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Deborah J. Sokol

8/28/1970 - 11/2/2022

Deborah J. Sokol obituary, 8/28/1970-11/2/2022, Durham, CT

BORN

8/28/1970

DIED

11/2/2022

FUNERAL HOME

Wallingford Funeral Home - Wallingford

809 North Main Street Ext.

Wallingford, Connecticut

Deborah Sokol Obituary

Deborah J. (Yusza) Sokol, 52, of Durham, died November 2, 2022 at Middlesex Hospital surrounded by her loving husband of 29 years, Jason Sokol, her two children, Emily and Christopher Sokol, and her father, John Yusza, Jr. She has passed to her heavenly home with God and was reunited with her mother, Patricia (Slavinski) Yusza.

She was born August 28, 1970, and lived a life that inspired others to be the best versions of themselves, to give unselfishly, to work hard, to give things that special touch, to think about others, to laugh more, to compliment someone, to stay strong in times of adversity, and to stand up for those who cannot stand up for themselves. She said that if she was able to do that, then despite not being physically here, she will never be forgotten.

Interment was in St. John Cemetery in Wallingford. Please visit Deborah's online guest book and remembrance page at: www.wallingfordfh.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Record-Journal from Nov. 11 to Nov. 12, 2022.

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Beverly Sniegowski

September 19, 2023

I didn't know Debbie but I was so moved by her writings to her loved ones. I had been looking for someone online and happened to scroll past the first line which caught my attention. I thought, Wow, she had to have been an exceptional wife, mom, friend and daughter. It was an amazing and an oh so strong way to convey her last thoughts and feelings. You are All so truly Blessed by knowing her. I wish that I was as fortunate. If you see a rock painted pink with a heart in the center on her headstone, know that this is from me to Debbie. I have held onto it for nearly a year and noticed her stone is finally in place. It took a long time, I wished it not, but know she has touched a stranger as well.

Nick Prifti

November 16, 2022

My deepest condolences to the Sokol and Yusza families on the passing of Debbie. God bless all of you!

Sherri, Nicole, Rochelle and Richard Godbout

November 9, 2022

Jason, Emily and CJ,
We are so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful obituary for a beautiful woman.

The Carlson family

November 9, 2022

So very sorry for your loss. So much time has passed since the Little League days and off all out of touch we reminisce quite often of days past. Atlas off of you I love the Angels comfort you.

Liz Whitty, Xavier High School

November 8, 2022

Xavier High School extends sincere condolences to the Sokol Family on your loss. Deborah, her family, and friends are in the prayers of this Xaverian community.

Lindsay Klemish

November 8, 2022

I am so sorry for you loss- I never knew your family but she was no doubt someone who left her mark, 100%. And yes, I did shed tears reading this but it was so heartfelt and touching. She was and is an amazing person. ❤❤

Elizabeth Gara

November 7, 2022

So sorry to hear about Debby’s passing. She was a lovely person, hardworking and devoted to her family. My thoughts and prayers are with the Sokol and Yusza families.

Steve Palermo

November 7, 2022

Jason and family,
I´m so sorry to hear of Debs passing . She was a beautiful person and always had a smile and something nice to say . Be comforted that she is in peace watching over you all.

Ertle Family

November 7, 2022

Our sympathy and condolences Jason, Emily, CJ and the Yusza family. It seems like yesterday when we were on BS trips having a grand time. Debbie was always a spark that kept everyone going. We are sad but happy to have known Debbie.

Valerie and Eric Kammerer

November 7, 2022

Eric and I are so very sorry to learn of Debbie’s passing. We will cherish our Durham memories of she and Jason and the Boy Scouts. Sending prayers of comfort for the Sokol and Yusza families

Renata Kuczynski

November 7, 2022

My prayers go out to the family. May She Rest in Peace.

Karen Anderson

November 7, 2022

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Katie Jewett

November 6, 2022

Debbie was a dedicated mom, who always had her children's best interests at heart and was deeply invested in Emily's education. I appreciated her commitment and am sure she is missed. All my best to her whole family, especially Emily.

Regina Mappa

November 6, 2022

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.❤

Kimberly Childs

November 6, 2022

I am so sorry to hear of Debbie’s passing and my heart goes out to the Sokol and Yusza families. Her beautiful words tell a story of love and a life lived for those who matter. You will all be in my thoughts during the coming days.

Mary Kelly

November 6, 2022

My prayers go out to the family. May She Rest in Peace.

John Kelly & Family

November 6, 2022

What a beautiful video tribute to a beautiful family!

Paul & Pam Tanguay

November 6, 2022

Debbie will always be with us always in our hearts and with such wonderful memories her. Rest In Peace our sweet girl. ❤

Judith Levin

November 6, 2022

I never met Deborah but after reading her obituary I feel like I knew her. Thank you for your beautiful words . Rest in Heavenly Peace Deborah ❤

nancy Currlin

November 6, 2022

Sokol family... so sorry to hear about Deb. She always had a happy face and a positive attitude. I'll think of her whenever I wear pink. So sad a loss at such a young age. RIP Deb.

