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Mary Lou Downing Obituary

WALLINGFORD - Mary Lou (Tedoldi) Downing, 85, of Wallingford, Conn., died peacefully Friday, Dec. 11, 2015. She was the devoted wife for 64 years of the late Joseph F. Downing, who predeceased her in August of this year.

She was born in Tewksbury, Mass. on May 4, 1930, daughter of the late Jenny (Tedoldi) Padula, and raised by her uncle and aunt, the late Louis and Philomena Tedoldi. Mary Lou grew up in Wellesley, Mass., surrounded by a large loving extended family. She graduated from Wellesley High School and subsequently became a bank branch vice president. Upon marrying she moved to Wallingford, Conn. She was the loving mother of five children. While being a devoted mother, she worked side-by-side with her husband to start and grow a successful business. Mary Lou was happiest when she and Joe were surrounded by their children and grandchildren. She was a friend to many, known for her outgoing personality and endless energy.

She is survived by her daughters and sons-in-law, Natalie and Harvey Johnson, of Parsippany, N.J., Joanne and Gary Daviau, of Clinton, Conn., and Roberta and Paul Gioffre Sr., of Stevensville, Md.; her grandchildren, Jennifer Devine and her husband, Roy, Erika Emerick and her husband, Michael, Kevin Powers and his wife, Sharon, Joseph Powers and his wife, Desiree, Kathryn Drabble and her husband, Michael, Emily Smith and her husband, Jason, William Daviau and his wife, Laura, Paul Gioffre Jr. and his wife, Daria, and April Gioffre; seven great-grandchildren; her sister, Louise Bailey; and her brother, Robert Tedoldi and his wife, Carol; as well as many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her son, William L. Downing; and her daughter, Donna Marie Anderson M.D.

Her family will receive relatives and friends in The Wallingford Funeral Home, 809 N. Main St. Ext., Wallingford, Conn., on Tuesday, Dec. 15, from 5 to 7 p.m. Funeral services will be held Wednesday, Dec. 16 at 9 a.m. from the funeral home, when the funeral cortege will proceed to Most Holy Trinity Church, 84 N. Colony St., Wallingford, Conn., where a Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Interment will be in St. John Cemetery in Wallingford. In lieu of flowers, gifts in her memory may be sent to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105; or the Wounded Warrior Project, P.O. Box 758517, Topeka, KS 66675.

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Published by The Record-Journal on Dec. 14, 2015.

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Andree Gramms und Ines Goepel

August 27, 2021

Dear Mary Lou, Unfortunately, we only found out much too late today from Katie that you passed away in December 2015. That touches us very much and makes us sad. We got to know and appreciate each other on vacation, we became kind of distant friends between Germany and the USA. All hours with you will remain unforgettable for us. You are and will remain in our hearts forever. We would have loved to hug and hug you again. We'll catch up with that now with the words as best we can. Thank you for everything, especially for the friendship. We hope you and Joe are reunited up there in heaven. With deep sympathy Ines and Andree from Germany, Hamburg.

December 21, 2015

So sorry for the lost of your dear loved one. May you get the strength and comfort you need during this difficult time. 2 Cor 1:3

zaira gouveia

December 16, 2015

To the Downing family : May God comfort your hearts on this difficult time , God bless you all. Mr & Ms Downing were like grandparents to my sister's and I . We will forever hold the memories and stories they both used to share with us,We will never forget them.
They truly will be forever missed !

Les & Greg Plante

December 15, 2015

Any words we have for you, Natalie, and your family could not express our sympathy nor ease the pain of loss I know you must be feeling. We offer you our heartfelt prayers that you will be held in the hand of God and that Mary Lou will rest in peace, knowing that you are surrounded by those who love you and are honored to know you as a friend.

Reinhard and Monika Schomburg

December 14, 2015

Her hospitality was second to none, our family will never forget Thanksgiving at the "Downings" and her sympathy when our parents passed away.
She will always remain in our heart.
Reinhard and Monika Schomburg

Tony Paguni

December 14, 2015

So very sorry to read of Mary Lou's passing. I will always hold her and Joe in my fondest memories. They had a love that was truly made in heaven!

Anne Marie & Richard Wagner

December 14, 2015

We know that no words can help ease the pain and loss that you are feeling right now. You are all in our prayers and thoughts.

Denise (Mizenko) and Jimmie Barbes

December 14, 2015

To the downing family...I am so sorry for your loss. What a sad year for all of you, but I'm sure she is happily reunited with Joe, Bill and Donna. She may have also met up with my mom. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. Take comfort in the loving memories you all have of your family in heaven.

Jeff Alfin

December 14, 2015

One of my favorite people of all time; will surely miss both Mary Lou and Joe...wonderful folks is an understatement.

December 14, 2015

My sympathy to the Downing family,please know that God is our refuge and our strength 2cor 1:3

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