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Barbara Oblon-Lubusko, 69, passed away on Tuesday, August 12, 2025, with her longtime companion by her side in Middlefield. Born in Meriden, CT on April 25, 1956, she was the daughter of the late John "Dick" Oblon and Ann Oblon. She had attended St. Stanislaus, Jefferson Jr. High, and graduated from Maloney High School.
Barb, "BAMO" as she would say, was loved and respected by many. She loved her family and friends and of course her Dallas Cowboys. She will truly be missed.
She is survived by her nephews, Jason Scott Oblon and his wife Marinella Mangiafico-Oblon, James John Woronick and his son Justin and her niece Ashley Pastor and her sons, Logan and Odinn. She also leaves behind her long-time companion, Fred Schaefer. She was predeceased by her husband George Lubusko, her brother A. Scott Oblon and her sister, Cynthia Cox.
Family and friends are invited to calling hours on Monday, September 15, 2025, from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 E. Main St., Meriden, CT 06450. Funeral service will be held at 7:00 p.m. in the funeral home. Burial will be private. Contributions in her memory can be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude’s Place, Memphis, TN 38105 or online at stjude.org or you can donate to the Meriden Humane Society, 311 Murdock Ave, Meriden, CT 06450. For online condolences, please visit jferryfh.com.
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Freddy
Yesterday
I miss Barb, she was my best friend, boy do I miss her!
Bill Nickodemski
September 10, 2025
RIP Barb.....you were one of the most "Real" people
I have ever known. Your spirit lives on!
Janice Pierce
September 10, 2025
I am so sorry to read this. I worked with Barbara at JC Penneys when we both were 16. We always seemed to have fun & lots of laughs. May Barbara rest in peace.
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