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Shane Duffy Obituary
Born in Pawtucket, RI, he was the son of Keavin P. and Frances E. (Duffy) Duffy. A 2003 graduate of Taunton High School, he served in the U.S. Army for the past 4 years.
Besides his wife of Taunton, (formerly N. Providence) and parents of Taunton, he is survived by his daughter, Mackenzie Roisine Duffy; a brother Keavin P. Duffy, Jr.; 2 sisters, Kelsey Ann Duffy and Shanon Elizabeth Duffy, all of Taunton; his paternal grandmother, Rita Duffy of Taunton; his maternal grandmother, Margaret Duffy of Seekonk and several aunts and uncles. He was also the grandson of the late James H. Duffy, Jr. and Leo A. Duffy, Sr.
A Funeral Mass will be held at St. Mary's Church, 14 St. Mary's Square, Taunton on Saturday, June 14th at 11 a.m. followed by burial at St. Francis Cemetery, North Walker St., Taunton. Relatives and friends are invited to attend. Calling Hours will be held on Friday, June 13th from 1 to 8 p.m. at the church. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Sgt. Shane Duffy Memorial Fund, Taunton Federal Credit Union, 14 Church Green, Taunton, MA 02780. www.silvafuneralhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Shane Duffy
The Rhode Island Junior Chamber of Commerce & JAYCEE Association
April 26, 2018
We continue to mourn, honor and remember the genuine courage, sacrifice and patriotism, of the life and liberty of Sgt. Shane Padriag Duffy.
Linda Thompson
April 25, 2018
My heart and condolences go out to the family and friends of Sgt. Shane P. Duffy. So very sorry.
Shanon Duffy
May 7, 2014
Thank you to all for your kind thoughts and prayers and remembering our brother Shane. My family and I are so greatful for all the loving messages and the out pour of thoughts for Shane and our family.
Much Love
Shanon Duffy
Amanda Ray-Jackson
April 28, 2014
My name is Amanda Ray-Jackson. I am married to Sgt Brady Jackson. I consider all service members a step above the rest of us.. and the supportive family of such honorable men the same. Brady is very fond of Shane. As well as Emmard, Legg and others I've come to know through him; survivors and KIA heroes alike. We named our youngest son after Shane. His name is Shane Alexander Jackson. He is, and always will be, told of and proud of having a hero for a father and the name of a hero. I dont know much else to say. Just... thank you.
Brandan Bates
June 10, 2013
Rest in Peace Shane, we all miss you
The Morgan Family
June 8, 2013
Everyday I think of the men and women like Sgt.Shane P Duffy, who sacrificed their young lives so we can live our lives in freedom.
God Bless the Duffy family. Your Shane is a true American Hero!
JAYCEES of Rhode Island
June 5, 2013
BEST WISHES & FONDEST THOUGHTS - Central Rhode Island JAYCEES
Peggy Childers
June 4, 2013
To the family and friends of Sgt. Shane P. Duffy:
It has truly been my honor to sign Shane's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Shane will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy
Daugher of retired SFC of 772nd
December 9, 2012
In memory of Shane Duffy for his service and sacrifice to this country.
Joseph DesJarlais
June 20, 2012
I miss you man.
Peggy Childers
June 7, 2012
June 4, 2012
To the family and friends of Sgt. Shane P. Duffy:
Always remembering Shane. "Some gave all."
M O
October 23, 2011
Love ya bro!
Steve Corr
July 2, 2011
Frances and Keavin
My wife and I met you today at the first running of the GWOT road race. The story of your son Shane has touched our hearts deeply. My son Matt won this race today and we had the chance to discuss the sacrifice Shane made for our freedom to allow events like this to take place in this great country of ours. We will support you in your efforts to build the memorial and watch the newspapers and news for updates.
Sincerely Corinne and Steve Corar
Peggy Childers
June 4, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Shane P. Duffy:
Please accept my remembrance of Shane on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Jim
June 3, 2011
You have not been forgotten Shane.
