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Harry Anthony Collins

1936 - 2018

Harry Anthony Collins obituary, 1936-2018, La Jolla/ Rancho Santa Fe, CA

Harry Collins Obituary

Harry Anthony Collins March 6, 1936 - June 3, 2018 La Jolla/ Rancho Santa Fe Harry Anthony Collins passed away peacefully at his home in Rancho Santa Fe on June 3, 2018 surrounded by his family. He was 82.Harry was widely known as an exceptionally talented real estate developer and an active and generous community leader. He developed and invested in many residential and commercial properties during an illustrious career that spanned over six decades.Harry was born on March 6, 1936 in Des Moines, Iowa. He was one of six children born to Dr. Harry and Esther Collins. He attended St. Augustine Elementary School and Theodore Roosevelt High School in Des Moines. He had an entrepreneurial spirit from an early age and was an engineer at heart. He enjoyed building Soapbox Derby racers and rebuilding motorcycles and was constantly tinkering and always creating.Harry's family moved west to La Jolla in 1954. Harry was in his late teens, and leaving Des Moines meant selling his beloved Jeep. As a new student at La Jolla High School, one morning Harry saw a cute girl arrive at school in a Jeep. He later followed her home from the movies and asked her out to the Scarlet and Black Ball. Harry eventually married that girl, his high school sweetheart and the love of his life, Judy Allen. Harry and Judy shared a love of tennis, horses, the great outdoors, and especially, spending time with family and friends.Harry graduated from Stanford University in 1958 with a degree in engineering. He was elected to the Tau Beta Society, the honorary engineering society. He lettered in swimming and played water polo. Harry was a member of the Delta Tau Delta fraternity. Shortly after graduation, he joined Marble Mortgage Company in the San Francisco Bay Area and began a long career in real estate. Two years later, back in La Jolla, Harry began building custom homes. He subsequently founded Collins General Contractors, Collins Development Company, and La Jolla Development Company and developed many commercial and residential projects in both northern and southern California including apartments, shopping centers, industrial parks, commercial offices, senior housing, and signature hotels and resorts. Harry was known for his attention to detail and great respect for the communities in which he developed. Harry's favorite endeavors were with his best pal and father-in-law, Willis Allen. Among them was the iconic La Valencia Hotel in La Jolla. He was especially proud of his stewardship of the "Pink Lady," restoring and improving her throughout his ownership. He took special care in the restoration of the Whaling Bar, emphasizing its history and unique heritage. Harry and his family celebrated many special occasions at La Valencia over the years. In the late 80s, Harry created and opened Rancho Valencia Resort, a premier tennis destination. Rancho Valencia was Harry's happy place, his heart and soul. He also developed and ran the Eldorado Polo Club, Rancho Santa Fe Polo Club and the Rose Spur Polo Club. Harry loved what he did for a living, but he always made time to play. A good day for Harry was nine holes of golf, two sets of tennis and a 5 pm polo match. Harry served on many non-profit boards including the boards of The Dunn School and Santa Catalina School. He was the Chairman of the Board of Scripps Memorial Hospital, where he led the planning of the Scripps La Jolla campus as we see it today. Harry loved kids and all the mischief they created. He and Judy raised seven children, and welcomed with open arms and unconditional love 26 grandchildren, sharing with them their appreciation and fondness for adventure and the outdoors. They spent quality time with their family on their ranches in Julian, California, Kauai, Hawaii and Snowmass, Colorado. He is survived by his wife of nearly 60 years, Judy Collins; his children: Cathy Geier (Brad), Chris Collins (Alice), Kim Dempsey (Pat), Laurie Chamberlain (Tom), Suzi Ricci (David), Kelly Petit (Hank), Peter Collins (Lisa); 26 grandchildren; five great-grandchildren; brother, Robert Collins; and sisters, Mary Mulvihill and Ruth Kelly. Services will be held at 11 a.m. on June 28, 2018 at Nativity Catholic Church, 6309 El Apajo, Rancho Santa Fe. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Harry's memory to REINS Therapeutic Horsemanship Program, 4461 S. Mission Road, Fallbrook, CA 92028 (http://www.reinsprogram.org). Please sign the guest book online at legacy.com/obituaries/ lajollalight .

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Published by Rancho Santa Fe Review on Jun. 14, 2018.

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Jeanne Stabile/silver store/lajolla

September 28, 2024

My sincere condolences to your family Judy. Your family is so special. Much love and Aloha. I moved to Lahaina Maui 20 years ago and was in the middle of the fire on front street.
Jeannestabile

Tom Goodspeed

June 3, 2022

As I have previously shared, Harry is one of my life´s heroes. His wonderful demeanor even under pressure was the true test of character. His legacy now lives forward with such a terrific family of children, grand children, and great grand children. From where I sit, his spirit and that twinkle in his smile seem to be strong genes that have been passed throughout his family. My heart and prayers are with all of the Collins extended families.

