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67, passed away peacefully at his home on October 28th, 2019 surrounded by his loving family. Steven was born July 10th, 1952 in Pawtucket, RI and was a resident of Lincoln for the past 36 years. He was the beloved husband of Patricia (Gorab) Kilsey, his wife of 44 years. Steven was the son of the late George and Alice (Peters) Kilsey.
For the past 19 years, Steven taught in the Central Falls, Lincoln, and Providence School systems, most recently at Central High School. Prior to teaching, Steven owned multiple video stores, operated a limousine company, and was the catering director at Bryant University. Steve began his career in the family business and was proudly an owner of Chuck Wagon Catering, which was founded by his father in 1946.
He was a devoted member of St. Mary Antiochian Orthodox Church, dedicating countless hours of service to the parish, including Sunday School Superintendent, Parish Council Chairperson, and Bazaar Chairperson.
Besides his beloved wife, he is survived by his five loving children. His two daughters, Melissa and Melanie and her husband Patrick, his son Steven and his wife Missy. Steve is, and always will be, Jiddo to his grandson Benjamin, his granddaughter Esma, and his expected grandson due in April. Steve was a father figure for many others. He also leaves behind his brothers Amen, Frederick, and Jeffrey; his sister Joyce; his brother and sister-in-law Joseph and Marlene Samra, as well as several nephews, nieces and cousins. He was predeceased by his sisters-in-law, Jacqueline Gorab and Michelle Kilsey. Steve was truly a generous family man, full of life, kindness, compassion, and a positive spirit.
His funeral will be held Thursday, October 31 at 10 A.M. in St. Mary Antiochian Orthodox Church, 249 High Street, Pawtucket. His burial will be in Resurrection Cemetery, Cumberland. Relatives and friends are invited and may call at Bellows Funeral Chapel, 160 River Road, Lincoln Wednesday 3-7 P.M. In memory of Steve, contributions to St. Mary Antiochian Orthodox Church, 249 High Street, Pawtucket, RI 02860 would be appreciated. For Directions and Guest Book, please visit www.bellowsfuneralchapel.com.
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Gail Kurker
November 6, 2019
Dear Patti, I was so sorry to hear of Steve's passing. Please know you & your family are in my thoughts & prayers. Memory Eternal!
November 5, 2019
Dear Patti,
Dave and I are saddened to hear of Steve's passing. We will always remember how loving, kind and generous he was. He loved you so much. While we never met your children or grandchildren, there is no doubt that he cherished everyone of them. He was a special person and left an impression on everyone he knew.
Love,
Mary (Hashway) and Dave Chiaverini
November 1, 2019
To the Kilsey family,
I have known Steven and the Kilsey family since my childhood and you all have my deepest sympathy.
Debra " Cabral " Piscopio
Tony Avicolli
October 31, 2019
We are so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for you all. May God Bless you and your family and may his love carry you through these difficult times.
Tony and Debbie Avicolli
Gina Harrington
October 30, 2019
Our deepest sympathy to the entire Kilsey family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of great sorrow.
Gina & Dennis Harrington and family
Bob Lebel
October 30, 2019
our deepest condolences to the entire Kilsey family I know he will be truly missed by your entire family.
My wife Deb and I were classmates. He was a true gentleman and had nothing but kind words for everyone and had a profound effect with anyone he came in contact with. The world was a better place with Steve presents
REST IN PEACE my friend
Sincerely Bob & Deb Lebel
Peggy Leveille
October 29, 2019
So sorry to hear of Steve's passing. I worked with Steve at Perry Middle School. I remember Steve as always a kind gentleman who often helped out with parent engagement nights. He would help with decorations,donations and his time.
He always talked fondly of his family. May happy memories comfort you through the difficult days ahead. Sincerely, Peggy Leveille
Eric Brown
October 29, 2019
Dear Mr. Kilsey,
I never got to tell you how much you impacted my life you never gave up and continued to motivate me even when I wanted to give up you was never a man of many words but when you spoke I listened because you always gave the best advice your smile was contagious and anyone who ever saw you smile had to smile back you came everyday you came not because you needed money not because you had a couple years left of retirement you kept coming because you loved teaching students even when we wasn't the best to you always forgave us and you never ever stopped fighting and that's something I cry but i am so proud of you cause you never complained to anyone never used your sickness as a reason for people to have petty on you your the true meaning of perseverance and I'm sorry I never got to tell you how much you meant to me I only knew you for a year but it felt like a eternity and I will never ever forget you thank you for the talks we had when I was feeling down thank you for taking time out of work when I asked you too thank you for caring for me which I knew wasn't always east and I will never ever have another teacher like you and because of you I'll never stop fighting no matter what's going in my life I will not stop fighting I will approach every day like it's my last thank you sm always be in my heart and I will never ever ever forget you
Also I know if you was still here and saw all these run on sentences you would correct as you always did
- Your favorite student
Eric Brown Jr.
October 29, 2019
John Marques
October 29, 2019
My sympathies and condolences to the Steve's family. Though I haven't seen Steve in a few years, I always enjoyed catching up when I was in town. He was always at the center of our class of 70 activities. Great guy who had a strong love of family.
October 29, 2019
Our deepest sympathy to the entire Kilsey Family for your loss. Steven was one of kind, a true gentlemen that I know will be missed by many. Please know that ours thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sincerely,
Anna (DelFarno) & Joey D'Ambra
October 29, 2019
We are so very sorry for your loss! Loving thoughts and prayers for you and your family. God bless you, my friend
Love you,
John and Maureen(Moe Black) O'Hara
Clarita
October 29, 2019
Mr. Kilsey simply put was a wonderful person. Steve was always friendly to everyone and always optimistic. You have to like the way his eyes twinkled when shared a pleasant thoughts about family. Mr. Kilsey always encouraged students and staff. I'm praying God grants his family and friends peace that surpasses understanding.
Once a Knight always a knight!
Patricia Arcieri
October 29, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss! What a truly great human being. Never once did I ever see him without a smile on his face. Rest in peace!
October 29, 2019
Patti & Family
Our heartfelt condolences at this very sad time.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire Kilsey family at this time.
God Bless+
Love, XOXO
Bob & JoAnne Mansour
Kimberly Cole
October 29, 2019
Pat, my condolences to you and your family. May Steven rest in peace.
Maureen Bigelli
October 28, 2019
Pat & family
We want to send Our sincere sympathy to you and your family during this difficult time. We were saddened to hear of your recent loss of your husband. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May your love one rest in peace and hope you'll find some comfort knowing he's with the Lord & watching over you,
Lisa
October 28, 2019
Steve was always so kind to everyone. My condolences to his family
Eric Brown
October 28, 2019
The Staff of Bellows-Falso Funeral Home
October 29, 2019
Offering our deepest condolences at this difficult time.
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