Janice Swiatek j

November 6, 2022

Dear John and family

I´m shocked and saddened to read of the passing of Debbie. Please accept my deepest condolences. Know that she´ll be with her mom, grandparents and uncle Butch

I think of Pat often and pray for her

Edward Mik

November 6, 2022

Our sincere sympathy and condolences to John, Jason, Emily and Christopher on the loss of your Daughter, Wife and Mother. It is so sad to lose someone so young. May she Rest In Peace and your grief be replaced by her memory and knowing she is in a better place....the Mik Family.

Robert Hartenstein

November 6, 2022

Jason and children, it's hard to express my feelings as I too morn the loss of Debby. As you well know that my Debby lost her battle with cancer almost 5 years ago. We will never forget but be assured that joyful days are ahead and we will be reunited with our loved ones in the future, this is the Lord's promise. I will always remember fondly the boys baseball games that I was able to attend in years past, I think of the frequently. Hold on to the good times. God be with you all. Love always, Bob

Lori Nicolai

November 5, 2022

Very sad Rest in heaven my friend! You will be missed by many. ♡ thank you for helping me through one of the toughest times in my life. I will always be grateful. Xo

George Santoni

November 5, 2022

I didn't know Deborah and haven't seen Jason in a long time. I know the terms funeral and celebration of life and after reading her obituary, hers was a life to be celebrated. Much love was shared in this family. Cherish the memories and each other.

Karen Kean

November 5, 2022

These photos of Debbie and all the family are so beautiful. They tell a very sweet story. Rest in peace Debbie. Everytime I see pink flowers I will think of you. My deepest sympathy to everyone. Hugs

Elizabeth

November 5, 2022

RIP to a Beautiful Angel

Joseph Slavinski

November 5, 2022

Uncle Joe and Aunt Bev love and will miss you as will your cousins Joe jr and Randy...life will go on and I pray we will all be together like the old days..we will pray for Jason and your children.say hi to your mom grandma and grampa and pet the dogs and be at peace.we will miss you..

Kimberly Houle-Nemic

November 5, 2022

Debbie, we’ve know each other for a very long time. We didn’t often see one another but when we did, you were always the sweet person I knew as a kid. I am inspired by your life and words of kindness to those who you leave here on Earth. I am taking to heart what you have said and will try to live my life in a way that you have lived yours.
You were taken away too soon, my friend, but your memory will live on with so many!!! Rest in peace!

Wayne and Joyce Carothers

November 5, 2022

Not sure if I know you or not but after reading your Obituary I feel like I lost a good friend. My condolences to your family and may you rest in eternal peace.

Donna Zanelli

November 5, 2022

Jason, Emily and Christopher. Our family is saddened to hear of Debbie’s passing. May all of your happy memories with her over take sadness. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. The Zanelli family

Michelle Fusco

November 5, 2022

To the entire Sokol family, I am deeply sorry for your great loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Deb will be remembered by many as a wonderful woman.

Marc and Garnet Venables

November 5, 2022

Spending time together in the bleachers at Little League games and during Boy Scout Events, we got to know the Sokol family.
Our thoughts are with youDebbie was special.

Ronald Bish

November 5, 2022

My Prayers go out. To the Yuza family. A Great family. And to know them. RIP

Kelly Raby

November 5, 2022

Our fierce, funny friend! I always felt we should all write our own obits while living our lives so it reads like a journal and not a mere bio. Forever updating the highlights of our joys. And you did that! Focusing on all that mattered in your life. You were one of a kind and will never be forgotten. No matter how much time passes I will never lose the sound of your voice calling me BooBoo. Jason, Emily and CJ. I wish I were there to celebrate her life but I will have my pink on and her picture with me! My love to you all.

Debbie Culmone

November 5, 2022

Debbie, I was your Physical therapist at your home only two times but you left an indelible mark on my heart. Your strong will and love of family was very evident and their love and commitment to you was also very evident. I would’ve loved to have been able to get to know you and your family better but heaven has definitely gained an angel. Blessings to you and your family. And to your family, I am so sorry for your loss but it seems that Debbie‘s faith was strong. Hugs to you all.
Debbie Culmone (PT)

Sandra Braccioforte

November 5, 2022

Debbie, your long fight has come to an end may you rest in the light of the Lord and find eternal peace.
Jason, Emily and Christopher my deepest sympathy on your loss may you find comfort in the memories she left behind and know she loved you unconditionally

Linda Wawrzeniak

November 4, 2022

John, I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. She was obviously a remarkable woman. I pray your faith and the love of family and friends will give you strength and comfort in the days ahead. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

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