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Mary S. Volker

12/11/1920 - 8/26/2022

Mary S. Volker obituary, 12/11/1920-8/26/2022, Cheshire, CT

BORN

12/11/1920

DIED

8/26/2022

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615 South Main Street

Cheshire, Connecticut

Mary Volker Obituary

Mary S. Volker, 101, passed away on Friday, August 26, 2022, at Elim Park Health Care. She was the wife of the late Aloysius Volker.

Mrs. Volker was born December 11, 1920, in Bridgeport, the daughter of the late Robert and Lucy (Burdick) Smith. She grew up in Southington and graduated from Lewis High School in 1938. In her 20s she was a bank secretary until she met and married her late husband Aloysius.

When her three children were small she was a wonderful homemaker and mom. In the late 1970s, she joined the City of Meriden School System and held various positions until her retirement in 1994. In retirement, she was a longtime volunteer at Mid-State Hospital and Masonicare in Wallingford.

She had many talents and hobbies including baking, knitting sewing, reading, and golf. The most important part of her life was being an active member of Center Congregational Church in Meriden. Through the years she served her church in various ways. She was the Collector; a Deaconess; the "Cheese and Nut" Chairperson for over 20 years for the Christmas Fair; an active member of the Handbell Choir for decades as well as many other activities. She was the church's oldest living member.

Mrs. Volker is survived by her daughters Susan Sanoski and her husband Paul of Downingtown, PA; Judith Sullivan and her husband Ed, of Cheshire, and Cynthia Volker of New London, NH; her step-son Mike Volker of OH; her grandchildren Mary Kate Prince of PA, James and Colin R. Sullivan of Hamden; her great-grandchildren Olivia, Owen, and Jack Prince. In addition to her parents and her husband, she is predeceased by her infant son; her brother Robert Smith; her infant grandson Kevin Edmund Sullivan and her best friend of 93 years Toni (Chaffee) Giles Height.

Arrangements - A Memorial Service will be held on Wednesday, September 7, 2022, at the Center Congregational Church of Meriden, 474 Broad St. at 12 noon. Burial will be held at the convenience of the family in Walnut Grove Cemetery in Meriden and there are no calling hours. The Alderson-Ford Funeral Home of Cheshire is assisting with arrangements. Memorial Contributions may be made to the Center Congregational Church of Meriden, 06450. For online condolences, to share a photo or a story, please visit www.fordfh.com.

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Published by The Record-Journal from Sep. 4 to Sep. 5, 2022.

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Cheryl Belomizi

October 5, 2022

I was so sad to hear about Mary. Mary was the light that shined bright at MidState Medical Center. I looked forward to her volunteering on Thursdays, where she mastered every job I gave her. Her sharp mind and creativity was very impressive. She knew everyone, and spoke proudly of her family, especially her grand kids. Her bright and caring spirit was the highlight of my Thursdays! The small gifts I gave her on her birthday and Christmas was something I enjoyed tremendously because she was like a kid on Christmas morning when she opened up her gifts. She appreciated her holiday brooches and scarves so much and wore them with pride. I will miss that smile of hers and the excitement she showed. She is one very special lady and I am truly blessed to have known her. She taught me so much about life. I will truly miss her. My condolences to all who knew Mary.

Michael Veillette

September 7, 2022

Cindy, I am so very sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. 101 years old! What a life! I remember her well from MHS. Such a sweet lady. Sending love,,,

Ilona Savejs Slater

September 5, 2022

Susan and family
Very sorry for the loss of your Mom but how wonderful that you had her in your lives for all those many years, sounds like she had a wonderful life, bless her. Thoughts and prayers

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