August 29, 2010
To the family:
May the comfort from family and friends continue to strengthen you, and may you find comfort in the words found in the Holy Scriptures: "And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away."
MO
June 22, 2010
Happy birthday bro.
Peggy Childers
June 5, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. Shane P. Duffy:
Remembering Shane on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Jim
June 4, 2010
You are not forgotten Shane.
maddie toth
April 19, 2010
I still miss him he will never be forgot.Everytime I see Mackenzie i can't stop thinking about you I will always LOVE you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MO
March 17, 2010
Happy St. Patty's day Duff man.
MO
November 20, 2009
Love ya Duff. I keep in contact with your family often and consider them my own. Will be visiting again in a couple months. Take care, I think of you every day.
November 13, 2009
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Richard Woehlke
July 9, 2009
To the Duffy Family:
Though it's been a year since Shane's passing, his sacrifice is still fresh in the minds of other military families here in Mass. We honor him and want you to know he will not be forgotten. Those of us with friends and relatives in the service -- especially the families of the 772 MP Co. of Taunton (still in Iraq), and the 747 MP Co. of Ware MA now heading to Iraq -- we share your pride in your son. We cannot begin to know your sorrows; still, our hearts melt away in sympathy for your loss. Please accept our prayers: May God sustain you.
June 21, 2009
22 June 1985. Happy Birthday Duff. I love ya brother.
MO
Jillian Bzdula
June 5, 2009
Shane,
Thank you for being a soldier and thank you for all the wonderful memories we have to hold of you. Yesterday marked the one year anniversary of when we lost our brothers and I am forever so grateful for the sacrifice you and your comrads gave to us! Shane you'll never be forgotten and to the Duffy family your in my thoughts and prayers always! Shane I promise to keep watch on the family and always be there for them as you were for me in Taunton High opening those doors for me when no one else did!
God Bless!
A Helm
June 5, 2009
Shane,
We honor you and everything you did for this country everyday, in many different ways. Your sister is an amazing person, and she's watched over every day. I know you surround us with your presence, and I would do anything for her, and I keep an eye on her like I know you'd want me to. I never got to meet you, but I feel like knowing Shanon has helped me to know you. She's closer to me than almost anyone else, and she's like a sister. You're never forgotten, please continue to watch over us. You're truly a hero, now angel. I know you're looking down smiling, and you'd want nothing more than Shanon to keep her head held high, and she will. You'll never be forgotten, you're loved and missed dearly Shane. Thank you for everything you've done for us to be where we are today.
1SG Razon
June 4, 2009
SGT Shane Duffy,
It has been a year since America lost one of it’s greatest. You and all of your brothers and sister who have made the greatest sacrifice for this nation are my heroes. I am honored to have been your recruiter and more honored to have served in this great Army with you. I wear a bracelet with you on it everyday. Until we meet again great Soldier, God bless you and your Family.
Michael Iezzi
June 4, 2009
Shane,
Thinking and praying for you on the 1st anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends", John 15:13.
Melissa Medeiros
June 4, 2009
I will never forget the day I got one of the worst phone calls of my life to hear that u were now in heavan. You are such a blessing to this world u have so much life & heart in you that we all admired. You were a true souljah at heart. From our younger days you were already so militant and had so much pride . Truthfully we should have seen this comming because you are too blessed for this earth, no one could tell you any different than what you thought was right, You are a real hero and an example to all of us how we should live . Thank you for comming to visit me in my dream it meant so much to me. I pray that now you are resting in the Most High's Kingdom reaping the benifits of the hard work you did here on earth. You are the best Shane Duffy Please watch over all of us til we meet again.
