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Nancy Dos Reis Obituary

Nancy Dos Reis

Dec. 27, 1949 - Nov. 3, 2016

Nancy Dos Reis passed away early Thursday morning, November 3rd. She was surrounded by her family and passed to

heaven peacefully and in full knowledge of the love surrounding her. She leaves behind a

wealth of accomplishments, recognitions and a community that holds her dearly and

misses her sorely.

Born in Oakland, California and raised by her parents, Geraldine and Carl Grath, she remained a California girl all her life building her family and professional life in the Stockton area. Among her many accomplishments Nancy became a Deputy Sheriff in San Joaquin County in 1971 and was the first female on Patrol. She later transferred to the District Attorney's Office where she became a lead Investigator in the Parental Child Abduction Unit. She was awarded Investigator of the Year by California DA Investigators for her accomplishments in this assignment.

She was a loving and always courageous daughter, wife, mother, grandmother, aunty and sister. She was an unfailingly loyal, generous and steadfast friend to the many people she gathered into her universe. She enjoyed to laugh, to garden, to cook, to fish, to sketch. But most of all, her favorite past time was to cheer and support her grandsons in their many sporting events. She loved angels and has become one. She never boasted but accomplished and finished what she started with precision, and passion, and flawless results.

She is survived by her daughter, Heather Somers-Fontes; grandsons, Matthew Somers and

Joseph Fontes; and brother, Carl (Susan) Grath. She was preceded in death by her parents; and husband, Edward Dos Reis.

A Memorial Mass is planned for December 2nd. To be held at St. Anne's Catholic Church in Lodi, reception to follow. A private

Internment ceremony will

precede the Mass at Cherokee Memorial Cemetery. Finally, Nancy loved.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Record from Nov. 13 to Nov. 27, 2016.

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November 30, 2016

Heather, we are very sorry for your loss. Ted knew Nancy way back in the 70's & I worked with her at DAI. She was a smart lady & full of mischief. Take care. Ted & Gloria Pesetti

Kristy Fields

November 15, 2016

Heather, I am so sorry to hear about your Mom's passing. I have so many memories of her when she was my Dad's (Don Freed) partner. We had a china hutch in our house called the "no no" because it was off limits as children. Every time she came to our house, the first thing she did was take off her gun and place it on top of the "no no", knowing full well that my sister and brother and I would never even consider going near it, yet always respecting the significance. Years later, I had the great pleasure of working on data collection with her on a child abuse prevention project. Many blessings to you and the boys and your extended family.

Paul Cooper

November 14, 2016

We'll miss you Nancy. You were a great friend and a good human being.

Alejandre's

November 14, 2016

Heather, Mathew, Joseph our thoughts and prayers to you on the loss of Nancy. Loving Mother and Grandmother.

kathy

November 14, 2016

I think of this angel almost every day since 1992 when she brought my son home to me after a parental kidnapping that lasted almost 3yrs. Im very sad to read this in today's obituary. Thank you Nancy & you will always be remembered. Rest in Paradise

Gary Riesenbeck

November 14, 2016

Met Nancy when we attended the first live in Post School in Modesto in 1971. Yes, we seemed to get into a lot of trouble. RIP Nancy, you will be missed.

Gennis Zeller

November 13, 2016

Eddie, We are thinking of you and your family. Gennis Boswell Zeller and Alice Boswell

Albert Garcia

November 13, 2016

You were known and respected for your work in the Child Abduction Unit. Prayers to you and our family. Thanks for all of your help when I was your Cadet and your work partner. RIP my friend.

Susan Choisser

November 13, 2016

Rest in Paradise Aunt Nancy

Wendy (Freese) Cromwell

November 13, 2016

I've known Nancy since 1973 when we were deputies together. I moved away in 1978 but we finally had a reunion 5 years ago and were planning another one this year. I'm so thankful we got to reconnect....I'm so sorry to hear of your passing and my thoughts and prayers go to your family and friends. I will be at your memorial service

Pat Hunter

November 13, 2016

It was always a unique opportunity to work with Nancy and learn from one of the best...and... always fun too. Rest in peace sweet warrior.

Keith & Carol Heckerman

November 13, 2016

Nancy, we will miss you on our trips to Stockton. You are the kind of friend who is hard to find.

Barbra Barbieri

November 13, 2016

Nancy was a wonderful woman. She worked with my husband for years.
She will always be in my heart.

November 12, 2016

You will be missed Nancy...
Wayne and Val Brunmeier

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