Happy moments with the Allen family back in 1970, dinner at the "Pink Lady" (Harry & Judy at the right front) wonderful, wonderful memories of La Jolla & my time with the family - hope to return some day and stay at the &

Matt Kirkbride

June 5, 2020

February 8, 2019

Very sad to see the passing of Harry, he & Judy were so hospitable when my buddy & I stayed with the Allens and helped build the tennis court fence at Torrey Pines Rd, way back in 1970. Thanks for the great afternoon water skiing too. A time in my life I will never forget
Condolences to Judy and the family
Rest in peace Harry
Take Care
Matt Kirkbride
Auckland New Zealand

Lillian Heller

October 11, 2018

I am so saddened to hear of Harry's passing. My love goes out to his family, especially Judy and Chris.

Mary Taylor

August 10, 2018

I worked for Collins General Contractors and Harry Collins was an amazing and accomplished man. I too shared his love of horses. Mary Taylor

July 4, 2018

As a fond admirer of the Allen/Collins family, I say thank you for the great memories that my Mom and her days showing polo horses against Willis gave to my life.Later Willis"wonderful visits to Jimmy and I as we"partnered" in the goat business,and to seeing Harry land on the Eldorado Polo Club in his little plane and the joy Willis had being Harry's Father-In-Law...What memories and an amazing family, we all should emulate...Love and blessings, Marcie McElhinney Stimmel

Paula Mendell

June 25, 2018

My deepest condolences to Judy & the family & friends of Harry. He was a great athlete & a gem of a guy. With sincere sympathy, Paula Mendell

Patrick Brent

June 22, 2018

Harry has been missed for a long time.
Thirty years of polo with Harry.... Palm Desert - England - and investors in two clubs has taught this fellow Irishman that in the polo world Harry was one rare claas act.... the epitome of a gentleman. we all need to be more like Harry Collins .... Why?
Look at the sky tonight.... there one very bright star over head..... it is Harry watching over us and taking care of us.... let's be sure to never let him down.

Aloha Nui Harry

Patrick Brent

Harry's friend forever...

June 21, 2018

With my sincere sympathy to your family, may your treasured memories continue to provide a measure of comfort and peace to the family. Please be strengthened from (Isaiah 61:1,2) our God "binds up the broken-hearted and comforts all who mourn".

June 19, 2018

With heartfelt sympathy to the family. May fond memories of your loved one comfort you at this time. Please consider Psalm 145:18, 19. May those words bring you some consolation and a measure of peace.

June 16, 2018

To The Family accept my sincere condolences you are not alone during this time of sorrow and pain. May God give your family strength and comfort to help you endure this loss. As you remember your beloved one, may the God of peace give you comfort and peace in every way. May you find Strength from the love and care of those that surrounds you and comfort in the memories that you and your loved one shared. 2 Thessalonians 3:16

John Moulton

June 15, 2018

Mr. Collins was a great guy and a true gentleman. I have great memories of him playing tennis at La Quinta and John Gardiner's tennis ranch.

There is a great story where he was dared by a Aspen ski patrol to ski some crazy off bounds steep run. He did it! I recall several great photos of him playing polo at good ol' McCabe ranch.

A true business visionary, that truly enjoyed life.

Peter, Judy "hooty" and the rest of the wonderful Collins family thinking of all of you.

John Moulton
Chicago, Illinois

John Moulton

June 15, 2018

Mr. Collins was a great guy and a true gentleman. I have great memories of him playing tennis at La Quinta and John Gardiner's tennis ranch.

There is a great story where he was dared by a Aspen ski patrol to ski some crazy off bounds run. He did it!
I recall several great photos of him playing polo at good ol' McCabe ranch.

A true business visonary, that truely enjoyed life.

Peter and the rest of the wonderful Collins family thinking of all of you.

John Moulton
Chicago, Illinois

Tom Goodspeed

June 15, 2018

Dear Judy and family,
Harry is one of my life heroes. I was so incredibly fortunate to be able to work for him through my years at the San Diego polo club. To just be able to observe his way. He had such a gift with connecting to people in addition to his incredible skill set in his professional life. A soft spoken man who everyone listened to. In a world where many are focused more on themselves, Harry was always focused on what worked for all the members. Harry and all of you have been in my prayers for years and will continue to live there. I am so sorry for your loss, but I am so thankful for the many wonderful memories of Harry, you, your family, and everyone at the club. You always felt like family to me.
Thank you Harry for all that you did for me.
God Bless You and Your Family
Say hi to Willis for me.
Tom Goodspeed

June 14, 2018

As you remember your love one, may your treasured memories continue to bring you peace, comfort, and strength to endure.

June 12, 2018

Harry was a good one. He was a gentleman who was kind to many. He made the world a better place. God Bless him and his family through these tough times.



Your friend,
F.D. Walton

Jocelyn Parker

June 12, 2018

Judy and Family,
We are very sorry for your loss. Harry was a very special person - always positive. He will be missed by many people. God bless you in your time of need.

