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Theresa D.S. Heyward
August 9, 2024
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Janice Merrigan
August 7, 2024
Missing you, my friend.
Janice Merrigan
August 7, 2022
Missing you more and more each year. Wish you were here.
Janice Merrigan
August 7, 2021
Missing you my friend. We will meet again
Theresa H
August 11, 2020
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always. I still cannot believe that you are gone. I can still see your smiling face and the warmth in your greetings, rest in peace my friend.
Janice Merrigan
August 7, 2020
My friend, words cannot describe the loss I feel when I pass through Meriden, especially Broad St. Remembering all the good times. Miss, you my friend, see you on the other side.
October 2, 2016
I am so saddened to hear of John's death. I hope he is now at peace and can feel joy. I know he felt love from his family and those who knew him as the amazing man he was.
God bless him. Only our father knows why.
God bless you John.
Always your appreciative friend, Theresa Jeffries
Andrea Squibb
September 24, 2016
I would like to share my condolences with the Iver's family and all that knew and loved John. John will always remain in my mind an intelligent, fun-loving man with a big smile and ability to bring others together.
With love and sympathy,
Andrea A. Squibb
Cirilo Delgado
September 12, 2016
I send my deepest condolences to the ivers family.I was just told by one of my friends,about what had happened.I'm still in shock.God bless the ivers family.may the Lord Jesus christ give you peace and strength.
TOM Coss
August 24, 2016
Im so sorry to hear this very sad news about John D. Ivers Jr. He was very well known in the Meriden, Connecticut Area! He well be greatly missed by ALL! May John Always Rest In Peace, AMEN! Thank You, Take Care, And GOD BLESS! From, Tom Coss of Meriden, CT.
August 24, 2016
John I'm sorry sorry to hear what happen. My fiance Edwin Torres my self Tammy Torres would end our condolences to your family. I'm so sorry for your loss.you had one amazing and beyond outstanding husband, father, brother,sister,son,uncle, and one Amazing lawyer you will truly be missed. We will stay stay strong and fight in memory for you buddy. May you rest in peace my friend. Till we meet again.
Mary Burke
August 20, 2016
John was a kind and honorable man who gave to others without reservation. He loved his family, friends and colleagues. The good that John has accomplished during his short fifty years on earth will live on and serve as true testimony to the power of compassion and generosity of spirit. I will always treasure the memories of time spent with John at family gatherings with my sister Laurie and her husband Rob McGinley. Please accept our sincere condolences. May John's soul rest in peace.
Paul Kreminski
August 20, 2016
To all my Ivers cousins and to John's wife and children my deepest sympathy. I was shocked when I read the news online from the Record Journal.
Ray Moncevicius
August 19, 2016
Tracy & family, May you find peace at this time of sorrow. Remmember those precious times they will be in your hearts forever.
God Bless
Paul Varhol
August 19, 2016
Louise and Murph, Sorry to hear about your brother. We are sending positive vibes to you and the Ivers family. Families must stick together and talk and express feelings to provide relief. Sometimes we'll ask "Why?". I do that everyday. Be supportive and open to your close family and always talk. Lots of love. The Varhols.
August 18, 2016
Heaven gained an Angel.
Al & Jo Marie Pereyo
August 18, 2016
So sorry for the family, he was always so nice.
The Pereyo Family
Jeff Spencer Sr.
August 17, 2016
Rest in peace John
Madeleine and Paul Duberek
August 17, 2016
To the Ivers Family
Paul and I wish to extend our most sincere condolences to you. We know there are now words to comfort but we hope you know how much John was loved and respected. He will forever be in your hearts.
August 17, 2016
Tracy & family: My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Jean Desrosiers Wallingford, Ct.
Christine Grochowski
August 17, 2016
My thoughts and prayers are with John's family. As a local attorney who started practicing around the same time as John, I had the opportunity to work with him many times over the years. Even in very contested family cases, John always remained calm while fighting hard for his clients. He was always reasonable and courteous and a true asset to our profession. I also had the opportunity to see him many times over the past few years as a basketball coach. My son played basketball for Holy Trinity the same years John was coaching for St. Joes and we played them many times between regular season games and tournaments. John was a great role model to those kids. He encouraged all of them and gave them all decent playing time as versus just worrying about winning. His death is such a great loss. I will miss his smiling face at the Meriden court.
