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Dolores A. Bowman

1933 - 2021

BORN

1933

DIED

2021

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Wrisley Funeral Home

90 Sugarloaf Street

South Deerfield, Massachusetts

Dolores Bowman Obituary

Dolores A. (Sardino) Bowman, 87, passed away peacefully Thursday, March 11, 2021 at home surrounded by her children. She was born in Syracuse, NY on October 11, 1933 to Robert and Florence (Owen) Sardino. She attended The Convent School in Syracuse and made many lifelong friends there. Dolores married John C. Bowman on August 6, 1955 in Syracuse. They moved to New Jersey where they raised their family until 1973 when they moved to South Deerfield. Dolores worked at Stockbridge School of Agriculture/UMASS in the 1970s fostering wonderful relationships with many students and then continued her career at Phoenix Mutual Insurance Company. Sharp as a tack until the very end, she was an avid reader, polishing off a book a week and sometimes more. She loved her garden and broke some land speed records on her riding mower.

A woman of soft power, who suffered no fools, Dolores committed considerable time to letting those of us she cared about know exactly what we were doing wrong. In seriousness, she was a terrific listener who knew instinctively how to guide us to the answers we have within us. Her influence on the family and her children's friends is immeasurable and will be cherished. She took great pride in the activities and accomplishments of her grandchildren and glowed when enjoying her FaceTime chats with her grandchildren and great grandchildren throughout the pandemic.

Dolores was predeceased by John in 2010 and her parents. She leaves five children, nine grandchildren and 3 great grandchildren: John Jr. and his wife Sheila of Hingham, MA (Cara, Juan, Desmond, Una, Jack, Marianne and Ada); Steven and his wife Ellen of Rye, NY (Maxwell and Mitchell); Michele Beckta and her husband, Fred of South Deerfield; Sheila Ennis and her husband Steven of Walnut Creek, CA (Charles, Daniel, William and Ava); Suzanne Bowman and her husband Gary Matherson (AJ). She is also survived by her sister Roberta (Sardino) Rinaldo, sisters-in-law Patty (Bowman) Russo and Theresa (Bowman) Smith; brothers-in-law Frank Bowman and Michael Bowman, as well as many nieces and nephews.

There are no calling hours. Due to COVID-19, funeral services will be private and by invitation only. Donations may be made to the Hospice of the Fisher Home of Amherst, www.fisherhome.org or Holy Family Roman Catholic Church of South Deerfield. Arrangements are under the direction of Wrisley Funeral Home. Expressions of sympathy available at www.wrisleyfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Recorder on Mar. 12, 2021.

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Jody Flores King

January 13, 2025

I am so sorry to see that Dolores has passed away. I spent many years babysitting for the children, as well as ironing for her, especially all the little girls dresses! She and John were wonderful friends of my parents, too. May she rest in peace.

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Diane Rinaldo

March 14, 2021

My thoughts are with all of you in this difficult time. May her memory be a blessing.

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March 14, 2021

So sorry to hear of the passing of Dolores Bowman. Our condolences to all the family. We forever cherish the years spent and friends and neighbors. She was truly a special lady. Love, The Shaw family.

Nancy Fellows

March 13, 2021

I use to work with Dolores at Phoenix in Greenfield, she was a very nice woman.
My sincere condolences.

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Brian Flood

March 12, 2021

The first time I met Dolores, at my sister Sheila's and her son John's wedding, I felt like had known her all my life. It was basically impossible not to like someone who focused so sincerely on every word out of your mouth, even if nothing you said had any value whatsoever. She listened intensely, looking to make a connection, with an impish smile on her face, waiting for her opportunity to spring a little humor, zing you with writhe wit, or simply let you know you mattered. It was always good news that Dolores and John would be coming to a family gathering at John Jr. and Sheila's house, I knew I was in for a good time. When my son Luke was studying piano at UMASS, she reached out and offered to have him stop by her home in nearby Deerfield or come over for a visit if he were ever lonely. That's who Dolores was -- a kind, loving, and generous person who made a mark and made a difference in the lives of everyone she touched. May she rest in well deserved peace after a loving and meaningful life.

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