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Jean Pelkey Obituary
Amherst, MA - Jean Hartwell Pelkey passed away peacefully on April 10, 2025, surrounded by her family. Born on April 25, 1936, to Teresa and Everett Hartwell, Jean led a life of kindness, quiet strength, and deep compassion.
On May 18, 1957, she married the love of her life, Donald J. Pelkey. Together, they shared 67 years of marriage, raised five children, and built a life rooted in love and resilience. She was predeceased by their oldest daughter, Donna Jean Fleury, who passed away in March 2024 from ALS. Jean's legacy continues through her surviving children: Susan Patterson, Lynn Pelkey, Mark Pelkey, and Beth Melnik.
Jean was lovingly referred to as "Meme" by her eleven grandchildren and ten great-grandchildren, who brought her immense joy.
She found great peace in nature-walking through the woods, tending to her vibrant wildflower gardens, and collecting seashells along the coast of Maine with her children and grandchildren. Jean cherished solitude, yet she was always present for those in need. She was an avid knitter whose lovingly crafted sweaters will be treasured.
Later in life, Jean returned to college and earned a degree in social work. She devoted her time to supporting women and assisting people experiencing homelessness in finding stability and shelter. She made a lasting impact on many lives.
She will be remembered for her gentle nature, bright wit, and subtle humor, which she generously shared with those fortunate to know her well. Jean was predeceased by her younger brother, Paul, whom she deeply cared for and who passed away one month before her on March 9, 2025.
Her steadfast, compassionate, and graceful spirit lives on in her family. Her husband, Donald, feels profoundly blessed to have shared a life with her. Jean's memory will always be cherished.
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Memories and Condolences
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Dennis Bromery
May 16, 2025
Don,
I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this sad time.
Sincerely,
Dennis Bromery
Sherri Patterson
May 14, 2025
So deeply sorry for your loss. Our heartfelt sympathy sent your way,
Sherri, Abby , Kenzie & Nate
Lisa Donahoe
May 13, 2025
Susan, my deepest sympathies. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Janet Olander
May 13, 2025
Susan, I am so sorry. Tom and I send our deepest condolences to you and your family.
Eileen and Paul Mariani
May 12, 2025
We are deeply saddened by Jean's death and the loss you are experiencing, especially you, Don, in all your faithful loving visits. We will have a Mass said for her in the near future. It was a privilege to spend time with her these last few years.
Andrea McKittrick
May 12, 2025
Mrs. Pelkey..Thank you for boiling the sap that mark and I collected just so we could have a "teaspoon" of maple syrup.
Martha Smith
May 12, 2025
Beth and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with your family during this difficult time.
Janet Gezork
May 10, 2025
Jean was one of the kindest and caring people I've ever met.So conscious of others. Me heart goes out to Don and the children and grandchildren over the loss of such a wonderful person. I feel very fortunate to have known both Jean and Don (an equally kind person).
Nancy Drake
May 10, 2025
The door was always open and I was greeted with a hug. So many wonderful memories of Christmas Eves and more. She will be remembered for all her kindness. My love to you all.
Russ Paulin
May 10, 2025
I remember Jean well. As a cold, wet, and frozen paperboy in the middle of early 1960's winter storms, she would invite me in to her kitchen to defrost and catch my breath. I cannot tell you how much her generosity and kindness meant. Over the years, I have always remembered Jean and Don fondly whenever I drove down State Street. They were a gift to the world.
Jorge and Ginette Gomez
May 10, 2025
Don, our sincere condolences to you and your family
Jorge and Ginette Gómez
Jeff & Pam Parsons
May 10, 2025
Susan, we were saddened to hear of the passing of your mother. Our deepest condolences to you and your family. Please know that we are keeping you in our prayers. Peace be with you.
Martha Jane Corcoran
May 10, 2025
sorry for your loss. Martha Jane Corcoran
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