Ann Farrell
August 17, 2016
My heartfelt condolences to the Ivers Family. John and I met as young lawyers over twenty years ago when we were just starting out our practices. He was an absolute pleasure to deal with. He always had a smile and a kind word. He will be great missed. He was definitely "one of the good guys."
Peggy Suzio
August 17, 2016
with heartfelt condolences...my thoughts and prayers are with your family.
rene nieves
August 17, 2016
my condolens to john fam, from my hart,i know how fleel to losse a love one I losse my wife of cancer and my grangdaugter only 3 months,john was there for me,went I bring to him my case,allways positive on due the work,we will miss him god bless him and all the family.
CHRIS WILL MISS SEEING YOU
JOANN BAGNOLI
August 17, 2016
MY HEART FEELS BROOKEN MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES.HIS SOUL WILL BE BLESS AND HE IS IN HEAVEN NOW ,R.I.PI JUST CANT BELIVE IT
Lucy Robert Yunis Bryan Jesus Rodriguez
August 16, 2016
Our deepest condolences to the entire Ivers Family.Words cannot begin to describe the pain you are all feeling at this time but God will pull you thru...as clients of John for many years we got to know him pretty well and must say that he was a great and humble human being.Our prayers are with you.Good Bye John. You will be missed.
Nikki Knight
August 16, 2016
Sorry sadden to learn about the passing of John. He was a great man and great at what he did, and I was happy to have gotten to know him. Prayers and condolences for his family during this difficult time.
Justine Grandpre
August 16, 2016
My deepest condolences. Love & prayers for your entire family
Dan & Molly Grabowski
August 16, 2016
So very heartbroken. John was a decent and good man. He will be so missed by everyone. My heartfelt and deepest condolences. May God bless his soul.
Cipolli Family
August 16, 2016
To the Ivers Family sorry for your loss. As a client of his, he always saw sun light, when all I saw was dark clouds. He always had a smile and always shook your hand. He will be missed by all that meet him. God Bless
Susan Melzmuf
August 16, 2016
To the Ivers Family-
We wish you peace and love during this sad, sad time. May God take him in his arms and welcome him home.
With love,
The Melzmuf and Plourde Families
John & Bev Ranno
August 16, 2016
To the Ivers Family especially Neil, the world will be a sad place without the kind soul of John in it. He will always be remembered as a patient wonderful man. He had that great smile and always had a peacefully manner to put you at ease through difficult times. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Ivers Family Much love to all
Larry Corcoran
August 16, 2016
I had the privilege of working as a court interpreter with John at the courthouse in Meriden for several years. He was a good lawyer who really cared about his clients. He had an ability to calm and reassure the people he represented and it was always fun to work with him and be around him. I will miss him. He was a good man. My deepest and heartfelt condolences to his family.
Dina Falis
August 16, 2016
A killer smile to great you, a warm embrace to calm you, a shoulder to cry on and a wink from those ice blue eyes telling you that everything will be just fine and to relax...these are the qualities of my dear friend that I will always remember. John was a wonderful attorney and took great care of me, my family and friends for many years. He took our phone calls morning, noon and night and gave us the best advice you could ever ask for. I cannot imagine the pain you all feel in your hearts. You are all in my thought and prayers. I hope that some day you will look back on the memories that you have and be able to find joy again. I will truly miss you my friend. R.I.P Bruiser.
Lisa Mingione
August 16, 2016
Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. With love, Lisa and Greg
Michael Hogan
August 16, 2016
Louise,Murph, and all of your family, I am so sorry for your loss. John was a wonderful man who made the world a better place. I will always remember him and his wonderful smile. Praying for all of you.
Kathy Flannery
August 15, 2016
My deepest sympathy to the entire Ivers family. I had the pleasure of working with John occasionally and found him to be such a nice man. It was evident that family was everything to him. I hope that the outpouring of love and support will sustain you in these darkest days.
Donna Sullivan
August 15, 2016
To the Ivers family, my deepest sympathies.
Judy Cadden
August 15, 2016
To all the Ivers family We were all so sad to hear about your loss. I remember meeting John when he came to work with Tom and Neil. Our families have been close for so many years. Our parents must be consoling each other in heaven. God bless you all.
Norma Santiago
August 15, 2016
John rest in peace, it was an honor knowing you. Thank you for all you did for me and my family. You will never be forgotten.
