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Kathleen Patterson Obituary
She was born June 27, 1963 in Meriden daughter of Robert and Eileen (Murphy) Baird. She was a member of St. Sebastian Church. Kathleen was employed by Harbor Park and the First and Last of Guilford. She was a member of the Middlesex Chamber of Commerce.
Besides her husband she is survived by two sons, Matthew and Kristopher Patterson of Durham and Robert Baird of Meriden Paul and Eileen Matterazzo of Middletown; a sister, Paula Kral of Middletown; her maternal grandmother, Aida Murphy of Meriden; paternal grandmother, Josephine Baird of Meriden; her in-laws, William and Jane Patterson of Durham; her beloved nephews, Jay and Sean, and her Companion Arthur.
Funeral ervices will be held Saturday at 10:45 a.m. at St. Sebastian Church, 155 Washington St., Middletown. Burial will follow in the family plot in St Sebastian Cemetery, Middlefield. Relatives and friends may call at the D'Angelo Funeral Home, 22 South Main St., Middletown, Friday (TODAY) from 4 to 8 p.m. Donations in her memory may be made to Xavier High School, 181 Randolph Road, Middletown 06457.
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Memories and Condolences
for Kathleen Patterson
Laura (Bransfield) Daniels
February 20, 2008
Mike,
My heart goes out to you and your family. I was so saddened to learn of Kathie's passing. I have such great memories of fun times spent with both of you during high school. I'm glad you found each other at Vinal and made a life together.
Karen Wickham
February 11, 2008
Paula, Eileen & Families,
I was so sorry to hear of Kathie's passing. She was the one who started my career in Hospitality when she hired me as Hostess at Harbor Park back in 2003. I know you both, Michael & her boys were very important to her. Keeping you in my thoughts & prayers.
Christopher Gaudino
February 10, 2008
Paula and Eileen, so sorry to hear about Kathy! Your families are in my thougths in this difficult time.
Richard Owen Jr
February 6, 2008
Mike and family , please accept my deepest condolences and sympathy for your loss .
Neil Mazurek
February 5, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Kelly Hammick
February 4, 2008
Paula, I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your sister. I will keep your family in my thoughts.
ENZA MAZZOTTA-GIACCO
February 3, 2008
This picture was taken by me on January 14, 2008, Kathie and I were at Amici's in Middletown, CT, and as usual we had a wonderful time. Kathie, everyday I'm missing you more and more. Love, Enza
Rich & Maria Bergan
February 2, 2008
Paul and Eileen,
We were stunned and deeply saddened to hear of Kathy's untimely passing. She was a wonderful person with the face of an angel. It is impossible to understand why these things happen in life. You and Kathy's entire family our in prayers.
Rose Marie G. Marmolejo
February 2, 2008
Dear Michael and Sons: I knew Kathie for long time and we emailed each other often. Her smile and her loving ways will be missed; she is a bright star in God's heaven. My love is with you. Rose Marie Marmolejo
Pat Marsden & Family
February 1, 2008
Robert and Mrs.Baird : We are thinking of you at this time. May happy memories with Kathy ease your sorrow.
Sincerely,
Tina & Jonathan Deprey
February 1, 2008
This is Tina and Jonathan Deprey (Goulet)from Higganum, CT and we are very sorry to hear about Kathy's passing, There are no words that can help heal the sadness that you are all feeling right know you are all in our prayers.
Minnie Alcazar
February 1, 2008
Kathy, I knew you briefly but I will always remember your kind words and beautiful smile. May you rest in peace.Thanks for everything.
Michael Goulet
February 1, 2008
I'm so very sorry for your loss, Kathy was special to everyone, always smiling and happy. From the day I meet her chasing her around the bushes at gramas house, we were 4. I still remember it Like it was yesterday. she will be deeply missed. Boys be strong for each other.
Susan Barbagallo
February 1, 2008
There are no words to express how deeply sorry we are for your loss. Our thoughts and our prayers are with you.
Sue and Lou Barbagallo
mary joan lazarus
February 1, 2008
sorry for your loss - my son Glenn always spoke highly of Kathy. She was a very good friend to him .She took good care of him when they worked together. God bless Kathy
Gillie Augeri
February 1, 2008
I wish to offer my heartfelt sympathy to the Family of Kathy Patterson. I did not know her well, but I do know her family and that she was very special to all who knew her. I wish you strength and hope in this very difficult time.
Rebecca DeRoia
February 1, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. Be comforted by your memories of Kathy they will help you through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Johanna Kerr
February 1, 2008
Dear Eileen & Paul -- I'm truly sorry to hear about Kathy - I know how devastating her untimely passing must be for you & your family. I pray that wonderful memories will stay in your hearts and minds forever. Please know you're in my thoughts & prayers; extending my deepest sympathy to all of you.
Johanna (Turro) Kerr
Joe Rigano
February 1, 2008
My God Bless you and your family at this sad time.
Gina Robinson(Tacinelli)
February 1, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Susan, Fran, Francis 09' and Morgan McNulty
February 1, 2008
Mike, Kris & Matthew,
We are deeply saddened to hear of Kathy's passing. We know that this is a difficult time and our thoughts and prayers are with you. We will always remember Kathy for her warm and welcoming smile. May God bless all of you during this time and always.
Richard Otte
February 1, 2008
Mike & Family, I am incredibly sad to hear the news about Kathy. My thoughts are with you all, she will be greatly missed by all who knew her.
Lori Plourde (Maringola)
February 1, 2008
Kathy was my most beautiful cousin. Every time I saw her I let her know that. There was always something about her that I wish I had. Not only was she beautiful on the outside, but she was even more beautiful on the inside. All the people that knew her know what I mean when I say what a beautiful wife, mother, aunt, cousin, friend, she was. May God hold her tight in his arms and consoul her family. I just know that God said "Kathy, you were a wondeful and beautiful woman for 44 years on the earth, I need you back with me." I loved her so much even though we hardly saw eachother. I am taking comfort in the fact that God got an angel back up in Heaven with Him. With love and prayers. And may the Lord be with your husband and children and mom and grandma and anyone else that knew you. I love you my cousin. R.I.P.
Paul & Barbara Marino
February 1, 2008
Sending you our deepest codolences at this sorrowful time
Barbara Winter Schukoske
February 1, 2008
I am so sorry about your loss, may you find comfort in her memory.
Uncle Danny & Teresa Murphy
February 1, 2008
Her laughter and love will live in our hearts forever.
Maria Erdman
February 1, 2008
Michael & Family, I am so sorry to hear of Kathy's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Wendy Pedersen-Manemeit
February 1, 2008
Mike and family, I was so saddened to hear of Kathy's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Kim Denison
February 1, 2008
To Kathys family...I am so very sorry for your loss. I did not know Kathy for very long, but I felt her to be a very warm, caring person. She was truly a gift to so many.
JOHN MISENTI
January 31, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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