June 12, 2018

Dear Judy :

I am so sorry to hear about Harry, I have so many fond memories of all of us traveling abroad playing polo. I will never forget when we were in England , so much fun and so full of life. As a leader he was fair, and always took time to listen, as a polo buddy and team mate you couldn't ask for anyone better.

Much Love,

Geri Dardi

June 12, 2018

Dear Judy and all the Collins family, we were so sad and to hear about Harry's passing. We have so many wonderful memories of him and all of you and our time in Aspen. We will always appreciate having our wedding on McCabe Ranch and Harry being our official photographer with love and sympathy
Wayne and B Kvalsvig

June 11, 2018

Dear Judy and Family,
I'm so saddened to hear the news. May G-d be with ya'll.

June 11, 2018

Dear Judy and family, I'm so saddened to hear the news. May G-d be with you.

John Delille

June 10, 2018

To Judy,
Chris, Peter, Cathy, Kim, Laurie, Suzi and Kelly and your famalies.
Mr. C was bigger than life. I watched him control rooms filled with some of the richest most influential people in the world and when Mr. C walked in......he was the man! He meant so much to me! I feel such sorrow and loss but also so honored that I even knew him. The Collins family will make it through this and be stronger than ever. Love you guys!

June 10, 2018

My condolences to all the family. I was so privileged to work at The beautiful Rancho Valencia Resort. I am grateful to work for a wonderful family. Thanks you Mr. Collins for your vision.
Love ,
Denise Labrèche

June 10, 2018

Dear Collins Family,

Mr.Collins was a remarkable man. Spending so many years at Polo and at Rancho Valencia Resort with my kids, Mr. Collins added a distinguished, warm and elegant presence to our lives that will never be forgotten. It was very special to spend extra time with him one summer. Please know how much I respect all of you. Mrs. Collins, you are also a treasure to so many people and we wish you and your entire family peace and love.

Many blessings,
Anne Meridien, Kevin Gupta and Anjuli Gupta

June 10, 2018

Dear Judy and family...too many wonderful years of memories with the Allen families to list them all! May Harry find the peace he so much deserved and also peace and love to all of you.

Love from Sukey Rice Ridgway and Jim Ridgway

Punch

June 9, 2018

Every day is a memory.Harry remains a part of us all.Judy I love you.

June 9, 2018

Dear Kim, Laurie and family, I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your father! He sounds like an amazing man, not only smart, but adventurous, athletic and loving. I hope the memories of all your wonderful times together bring you comfort. Thinking and praying for you.
Kim McQueen and family

Edye Cushing

June 9, 2018

Uncle Harry was a treasure. He and Willis Allen believed in me at at time when I had no belief in myself. Those two magical men are responsible for guiding me to a wonderful education at the University of San Diego, an experience for which I will be forever grateful. Judy, Harry and the entire Collins extended family warmly welcomed me into their home and included me in Easters in Julian, Christmas Eves at La Valencia, Thanksgivings at their Rancho Valencia home and countless other family occasions. Yes, he was a business wizard, yet the greatest legacy Uncle Harry leaves is what he valued most .. his phenomenal family. Sending love to all - Edye

Alan McEachern

June 8, 2018

Harry was probably the best person I ever came in touch with in my years of banking. Total class person who truly cared about his employees before his business interests. His Snowmass Colorado property at one time had Princess Diana's children (Harry & William) staying on site and he got a call from the.caretaker that they were running ATVs thru the hay and causing problems. Harry came down ...looked at what was going on and told the caretaker to let them to have their fun. A total class person who was always kind and respectful....a true loss.

Mark and Virginia, Nicholas and Talia Linsalata

June 8, 2018

Our family sends their heartfelt condolences to a spectacular Family!!

Karen Wilder

June 8, 2018

Harry Collins created a unique community at Rancho Valencia Resort. Like many people, my husband and I always felt at home at Rancho Valencia, because Harry and Judy selected employees that made us feel like people in a family that could come and go as we pleased.. and get everything we wanted from a resort,: The cheerful service, luxury, privacy and good weather and fresh air.
Thank you Harry for your vision.
Karen B Wilder

Susan Hocking

June 8, 2018

Judy and family~
My sincere condolences to you all. What an exceptional man and accomplishments and what wonderful memories you all have to hold in your heart. I am recalling memories of my own, from fun times long ago with you all and Flicka and Ann R., polo games in Palm Springs and dinners at Ruth and Bill's and at your home with all the kids.
I send you hugs and warm good wishes.
Susan

Gordon Tudor

June 8, 2018

We lost an Iconic man who gave so much to our community. RIP

Therese Glass

June 8, 2018

What a great tribute. I learned things I didn't even know about Uncle Harry. Love to all of you during this hard time.

June 8, 2018

Lots of fond memories!

Ian Gardner-Smith

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