To Shanes parents, brother, and sisters,
I try to put myself in the position of you all and I just cant imagine the feelings that must be felt. When I think of some words to say to try and comfort you all, it just doesn't seem like they capture the true Feelings , so what I can say is.. Every morning you wake up I hope you feel Shane there with his bright energy to greet your day. Everytime you Laugh , Shane is there Laughing with you. Everytime you go to work, Shane is there Blessing you with motivation and love. Everytime you drink a beer, He's there drinkin one with you. Everytime you cry, shane is there to wipe your tears and heal the pain. And everytime you go to sleep, he is there to Give u a hug and kiss goodnight, he is there to ease your mind, relax your body and Give you strength for another day.
To Shane's Wife and child, I am so sorry that you both have to go through such a difficult time. Thank you for bringing a peice of Shane into this world. I know Shane is the best father and he will still be the best father from the other side. All of his family and friends are here so his daughter can know her dad through all of us. Out of my love and respect for Shane I will help this family in any way I can.
Lets celebrate his Life
Shane We Love and Miss you
God Bless you all
Nikki Daniels
June 4, 2009
It's been one whole year and I want you to know that you & your family are in my thoughts today. You'll never be forgotten Shane!
Peggy Childers
June 4, 2009
To the family of Sgt. Shane P. Duffy:
Shane gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
May 25, 2009
I love you brother. Everybody is thinking of you today, which is no different than any other day. I hope all of you guys are having a good time.
mo
Eric Button
May 24, 2009
I'm not the type for fancy words, just real. I rode with Duff our first trip, lived next door to him after, and wished he hadn't switched from my platoon to another for the second trip. I'll never forget that day, the last time I saw him, or the other two guys. I'll always keep a picture of all three of them in my house somewhere as a reminder. I have a lot of great memories of Duff and I still think about him often. In my lifetime, already, I thought I had heard every possible nickname someone could come up with for me. Duffy proved me wrong and I can still hear in my head how he would call me "Bootton." He was always good for a laugh. A good friend.
Mary Letourneau
May 22, 2009
To Shane's Family-
Shane and I had a few classes together in high school and were in the same graduating class. I remember he was always full of enthusiasm and exuberance.
This Memorial Day, please know my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Thank you for raising such an honorable son and courageous man.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
To Shane-
Thank you for your honor, your bravery and your sacrifice. We are and always will be eternally grateful.
Sincerely,
Mary Letourneau (formally Tarpey)
Kevin Duffy sr
March 12, 2009
I'm sorry it taken so long to say thank you . It's been awful hard and i did not have access to a computer but i want to say thank you for all your support . Shane's dad & mom. God bless
Paul Farrell
February 12, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
T Starman
January 9, 2009
I offer my deepest condolences for your loss
Kenna Larra
December 18, 2008
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scott Elliott
October 28, 2008
hey duff, just sitting at work thinking about you, and how i wish stuff was diffrent. just want you to know it was the biggest honor being able to bring you home, ill never forget that plane ride. watch over us bro
mo
October 11, 2008
The guys are almost home. Keep them safe, Duff. I love ya.
Ian Blunt
September 3, 2008
Your life is in the ground in Hegna, your body is in the ground at home, your soul is firmly in heaven, but You, my friend, will always be in my heart. Who loves ya, brother...
Gary Allain
August 31, 2008
Sgt. Shane P. Duffy
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
August 31, 2008
Love ya Duff.
mo
In Memory of Shane ~ (Debra Estep)
July 29, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Shane, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Stephanie Rafoss
July 25, 2008
Prayer for Peace
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace;
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master,
Grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
To be understood, as to understand;
To be loved, as to love;
For it is in giving that we receive,
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Amen
Madison Toth
July 22, 2008
We all loed you Shane and now nothing can hurt you rest in peace and we will always pray for you love always Madison
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
July 21, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy to the Duffy family and friends in the loss of Shane. I did not know Shane, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Shane you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"TO LIVE IN THE HEARTS
OF THOSE YOU LEAVE BEHIND
IS NEVER TO DIE"
~Robert Orr~
mo
July 19, 2008
Who loves ya?
