priveldge and pleasure of knowing Ray for many, many years when I worked with Jerry Cayer. He truly was a wonderful, kind man and will be missed by many. My condolences and deepeset sympathies go out to you and all who knew him.

Hilary & Peter Fournier

July 22, 2010

Dear Paula, Tim and Kathy, Dana, Tina, Sarah, David and Jessica, We were so saddened to hear of Ray's passing. His good deeds, caring nature and love of Jesus has certainly ensured his place of honor in heaven. May the peace of that knowledge comfort you. He left quite a legacy of love. Peace to all of you.
-Hilary, Peter, Raymond, Madeleine, Noel and Lucien

Ron Valiquette

July 22, 2010

Ray was a trusted friend who helped me dearly with insurance needs. But most of all he was a man of God and loved the world. I will surely miss you my friend. It was so good to see you again last month by accident... or was it God's will?

Amy Lomastro

July 21, 2010

I express my sincerest condolences to the Ouellette family. I met Paula and Ray at St. Theresa Church in Tiverton (Lynne Swass is my sister). Paul sang with me in the choir there for a little while. May God be with all of you in this time of sorrow.

A W

July 21, 2010

Dear Paula and Family,

I'm beside myself to hear of Ray's passing. Ray was a great mentor to me. He was a caring man with diverse knowledge that led to us having many interesting conversations over the years. Ray also came through for me when I was laid off by putting his own money on the table to keep me aboard. I love you Ray. And I miss you.

Paula O'Connor

July 21, 2010

Aunty,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

July 20, 2010

Dear Paula and family, Joe and Betty Sylvia send our heartfelt sympathy to all of you. We all share memories of times spent with Ray and may God Bless all of you with a smile on your faces as you think about all of your wonderful memories of your husband and father. God Be with all of you now and forever, Betty and Joe Sylvia

July 20, 2010

To the Ouellette/Blake families,
I was shocked to hear of Ray's passing. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Ray was a wonderful husband, father, and grandfather. Peace be with you all.
The Watson and McShane Families

Dan & Peggy McManus

July 20, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Valerie Nadrowski-Caron & Family

July 20, 2010

Dear Mrs. Ouellette, Tim & Kathy,
I was deeply saddened to hear of Mr. Ouellette's passing. He was a kind and caring man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ray&Jean Covel

July 20, 2010

Paula,our thoughts and prayers go out to you at this time.

Bill & Sharon Moura

July 19, 2010

Our hearts go out to the entire Ouellette/Blake family. He was a great family man and I am sure that he has already teamed up with Ann Marie to watch over you all.
Please accept our sincere condolences at your time of sorrow.

Sr. Janice Farnham, RJM

July 18, 2010

Dear Paula and Family,
My deepest sympathy and my prayers are with you as you rejoice in Ray's life, and in the peace he now shares with his parents and Anne Marie, but also as you mourn your profound loss. There will never be another. May his faith and yours be a light in this dark time.

Peace in the Lord of life,

Sandy Duarate

July 18, 2010

Tim:

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

July 18, 2010

Paula we are truly saddend by his loss and we will miss him.
You were both there during my time of need, I wish I was there for you during yours. if there is anything I can do for please let me know. He was a great man and friend.
Love to you
Ernie and Laura Berman

Kathy Santos

July 18, 2010

I enjoyed singing with Ray at St Brendan Church and the EP Community Chorus. We have good memories of singing and traveling through Italy. Ray will be missed He meant alot to so many people.

Kathy and Steve Santos (Riverside)

Helen Oliveira

July 18, 2010

Paula, Tim, Sarah, Jess and David, my heart aches for you the most. You have had to deal with such heartache already. For the rest of Ray's family, friends and co-workers, it too is such a heartache for we all know what a wonderful, loving man Ray was. I have no doubt that he is happily reunited with Ann-Marie, but know that he will be missed by all. To the familly, please let me know if there is ANYTHING I can do. To Ray, I will miss you, but "thanks for the memories".

Katie Bodell

July 18, 2010

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. My thoughts and prayers go out to The Blake Family and Nonna. RIP Grampa Ouellette you'll always be in our hearts.

July 18, 2010

Dear Paula and family,
We are so saddened to learn about Ray's passing. He was a wonderful man whose love for God, his wife, and his children were obvious to everyone who knew him. Joe fondly remembers playing golf with him and enjoying many heartfelt conversations on and off the golf course. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.

Love, Eileen and Joe McGowan

July 18, 2010

Our deepest condolences to Ray's family.We have always considered Ray to be a great friend. He will be sorely missed. God bless his family. I am sure that he is with God in heaven. Pauline & Bob

Linda Pestana

July 18, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Linda & Lou Pestana

Lou & Elaine Genereux

July 18, 2010

Paula and Family,

Our deepest sympathies to you at this very sad time.

Peace,

July 18, 2010

Paula, Tim and Kathy, It is such a loss for so many people who loved Ray. He was a gentle man with deep faith and love for his family and friends. Our long and happy and musical friendship will never be forgotten. His " O Holy Night" sung in French was a highlight of every Christmas Eve in our choir. Peace to all. Marie Chaplin

Bill Healy

July 18, 2010

To the Ouellette Family
Please accept my sincere condolences and prayers in your time of great loss. Raymond was a kind and generous gentleman. He will be missed by many.

July 18, 2010

Dear Paula and Tim,
My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. I know what a great loss this is for you all. Ray was a wonderful friend to Bob and I. Now we have two to pray to.
My very deepest sympathy,
Joyce Sousa

James McCloskey

July 18, 2010

My Condolences To Rays Family. Ray was a true gentelmen and friend. I will miss him until we meet again.

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