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Thomas Feeley Obituary

SOUTHINGTON - Thomas J. Feeley 68, of Milldale, died Sunday, Nov. 29, 2009, after a two-year battle with mesothelioma cancer. He was the beloved husband of Diane (Zoufaly) for 41 years and passed away with her by his side.

Tom was born May 15, 1941 in Shenandoah, Pa., and was the son of Loretta Feeley and the late Thomas Feeley. He graduated from Cardinal Brennan High School and joined the U.S. Navy in 1959 to 1963. His active service was on the ship VSS Forest Royal and participated in the FRAM (Fleet Rehabilitation and Modernization) operations. He attended Penn State University before moving to Connecticut and received a bachelor's degree in business administration at CCSU. Tom was employed by Pratt & Whitney, Meriden and Southington Hospitals, and retired from BAE in Cheshire in 2006 as a materials manager.

Tom was a loving father and grandfather and devoted husband. He was a avid reader, enjoyed golf and gardening, going out to dinner and watching all sports including football with the Giants as his favorite team.

Besides his wife, Diane, he is survived by two daughters, Dawn Chiulli and her husband, Frank, of Westchester, NY., Lisa Edwards and her husband, Michael, of Taunton, Mass.; he also leaves three brothers, Terrence and Daniel Feeley, of Etters, Pa., and Paul Feeley, of Shenandoah, Pa.; two sisters, Mary Lou Brown and her husband, Thomas, of Virginia Beach, Va., and Eileen Farber and her husband, William, of Mohoney City, Pa.; he also leaves four cherished granddaughters, Nicole and Sarah Chiulli and Riley and Sidney Edwards; and nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by a sister Patricia Seigel.

A Mass will be held at 12 p.m. on Thursday, Dec. 3 at the St. Aloysius Church. 245 Burritt St.. Plantsville. Burial will be at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be sent to Dana Farber Cancer Institute Dr. Michael Rabin – Mesothelioma Research Fund, 10 Brookline Place, West Contribution Services, 6th floor Brookline, MA. 02445. The Plantsville Funeral Home 975 S. Main St. Plantsville are handling the arrangements. For online condolences and directions visit www.plantsvillefuneralhome.com For online condolences and directions please visit www.plantsvillefuneralhome.com

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Published by Record-Journal on Dec. 2, 2009.

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Judy Cavanaugh Fruhwirth

December 14, 2009

So sorry to learn of Tom's death. Went to Shenandoah Catholic High School with him. He had such a great personality - always friendly. Lost track of him after graduation but am so happy that he had such a wonderful family and such a good life. My condolences to all his family.

Natalie Frye

December 8, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Matthew Brown

December 6, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. God Bless you all.

Mary Lou Brown

December 5, 2009

Dear Diane, Dawn, Lisa, Frank, and Mike, What a beautiful spiritual service and a beautiful military sendoff for our sweet and kind brother! Thank you for taking care of him through sickness and in health. He loved you all very very much. I will miss our Sunday phone calls. Take care and God give you peace during this sad time.
Love,
Big Sis
Mary Lou

Joe Zaleski, Sr.

December 2, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

John Zagorski

December 2, 2009

I am saddened to read that Tommy died. He and I were alter boys, football players and very good friends. We went through all 12 grades of school together. I went into the Navy a month after him and we shared many crazy moments while in boot camp. We lost track of one another but I thought about him many times. I shall pray for his soul and grieve with your family at this great loss.
John P. Zagorski

Eileen Farber

December 2, 2009

May the road rise to meet meet you. May the wind be always at your back.May the sun shine warm upon your face,the rains fall soft upon your fields and ,until we meet again may God hold you in the palm of His hand.

lil sis

December 1, 2009

Dear Diane, Lisa and Dawn,
Words can not describe how you feel. My family and I have you in our thoughts and prayers. Love Kim, Colin, Colin and Cory Samuelson

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