Patrick Daly
July 18, 2008
My son Thomas Patrick Daly served with Shane Duffy in Iraq. He was on RnR here in the states when Shane was killed. I wasn't sure if I should tell him guys from his unit, were hurt however, I did. It was a bit devastating to him. He called Shane his "Irish drinking buddy". He said Shane was a "good troop" and was sure of his duty. He called me from Iraq recently and pointed me to "youTube" web site that has some videos of the funeral. It is well fitting a great warrior. I will pray for any healing that can come for a loss such as this for all of you. May God Bless your family, our Military and the United States of America. Patrick Thomas Daly
Chief Petty Officer (RET)
Surface Warrior/Air Warrior/Diver
July 13, 2008
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Duffy and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
July 13, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Duffy!
Linda Cano, Soldiers' Angels
July 7, 2008
My sincere sympathies go out to the Duffy family. May God bless and comfort you in your time of mourning. Thank you, Shane, for your heroic sacrifice. May you rest in the arms of Jesus now.
Jeff Oakes
July 7, 2008
I am so sorry for your tragedy. The missions that our men and women are performing now are more important than any that have come before and will shape the way our world will be for generations to come. There is no doubt that things should have been handled differently by so many. The only solace I can offer is what has sustained me through my hard times (like one day years ago in Beirut) a priest told me when I was young. God only gives us what we can handle and if the trial goes beyond what we can handle he brings things and people into our lives to take up the rest. If we can help in anyway please feel free to contact me at anytime.
Joel & Anita Richards
July 7, 2008
My condolences to the wife, parents, family and friends of this great Soldier Sgt. shane Duffy. Another fallen Soldier, yet not forgotten. Thank you for the sacrifice and willingness to serve. Your bravery will forever be remembered. We share in your loss. We lost our son, SSG Frank Gasper, KIA 5/25/2008 Najaf, Iraq. May you know we care, and grieve with you. GOD BLESS YOU!
Jim McGowan
July 5, 2008
My deepest condolences and prayers to you and your loved ones this is such a loss for you're family, and his sacrifice is deeply appreciated. My hopes thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless you.
SPC M
July 2, 2008
I am deeply saddened by your family's loss and though nothing can ever bring him back I hope you know just how much his sacrifice means to so many of us proud Americans.
Playing XBOX with Jonathan
Angela Kearley
June 30, 2008
I would like to offer my condolences to your family. Although I didn't personally know Shane, he will forever be in my heart as Jonathan "J.D." Emard was my cousin...two angels that will never be forgotten. I have attached a pic of Jonathan and Shane playing XBOX - I find peace knowing that they are still together...hopefully still playing XBOX and watching over us all. From our family to yours - know that you are not alone. May God be with your family during the days ahead.
Robert Pirelli
June 26, 2008
Words cannot express the pain I feel for your family at this very sad time. So for the Duffy family I can only say that our hearts go out to all of you during this period of Sadness in your life. Shane was a true hero and he now walks along side many who have given all to keep us free from those who cause us harm. We pray that your Family finds comfort knowing that Shane was truely an American Hero. My Son Rob was killed on August 15, 2007 in Dayala Province, IRAQI so I would like to convey onto you the Parents of Shane that for all this Country now continues to do for us, I can only say from my Heart that I would give it all back for just 5 minutes with my Son. "just 5 minutes"
Janice Oswald
June 25, 2008
To the family and friends of fallen hero SGT Duffy....I am so sorry for your loss. I pray God brings you peace and comfort during this very difficult time. My heart aches for you. He will not be forgotten. God Bless You.
debbi rivers
June 25, 2008
To the family and parents of Shane I want you to know that you are not alone in the grief you are feeling. I too know what you are going through and what you will go through in the coming weeks and months ahead. You will have many questions as to why? You will have many things to get ready or go through and that should be done in time. Sometimes it just can’t be faced and that’s ok, for you will know when the time is right for you. There is no right or wrong way to grieve it’s an individual journey that unfortunately we now have to take. I ask that God give the comfort, strength and courage that you are going to need. When and if the time is right for you please contact me. You can cry, vent, or just talk as only another person who has been where you are can really know what you are going through. May God continue to be with you and heal you.