August 15, 2016
To John's Family, Thinking of you and praying for moments of peace and comfort. With deepest sympathy, Sharon Durgan
August 15, 2016
Our deepest condolences go out to the entire Ivers family. Went to high school with John, always had a smile on his face. Just recently brought my mom to see him for some legal issues. Always took care of us and I could call and he'd always take or call right back for any legal advice needed! Such a kind gentle soul. I will never forget when my oldest son was in his accident, Tracy was giving birth at Yale and he came right down to see us. . R.I.P. my friend!! You will be missed.
Carolyn Traverso-Wells & family
August 15, 2016
Dear Ivers family, friends and loved ones of John, our deepest condolences on the passing of John. He was well loved by so many which shows so well, who he was. Please consider leaning on those people in this time of sorrow to help spark memories that may ease your pain and allow you to start to heal. R. I. P. John.
Marci Hansen
August 15, 2016
To the Ivers Family,
My deepest sympathies for your loss. It's been an honor to work with John all these years. He was truly a wonderful person and will be missed dearly.
Sonya Carrier
August 15, 2016
To the Ivers family especially Neil,my deepest sympathies for your lost in this moment of turmoil.My prayers are with you.
VANESSA CHAPARRO
August 15, 2016
God bless you and may he have you in his glory. May you watch over your children and protect them from Haven. May God's light shine upon your children and family and may they have peace in their heavy hreats. You will be missed ,God BLESS.
Gerald Giaimo
August 15, 2016
My most sincere condolences for the loss of a very good man. His loss has caused us to pause and appreciate those around us. - Gerry
Dawn Kennedy
August 14, 2016
You will be greatly missed But will be forever in our hearts. Iver's family we are keeping you in our prayers and our condolences to your family.
August 14, 2016
to entire ivers family, our prayer are with all of you. huge loss, he help me to help many resident that need his service.great friend and good lawyer.
Nelly and Rafael Vega
August 14, 2016
We are truly sorry to hear of the loss of John. Please accept our condolences any may our prayers help comfort you during this difficult days.
Brenda Garrison
August 14, 2016
To the family my condolences and may mr.Ivers R.I.P thank u for beening there for my son,u always went all out for ur client's and i thank u for that Brenda &son Ray
Chad Trombley
August 14, 2016
To Neil and the entire Ivers Family.Im so sorry for your loss. John was a great guy and was there to help me when i needed him.
Jo-Ann and Bob amantea
August 14, 2016
Ivers Family: I am writing this with a heavy heart, we are never ready to say good bye to our loved ones. John was the Rock and he will never be forgotten. with deepest sympathy. Sincerely, JoAnn and Bob amantea
Jackie Rondini
August 14, 2016
Silver City Baseball would like to send Colin and Family members our condolences we are honored to have shared our Spring Season with Mr.Ivers We send our Love and Prayers to the family RIP Mr.Ivers
Deb Anderson
August 14, 2016
So very sorry for you and family on your loss. Keeping you in our prayers.
Elmer A Gonzalez
August 14, 2016
To the Ivers family, my deepest condolences on the loss of a good brother, father, colleague and most importantly a friend in many aspects. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Ivers family. RIP Johnny boy!!!
Christi Elkins
August 14, 2016
To the Ivers family,Words cannot express how saddened I am over the loss of John. I cannot fathom the pain you must be feeling. I remember his early days as a lawyer, watching his practice grow. In all of these years, I can't remember him raising his voice, or speaking untoward to anyone. John has always been the consummate gentleman towards everyone in the Meriden Courthouse, other members of the Bar, the Bench, staff, and clients, whether they were his or not. I remember one time, especially. It was a family short calendar, and there was a young lady, being taken to court for visitation by the father of her child. It was obvious that she had very little means. The father's family hired a lawyer and it looked like he was going to just run roughshod over the girl. She was standing in the hall, crying. John walked over, asked her a few questions, talked to her about her options. He filed an appearance for her, helped her work out an agreement with the father, despite what the interfere by the family of the father. I don't think that he ever was paid for that case. I don't think that it mattered to him. He saw someone in need.That's how I will remember John. May he rest in peace, and may you all find peace and learn to smile at the memories.Christi ElkinsCourt Reporters OfficeMeriden Superior Court
Michael Piscopiello
August 14, 2016
Heart breaking, our sympathies and condolences to the Ivers family.
