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Raymond Pelland Obituary

PELLAND, Sr., Raymond J.
104, died on July 23, 2021 at his home, The Saint Elizabeth Community Green Houses. He passed peacefully in the presence of his loving family. He was the devoted husband of the late Bomina M. Pelland (Vita) for 63 years. He is predeceased by his siblings; Wilfred J. Pelland, Charles J. Pelland, and Doris Dupuis (Pelland). Raymond also had a twin brother who died at birth.
Born in Woonsocket, RI in 1917, he was the son of the late Ernest and Merelise (Brissette) Pelland. Raymond lived through two global pandemics, the 1918 influenza pandemic (Spanish Flu) and the current Covid-19 pandemic in his 104 years.
Raymond migrated with his father Ernest in 1928 to Alberta, Canada where they acquired two 160-acre homesteads. During the summer of 1928 his dad left him for five months to work on the Canadian Rail. He lived alone, learning how to live off of the land from the local indigenous people. The rest of Raymond's family later arrived and lived together in a single room log cabin that he and his dad built. Raymond worked the homestead and local farms with his favorite horse Maude always by his side. He spent most summer nights sleeping outside along the local river banks. At the age of 21, his family sent him back to Rhode Island to support the migration of the family back to the States after the great depression. He traveled via boxcar over several months to Pascoag, RI where he lived with the Mousseau family before his family arrived and settled back in Woonsocket.
Raymond met his loving wife of 63 years when he moved to Westerly, RI to work on the restoration of beach homes after the hurricane of 1938. They married on February 18, 1939.
He was drafted into the US Navy during WWII where he proudly served in the Pacific Campaign. He spent most of his naval time on the island of Guam where he remained until his return home when the war ended. It is in the Navy that he refined his lifelong carpentry and wood working skills. He held various jobs in his long career, but spent many years as a general contractor in Cumberland, RI where he raised his family. In addition to Cumberland, RI, Raymond and his wife lived in San Diego, CA and Reno, NV during the early 1950s and again later in the late 1970s. Later in life he built picnic tables and Adirondack chairs in Pawcatuck, CT and then called Mystic River Homes, his home for over 18 years, where he had many great friends. He worked well into his eighties and drove his car until he was 99. Right before his 100th birthday, Raymond moved to East Greenwich where he was loved and cared for by the staff at the St. Elizabeth Community Green Houses during the final four years of his life.
He is survived by his three children, Raymond J. Pelland Jr. and his wife Gwen of Pawcatuck, CT, Debra Pelland-Parvino and her wife Cheri Parvino of Punta Gorda, FL, and Wayne Pelland and his wife Doreen of Saunderstown, RI. His three grandchildren, Timothy Pelland and his wife Peggy of Mystic, CT, Kyle Pelland and his wife Hillary Dorgan of New Bedford MA, and Kimberly Pelland and her husband Blake Morphis of Warwick, RI. Great grandchild, Drew Pelland of Groton, CT and cousin, Norma Mousseau of Cranston, RI.
Relatives and friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial on Friday, July 30 at 11 a.m. at Saint Mary Star of the Sea, Narragansett, RI followed by burial with Military Honors at the RI Veterans Cemetery, Exeter, RI. Calling hours are respectfully omitted.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in his name to the St. Elizabeth Community, 2364 Post Road, Suite 100, Warwick, RI. 02886. Kindly visit www.FaganQuinnFuneralHome.com for information and online condolences.

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Published by The Providence Journal from Jul. 27 to Jul. 30, 2021.

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Rosalie Rathbun

July 31, 2021

Ray was such a special friend. He brought sunshine to every day and my only regret is that I didn´t meet him sooner. You know all of us here at MRHC adored Ray. When I see his roses blooming I think of him and smile with the memory of so many happy times. Rest In Peace my old friend.

Mary Cuthbert RN

July 30, 2021

Your father, Ray, was a great guy. He lit up MRHC. His stories about his childhood were striking and he survived. I admired him and his quiet resilience. May he Rest In Peace.
He was very special.

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