In memory of my son
Spc Harry (Buck) Winkler III
KIA 11/12/06 Samarra, Iraq
82nd Airborne 2-505th PIR
Jeri Herrera
June 25, 2008
Though I did not know Shane personally, he will always be a hero to me. Nothing I can say will take away the pain that you feel right now. Please accept my sincerest condolences and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Sincerely,
Jeri Herrera
Proud sister of SFC Rocky H. Herrera
KIA 8/28/07 Jaji, Afghanistan
Ron & Jeannie Tolle
June 23, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. I pray the happy memories of Shane bring you comfort. Rest In Peace Sgt. Duffy, an American Hero. You will never be forgotten.
In Loving Memory of our Grandson
Pfc Aaron J. Ward
KIA 5/6/08
June 22, 2008
Thank you for your service and sympathy to the loved ones left behind.
God's blessings.
Christie Adamides
June 18, 2008
Thank you for what you have given the rest of us - our freedom. I'm sorry that you will never hold your daughters hand or give her away in marriage but I hope she knows what a hero you were
margaret nelson
June 18, 2008
rest in peace, shane. God be with the family.
SHAY SYLVIA
June 17, 2008
Although we never met and i didnt know your family , i just felt compelled to let ya'll know how very thankful to SGT Duffy aka duffman for fighting for our country , i pray for his wife and child and his family and friends . im sure shane would want u all to excel in life and not forget him but dont dwell on this tragedy , God Bless this Young man as i have a son the same age and cant imagine what u feel , all i can do for u is to pray and i will do that ..GOD SURROUND YOU ALL WITH THE WHITE LIGHT OF THE HOLY SPIRIT AND LET GOD TAKE THIS BURDEN FROM EVERYONE THAT IS HURT BY THIS AND HE WILL CARRY IT FOR YOU
Overton
June 17, 2008
Duffy, I talk to you all the time but I thought I would write on here also. From roommates to best friends, we're brothers forever. As unfortunate as it is, it was an honor to place you on your final resting place. I love you Duff.
Joseph Stark
June 17, 2008
Shane Duffy we wrestled together in Taunton High School. We became good friends. We then served together in the military. Although we serve in a different branch you are my brother in arms always and forever. My heart weeps for you and your family I miss you man. God bless.
joseph barr
June 17, 2008
sgt Duffy will be always a great man to remember. my prayer go out to him and his family.
AnnMarie
June 17, 2008
I`m so sorry for your loss, I don`t know any of you but as a mother of a son, I can only imagine your pain.
To Shane, THANK YOU, SOLDIER.
Amy Stevens
June 17, 2008
my dearest sympothy goes out to Shanes wife and child as well as his family. I did not know shane very well but i did know who he was, he was a very kind person. I deeply admire him for going and fighting for our country. My prayers go out to you all. God Bless
Judith DiGiorgio
June 16, 2008
Jaime, I am not sure if you will remember me, but I am Andrea DiGiorgio's aunt. I can never express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you and your baby. I pray He holds you both in his loving hands and that you look to Him for comfort. I never met Shane, but I have read about him in the guest book entries and he is someone for you to be extremely proud of. I thank him for fighting for our freedom.
Take care and God bless you.
Judy DiGiorgio
Christine Sorel
June 16, 2008
I send my deepest condolences to the wife, child and extended family of Sgt. Duffy. You are all in my daily thoughts.
I was privileged to participate in the flag lines with the PGR during Shanes services on the 14th. It is an experience that will remain with me for the rest of my life.
The show of love and respect for this special young man tells us all that he was someone to admire.