NIXA REYES
August 14, 2016
MR IVERS REST IN PEACE,YOU DESERVE TO REST YOU WERE AN AUTSTANDING MAN,MY HEART AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOUR THREE BEATIFUL CHILDREN,YOUR SISTERS AND BROTHERS.MAY GOD HELP THEM IN THEIR TIME OF PAIN.
Thomas & Jacqueline Bezrutczyk
August 14, 2016
Our deepest sympathy to the Ivers family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Again, we are so sorry for you loss.
August 14, 2016
To the Ivers family our deepest simpathies for your loss Bill &Susan Fearney
James Ballard
August 14, 2016
I have really no words to express the passing of John. My deepest sympathy to his family and his brother's and sister's.. John always seem to have the million dollar smile! I pray too that his family has the strength of God to endure during this very sad time. John is now in God's hand and at peace..Jimmy Ballard
Theresa D.S. H.
August 14, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. May God rain love and blessing upon your family... we will all miss that welcoming and bright smile. It was great working with you for the past 18 years John.
Kathleen Scalzi
August 13, 2016
May the road rise up to meet you,
May the wind be ever at your back
May the sun shine warm upon your face
And the rain fall softly on your fields
And until we meet again, May God hold
you in the hollow of his hand
With sympathy, love and our heartfelt prayers,
Kathy & Jonathan Scalzi
August 13, 2016
Our deepest sympathies to the entire Ivers family.
The loss of John will be felt by so many as he truly was one of the good guys.
I'll never forget his friendship and all that he did for me when I needed his help.
Rest peacefully my friend.
Patrick, Fiona, Teresa, Savannah
Karen Burdacki and Dan Nitkowski
August 13, 2016
Dear Neil and the Ivers family: It was with extreme sadness that we learned of John's passing. Please accept our most sincere and heartfelt condolences. You are in our prayers.
Kim Sheftel
August 13, 2016
To the entire Ivers family...with deepest sympathy our thoughts and prayers are with you at this extremely difficult time. RIP John.
The Sheftel family
Dennis Leary
August 13, 2016
To the Ivers Family - I am so deeply sorry for your loss. John and I were friends in high school and even then he was such a great friend, true gentleman, and a truly special person who left his imprint on so many lives including my own.
We will never understand why the Lord took him so early but we know he is in His loving arms today and forever.
Michael and Mary Papacoda
August 13, 2016
Please accept our condolences. John was a wonderful person we were saddened to learn of his passing.
With deepest sympathy,
Michael and Mary Papacoda Jr.
Wendy Daniels Copperthite
August 13, 2016
I will always remember John bouncing down the stairs of his offices with that big smile. He always had a grateful hug for me as he met Tracy serving my custody case some 20 years ago. John always thanked me for that each time we met over the past years. He proudly showed pictures of his kids and beamed with love for them. I am shocked and grieving to say the least of this genuine man I knew. He helped me and in later years with my son also. I will never forget him and the positive impact he made to our lives.
Elizabeth Day
August 13, 2016
Dear Entire Ivers Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of deep sorrow. May you always know that John is walking with you every step of the way and watching over each of you. He will guide you, love you and protect you always. John has been chosen by God to be his newest Angel. May your hearts feel the warmth of his love and Know he is there always and eternally. Rest in Peace John. Thanks for all that you did for our Community. Love to the entire family. Love Elizabeth G. Day
Lynn Matthews
August 13, 2016
My deepest condolences to John's family. May he rest in eternal peace. Lynn Matthews, SPCHS class of 1984
Mrs Rivers and family
August 13, 2016
To the Ivers family my deepest sympathy to your loss John will truly be missed he was such a great person that will never be forgotten my prayers are with you all at this time that God will give you the strength that you need !!!!
Marta Bertoldo
August 13, 2016
My deepest sympathy to the Ivers family. John was an incredible soul. His kindness and love for his family and friends will continue to keep his memory alive. God Bless and may he comfort all of you. Rest in peace John. Sincerest condolences
Steve and Marie Kinard
August 13, 2016
Our sincere condolences to the entire Ivers family. Hold your memories close and John will forever live on in your hearts. Prayers and thoughts are with you during this very sad time.
Courtney Stone
August 13, 2016
My condolences to the Ivers family , Jonh was such a great man , one thing I will always remember is his SMILE and how kind and sweet he was to not just me but to everyone.He will be greatly missed .My prayers to his family.Rip John
August 13, 2016
Rest in Peace dear John.
