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Tom Carsten Obituary
May 8, 1957 - April 23, 2025
Tom Carsten's life ended on April 23, 2025. He is survived by his immediate family, Narcell Carsten, Staci Carsten, and Troy & Stephanie Kucera, along with three of his siblings and a long list of wonderful friends and family members. The Carsten family is gathering at the Lead Country Club on Saturday, May 3 from 2:00 to 4:00 p.m. Dress casually and comfortably. In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to your local food bank.
If you are under the weather or cannot make it and wish to send your condolences, please contact Oshiem & Schmidt Funeral Home.
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Reid Richards
June 18, 2025
I was a friend of Tom when we were both State Farm agents in the West Central Region. He was in Deadwood and I was in Toledo, Iowa. We always had good times when we were together. I called him once and asked his assistant to return my call. Evidently there was an attorney in town with the same time as mine. He called the attorney and was told he never called him. He finally figured it out and we laughed for a long time. Sorry for your loss, Narcell.
Solomon O Halim
May 21, 2025
Praying for you & your family!
May He gives you a serenity & peace in this difficult journey!
He was a friend when he was working at State Farm in Lincoln, NE
Ralph and Carol Reausaw
May 15, 2025
Narcell and family, we are so sorrowful with you.
Tony Pachucki
May 13, 2025
I first met Tom at a State Farm meeting when he was a new agent. I was impressed with him from the start. Working with him over the years, I really came to respect his dedication, work ethic and his commitment to the Lord. I pray for God's peace and comfort for his family.
Bruce McKeag
May 12, 2025
Narcell and family---I worked in the regional office of State Farm in Lincoln, Nebraska, for 18+ years and had the pleasure of working for and with Tom for much of that time. Even after Tom left State Farm, he and I maintained contact through phone calls and emails.
Tom was an exceptional person and a true friend. Learning of his passing leaves me with a void, and my deepest sympathies and prayers to all of his family. He had great integrity and a desire to help, and I know my memories of Tom (including a phone call in February) will be something I cherish. I pray your memories will help sustain you during this difficult time.
Valerie Begeman
May 12, 2025
Narcell .... My deepest condolences to you and your family. Tom was the first to welcome us to Red Rock with a knock, smile and plate of cookies!! We trusted his knowledge and care with insurance and guidance.
May the love of faith, family and friends get you through the days ahead.
Valerie Begeman
Dr. Linda Rosene l
May 5, 2025
Ralph and Linda Rosene: Tom was our Insurance agent and we were shocked to receive a letter from the Park Insurance company, today, letting us know of Tom's passing. We are sad for Tom's family and all of us who experienced his professional and patient service and his generous friendship.
We appreciate and will miss your knowledgeable guidance.
Dr. Linda and Ralph Rosene
Westhill Retirement Village
RCSD
John Sterkel
May 5, 2025
Tom was a very nice person. He will greatly be missed.
Dawn R. Reber
May 3, 2025
Tom's family, Tom was my Medicare part C agent. Any time I had a problem, he was always there to help . He will be deeply missed!
Karin Geoff Woie
May 2, 2025
Dear Narcell,
Tom will always remain in our hearts and thoughts as the consummate health insurance professional and, along with you, a good friend. We still recall your collective bravery in taking us on an easy hike for you and a challenging hike for maturely :>) aged people like us.
Our love,
Karin & Geoff
Jerry Peacock
May 2, 2025
Tom was a great guy and a great agent enjoyed helping him to enter the Medicare Insurance market. He was one of the good agents people could trust.
Terry Pierce
May 2, 2025
Sorry for your loss
Sam A Mudlin
April 30, 2025
Narcell, Stacie and Stephanie, words cannot describe how shocked and saddened I am for you and your families. I cannot make it to Saturdays gathering, but you are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless.
Jody Mollman
April 30, 2025
Narcell and girls there are no words to help you through this. Ray and I want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Hugs to all of you.
Osheim & Schmidt Funeral Home
April 30, 2025
Ozzie & Bev Osheim and staff offer our sincere
sympathy in the loss of your loved one.
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