God Bless
Linda Plumley
June 16, 2008
I am so very sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Linda Plumley (Scribner)
(St. Xavier Academy-1977)
Mary O'Brien
June 16, 2008
Our deepest sympathy,goes out to the families of Shane Duffy.
He is our true American hero.
He will never be forgetten and always will stay,in our hearts.
As a mom,of a soldier,my heart weeps for you but he is safe with God now in peace.
If ever you need someone to talk to,i am here.Do not hesitate to call or email.
Mary O'Brien
(Mother of Sgt.Robert E. O'Brien)
Sgt. Robert E. O'Brien
June 15, 2008
When Shane first came into the Army, he came into my Team. I was his first Teamleader up to his first deployment to Iraq where I served with him. I say this not at all due to the circumstances, this is truth, he was the best Soldier I've ever had, you could ask for nothing more in a Soldier than all that Shane Duffy was. He was a Natural Born Leader, tough, charismatic, fit, fearless and fearsome. A man of pride and honor who led by example. A True American Hero and a lost brother.
Gary Trudeau
June 15, 2008
To the Duffy's, please accept our sincencere condolences for the tremendous loss you have suffered. Shane is a true American hero. His loss is felt by all, as you surely know by the service we all attended. Shane's memory will live on forever. To Jamie, Makenzie, Keavin, Francis, Keavin jr, Kellsey, Shannon please know you are not alone, you will never be alone.
Gary & Dawn Taunton
Jim Curtis
June 15, 2008
Jamie,
Our thoughts and Prayers go out to You, Mackenzie ,the Duffy and Plamondon families .We will always be there for you if ever needed.
God Bless Shane and may he rest in peace. He wiil always be in our prayers. May God also watch over you and Mackenzie, always knowing that your family and friends will be there for you at anytime.
We will ask ourselves a million times why things like this have to happen to good people ever so young, and no one can give us an answer. Through it all we shall never forget all of the brave men and women who have given their lives for the freedom of others. They are all true heros and will always be with us.
Scott, Anne, Kasey, and Kyle Dexter
June 14, 2008
Keavin, Francis, Keavin Jr., Kelsey, Shannon, Jaime and Mackenzie -
There are no words that will take away your pain, but may all of the precious memories you have of Shane help you through this extremely difficult time.
This community was truly blessed with an American hero. May the memory of Shane last forever.
Thank you for sharing your hero.
You have our number, don't hesitate to dial. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Love,
The Dexter's
Ken and Lorrie Willette
June 14, 2008
Jamie and Mackenzie, our hearts go with you as you face the future. Keavin and Frances, we know the ache your heart feels today. Keavin,Kelsey and Shanon,you had many good times with Shane to comfort you.
We mourn Shane's sacrafice, it is almost too much to ask of any family. All the Gold Star families are with you, keeping you in our prayers and hoping that you will find peace in the coming months.
Shane joins the ranks of so many others who gave all for our country, including our beloved nephew and godson,SSGT. Daniel A. Newsome, 1st Battalion, 8th Cavalry Regiment, 2nd Brigade Combat Team, 1st Cavalry Division, KIA , OIF, June 27, 2007.
Rest in Peace Shane and Danny as you protect us from above.
Cheryl A.Smith
June 14, 2008
TO A FALLEN HERO: MAY YOU REST IN PEACE! YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN! THANK YOU FOR FIGHTING FOR OUR COUNTRY AND FOR OUR FREEDOMS! MY HEARTFELT SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
Sherri Mariano
June 14, 2008
Words can not express the sympathy I feel for your family. I pray that you find peace, within yourselves and amongst one another.
My heart goes out to you
God Bless you all
jillian bzdula
June 13, 2008
In Memory of Sgt.
Shane Padriag Duffy
A smile so soft,
A friend so genuine,
A Soldier so couragious
A brother, son, husband and father who had love for all around
Shane you are our hero and though your gone in our herts is where you'll always be.
