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Brian Hettinger Obituary


Brian Edward Hettinger, age 81, passed away on Tuesday, September 17, 2019, at the Mifflin Center, Shillington, Pa., surrounded by his wife, Doris, and granddaughter,

Jamie Siders.

Born on July 19, 1938, in Reading, Pa., Brian was the son of the late LeRoy

Edward Hettinger and Myrtle Arlene

(Miller) Hettinger.

He was the loving husband of Doris M. (Zillhardt) Hettinger, with whom he celebrated 46 years of marriage.

Upon graduating from Governor Mifflin High School in 1956, Brian served as a

Sergeant in the United States Army. While in the Army, he received a Good Conduct Medal and was decorated for his expertise as a Rifle Marksman during the Korean War.

Upon leaving the Army, Brian worked for 48 years at

Gilbert Associates/Commonwealth as a structural drafting supervisor. His squad consisted of very talented men and women and he admired them not only for their skills but for the friendships they continued to enjoy down through the years. During his last few years at Parsons, he also worked in the Electrical-Transmission and Distribution Department (1956-2004).

When Brian was a small boy, his father purchased his first Lionel Steam Engine Train as a Christmas present. From that time on, he enjoyed collecting model trains, especially Reading Railroad Steam Engine models. He was a member of the Eastern Division TCA until last year when his health started to seriously decline. Brian was also a member of the Rattler Deer Camp in Tioga County. He often made a joke that Deer Camp Week away from home was in his marriage contract. He enjoyed being in the woodland countryside and spending time with his hunting buildies. Again, these hunting buddies and friends remained for his lifetime.

Brian was preceded in death by his daughter, Karen Lynn (Pachuilo/Dollinger) Kuser, on April 19, 2015.

Other than his wife, Doris Hettinger, Brian is survived by his twin grandchildren, Jamie (Dollinger) Siders, wife of Russell Siders, of Emmaus, Pa., and Edward Dollinger and his loving companion, Erinn Lingo, of Ambler, Pa. Brian is also survived by his great-grandchildren: Sofia Addison, Sawyer Lynn and Myrick Russell Siders, all of Emmaus, Pa. Brian is also survived by his one and only Hettinger cousin which he grew up with and held dear to his heart: Lynda (Hettinger) Ringler. While Brian was so very sick these past few months, Lynda visited him very often reliving their childhood days they spent together and she also tried to keep up his spirits. Lynda is married to David Ringler, of Reading, Pa.

Brian's wife, Doris, has family relatives from Lancaster County, Pa., and when Brian married Doris, all of these families became like a second family to him. He enjoyed each and every one of them. Whether it was weddings,

funerals, picnics, birthdays or just family socials, he was

always ready to drive to Lancaster and spend time with them. They referred to him as "Uncle Brian."

Brian's funeral will be held at Bean Funeral Home, 129 E. Lancaster Ave., Shillington, on Monday, September 23, 2019, at 11:00 a.m.

The family will receive friends and relatives from 10:00 a.m.-11:00 a.m.

Interment will be held at the convenience of the family in Alsace Church Cemetery, privately.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the American Diabetes Association, 150 Monument Rd. #100, Bala Cynwyd, PA 19004, and the National Kidney

Association, 1500 Walnut St. #301, Philadelphia, PA 19102.

Bean Funeral Home of Shillington is in charge of

arrangements. Online condolences may be made at

www.beanfuneralhomes.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Reading Eagle on Sep. 20, 2019.

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ginger mc bride

September 26, 2019

Doris, you were there for him through it all, I'm sure that Brian did depend on you to provide all the comfort and caring he needed GOD BLESS!

Ken Bucher

September 24, 2019

Doris,So sorry for your loss Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers

Tom Lesher

September 21, 2019

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

September 20, 2019

Doris and Family, so sorry for your loss. Please let me know if I can help...Tracy Christmann

Charles Haeussler

September 20, 2019

I was a Governor Mifflin classmate of Brian.
Nicest person you would ever want to meet.
Charles Haeussler

The members of Rattler Hunting Camp

September 20, 2019

Our deepest condolences to the family. Brian, or Buhhda as we called him, was a great friend and always made our time at "Camp" more enjoyable.

He will be missed!

September 20, 2019

Worked with Brian as a young 17 year old draftsperson at Gilbert Associates in a neighboring drafting squad. He was a lot of fun to work with and had a great sense of humor.Whenever someone would say "where did the day go?", he'd say "Over there" and point to Harry L. I remember his love for trains. May he rest in peace. Thoughts and prayers to all of his family and loved ones.
Kenda Readinger

Jim Papola

September 20, 2019

Doris. So very sorry for your loss.

RIP Tank

A.J. US Army Retired

September 20, 2019

THANK YOU FOR SERVING!!

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