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Marilyn Hartman Obituary

Marilyn Kay Hartman, known for her strong opinions and outspoken ways, died June 18, 2020 after a two year long relationship with cancer, an affair which lasted longer than any she'd had with any man.

She leaves behind a number of loyal friends and acquaintances along with family members too distant or uninvolved to mention.

Marilyn graduated from Nursing School and enjoyed her profession right up until Managed Care came along and ruined health care.

Mid-career, she attended New England School of Art and Design, majored in Interior Design but quit before earning a degree due to finding the whole thing (because of the introduction of technology), a chore. It was suggested that she change her major to Fine Arts, but she rejected the notion because the idea of starving did not appeal to her.

She retired the second she could and opened her own business offering garden maintenance and pet care. She gave this up when she moved to Western MA in 2013 in search of a quieter lifestyle and a desire to be closer to the meditation center where she'd become involved.

Illness cut short her desire to obtain an MFA in creative writing, however she did get almost halfway there. Her stories were never published because she never, despite encouragement from her instructors, tried.

Marilyn loved the outdoors and due to an insatiable proclivity to adventure, she traveled, most often alone, to places that were beautiful albeit a bit scary. She loved to follow wild animals in the woods and traverse paths unknown. Unable to resist an opportunity for adventure, she oftentimes took risks, causing considerable anxiety to her friends and at times, herself.

A steward for the earth she did volunteer work for Oceania, Greenpeace and the Sierra Club. All who knew her would agree: she practiced what she preached.

Her sole request to those left behind is to listen to Living on Earth (National Public Radio) every week and live accordingly. If you'd like to donate money, give to The Farm Sanctuary or a local animal shelter.

She elected for cremation though it isn't green. She prefered to be tossed directly into the ground, but was unable to find anyone who didn't cringe at the thought of doing so. Her ashes will be buried directly into the dirt by a trusted friend, and an acorn will be placed in the ground above her which will eventually provide food and shelter for those living in the wild.

A private memorial service will be held. Arrangements are under the direction of Walker Funeral Home, 14 High Street, Greenfield.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Recorder on Jun. 25, 2020.

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Debbie

June 19, 2025

Well my friend - you are missed dearly. I can only image what you would say about the orange man getting elected again and the craziness in the world. No doubt your spirit has lived on.

Lorraine Nicotera

June 19, 2025

I think of you often and smile.

Diane Bourbeau

June 19, 2024

Miss you all the time. Miss our phone cqlls and your stories. Gone too soon. Love you.

Lorraine Nicotera

June 19, 2023

I still think of you often. Anytime I´m in nature, or something reminds me of your often funny observations.

Joan B

April 19, 2022

My heart is broken that the world has lost this amazing beautiful soul. We met in seventh grade and remained friends, she knew my husband and kids who loved her. We lost physical touch when we moved to Florida but remained phone buddies. We talked about everything she was always wise beyond her years. We did loose touch when she moved. We moved back to Massachusetts in 2019 after some research I found her address and wrote her a letter, unfortunately I don´t know if she ever received it or was well enough to answer it. My heart is broken, I love you girlfriend. It was an honor to be part of your life. You are truly an angel Joan

Debbie

January 30, 2022

Missing you my friend. It's your birthday today and I am thinking of you.

Lorraine Nicotera

June 15, 2021

I miss you, Marilyn. I have so much to talk about with you, it’s frustrating that I can’t. I would love to hear your insight that would make me laugh.

Marie Bernier

March 26, 2021

I found this page by chance and did not know Marilyn, but the extraordinary tone and forthrightness of this tribute made me feel that I had known Marilyn for years! Well done. Someone who knew her well and cared about her succeeded in bringing her to this page.

Jane Roy Brown

January 16, 2021

Marilyn was spirited and the most determined person I've had the pleasure to meet. She went after knowledge like a shark, and the obituary sounds like she wrote it herself—even the cadence is like her voice. I miss her. —Jane Roy Brown

Nancy Glista

December 22, 2020

I am an old friend of Marilyn; we lost touch maybe five years ago and I have just now learned of her death.

She and I were pals on the East Side of Providence and would have met in 1976 or 77. We shared some crazy adventures. A unique, passionate, memorable person for sure. Her memory brings a smile.

Karen Karten

September 7, 2020

I was sitting at my kitchen table this morning, reminiscing and telling anecdotes about my friendship with Marilyn. I knew her since 1977 when she was sent by a nursing agency to take care of my dad who was dying of cancer. She was such a sensational nurse; Irreplaceable. When she showed up at the funeral, I knew we would share more than the sorrow of the day. We shared many adventures in life. When I went to look her up and show my friend her picture on Google, I found this notice and magnificent obituary. I have been nothing less than shocked all day. Although we lost contact over the past fifteen years, I think/thought of her often. We backpacked into NH backcountry, traveled cross country in 1980, lived on a boat down in Key West for a spell, and had adventure after adventure in life. Our nights at Leo's in Providence were hilarious and filled with good food and laughter. She was the toughest cookie I ever knew; a heart of gold, a brilliant mind, and spirit. I wish her an easy, peaceful journey.
If anyone wishes to correspond with me, I can be reached at [email protected]. In peace.

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Diane Bourbeau

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Mary E

June 27, 2020

We shared a fondness for graveyards. I think this angel is a good likeness of Mal at peace. 8^ }.

RA

June 26, 2020

I did not know Marilyn but she obviously had amazing friends. Whether she wrote this herself or whether it was written by those loyal companions it is truly a wonderful obituary. Condolences to all who knew her. She sounds like she was an amazing person.

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