What a man you became,
What a Friend you remained
What a soldier you displayed,
and for that we are all greatful and we salute you
For you are a true American hero
With every last breath,
you touched the world,
With every heartbeat,
you kept our dreams alive by protecting our country
and until we meet again you'll always be engraved in our hearts
Thanks for all the memories and please be assured we all love you more than words could ever say.
What a man you became,
What a Friend you remained
What a soldier you displayed,
and for that we are all greatful and we salute you
For you are a true American hero
William Coen
June 13, 2008
MAY SHANE REST IN ETERNAL PEACE. MY PRAYERS AND DEEPEST SYMPATHY ARE FOR ALL HIS WONDERFUL FAMILY. ALWAYS, BILLY COEN
clare nelson
June 13, 2008
As a mother of an American Soldier my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless.
Safely Home
Michael Iezzi
June 13, 2008
Father we entrust our brother Shane to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Shane in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathies.
Ashley Howe
June 13, 2008
Jamie.I am so sorry for your loss.Shane will never be forgotten.I know whatever I say will never not take your pain away, but just remember I will always be here for you and Mackenzie.
Love u!
Katheryn Tavares
June 13, 2008
Jamie and Mackenzie,
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Please remember that Shane will forever be with you and that you and your family will be in our thoughts. God bless, Katheryn and Azalea Jade Tavares
June 13, 2008
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
June 13, 2008
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
I would also like to tell you about a website, http://groups.msn.com/SSPSoldierPor
traits/homepage,
where some wonderful people will make wood portraits of your fallen Hero for free for the immediate family. I became aware of this site when I wanted to do something special for Le Ron’s mother.
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett (Queens, NY)
L D
June 13, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Duffy family on the loss of Shane. God Bless Shane, and all of our American Heroes. Thank you Shane for your bravery and courage.
June 13, 2008
To the Duffy family, particularly Jamie and that beautiful baby of yours, I pray that you find peace in all the pain. Truth in all the tears and faith through the loss of your fallen soldier. God bless you all as he holds you in his arms, as he mourns with you and as he lifts Shane's spirit home.
Richard Brousseau
June 12, 2008
A true American hero ! Peace and comfort to your family and friends. Rest in the Lord's peace Sgt. Duffy .We salute you !
Nancy Rodriguez
June 12, 2008
My deepest condolences to the Duffy family. It is because of men like your son/husband that I have the freedoms I enjoy today. Please know that this nation morns with you.
May God be with you all
A Proud Army Mom
Joanna F
June 12, 2008
Shane was so much fun to be around. He was proud of his family and friends and he was dedicated to his family and country. He put this country and everyone else's needs before his own and even planned to continue to protect others in need by becoming a firefighter. I am SO thankful to have had the opportunity to know Shane. He has a beautiful family, wife, and daughter that love and miss him tremendously. I cherish the memories that I have and I will miss him greatly. Shane, you will NEVER be forgotten.
Hailey Trucchi
June 12, 2008
I will forever carry Shane in my heart and spirit. He was the most loyal person I have ever known. The world really lost something..a hero, a great person, and an amazing friend. I love you Shane. You will NEVER be forgotten.
a grateful american
June 12, 2008
Thank you just does not express the gratitude we feel toward Shane and all the men and women that serve our country. God Bless all Shane 's family and friends and God Bless Shane!
ED Henry
June 12, 2008
America sleeps safeley in it's beds tonight because rough men stand ready to do violance on our behalf.(Orwell) Thank you Shane for my freedom may I live a life worthy of your sacrafice.GOD BLESS THIS HERO! father of a Marine Sgt. stationed in Iraq.
Joanna F
June 11, 2008
I don't even know where to begin...Shane was truly a great guy. He put this country and everyone else's needs before his own. I am so thankful to have had the opportunity to know him. He has a beautiful family, wife, and daughter that love and miss him tremendously. I cherish the memories that I have and I will miss him greatly.
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