Madeline Carr
August 13, 2016
To the Ivers Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. May the tears you shed today fade to wonderful memories of your time with him. May God Bless and comfort you.
In prayers and sympathy,
Carol, Olivia, Rachael, and Bill
Courtney Stone
August 13, 2016
My condolences to the Ivers family , Jonh was such a great man , one thing I will always remember is his SMILE and how kind and sweet he was to not just me but to everyone.He will be greatly missed .My prayers to his family.Rip John
Lingo Vega
August 13, 2016
Our hearts are saddened by your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with your family
Vega and Vargas family
Janice Merrigan
August 13, 2016
My sincere condolences to the Ivers Family especially Neil. Our families have been close for years. I personally have lost a good friend and colleague who I will never forget. I will miss you and everything you have done for our family. Rest in Peace John John.
Elizabeth Rhoades
August 13, 2016
You have my deepest sympathies. He must have been a real gem. I am so sorry.
Liz Rhoades
August 13, 2016
To Neil, and the entire Ivers family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Tom Doyle, Thomaston
Marshall Laderoute and Family
August 13, 2016
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Debbie Roberts Zimmerman
August 13, 2016
My prayers of comfort and strength to all of you during this time of sorrow.
Wendy Daniels Copperthite
August 13, 2016
I will always remember John bouncing down the stairs of his offices with that big smile. He always had a grateful hug for me as he met Tracy serving my custody case some 20 years ago. John always thanked me for that each time we met over the past years. He proudly showed pictures of his kids and beamed with love for them. I am shocked and grieving to say the least of this genuine man I knew. He helped me and in later years with my son also. I will never forget him and the positive impact he made to our lives.
August 13, 2016
I am trurly sorry for your lose. I just like to say john was great at what he it and will be missed by frank cucurello and family
Mary Budwitz
August 13, 2016
My Deepest Sympathy to the Ivers Family.
Lorraine C
August 13, 2016
Sincere Condolences to the family and friends of John Ivers. He was an amazing person and will be missed by the Meriden community May he RIP
Jeffrey Brownstein
August 13, 2016
Dear Neil And The entire Ivers Family:
Words alone can not even begin to describe the pain and upset that I am feeling over John's passing. I am so very sorry for your loss. I considered John to be a true friend and I will truly miss him.
August 13, 2016
Our deepest condolences to the Iver's family.
Shirley & George D. Pease. Daniel R. Pease
Albert&Eddie Mae Phipps
August 13, 2016
To Neil & The Iver's Family:
So sorry for your lost, our prayers and thoughts are with the family.
August 13, 2016
My deepest sympathy to all the Ivers family. May John rest in peace.
Bernie Noonan
Michael Cannata
August 13, 2016
Rest In Peace counselor as i always calle dhim condolences to his wife and children
Ritza Policard
August 13, 2016
Dearest Neil; Dear Tracy (whom I only met once) and wonderful children John, Grace and Colin, especially John Jr. and Grace; Dear other Family Members, I may know or have yet to meet in such dire circumstances; Dear Firm Colleagues and Employees, please accept My most Sincere and Deepest Condolences. Dear Ivers' Family, I offer you my prayers as well, as source of comfort, knowing how profoundly religious your family is. For his Generosity, Devotion and Volunteerism, we will keep John's Spirit and Memory Alive. Dear Ivers Family and Friends, in this time of Great Sorrow, May God gives you Strength, Solace and Serenity. May your soul Rest in Peace John!
Cara Staus
August 13, 2016
Tracy, my heart breaks for you all. Thoughts and prayers are with you during these most difficult days. God bless.
Yolanda Salas
August 13, 2016
My condolences to the Iver family. I had the pleasure to work with Atty Ivers great man. Rest in peace Atty John Ivers
Patricia Gaspar
August 13, 2016
To the Family of John
My deepest sympathy and prayer to all. No words can describe the sorrow in many hearts as we say goodby to a very special man. He has touch so many lives in his lifetime. He was always there for anyone at any time. Always had a smile. God recieved an angel in heaven. I personally will miss him dearly.. Rest in peace john.
Irene Nieves-Santiago
August 13, 2016
My Deepest Sympathies to the Ivers family.
In remembrance of a wonderful person and human being, He leaves a Beautiful Legacy of someone pure at heart. He will truly be missed. R.I.P. John May the Lord have you in He s Glory.
gerry rosado
August 12, 2016
thoughts and prayers to you and family.
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