Stockton, CA
Paula Denise Gaines Binder
Aug. 9, 1960 - Dec. 2, 2008
She was a mother, sister, aunt, daughter and a Mighty Woman of God. Well loved by her family and community. Funeral services will be held at Fri., Dec. 12, 11:00 a.m. at Centro de Vida, 2295 East Fremont. Visitation: Thurs. Dec. 11, 9-5 p.m., Jesse E. Cooley Funeral Home, 640 N. California St., Stkn., CA. Committal: Valley Home Memorial Park, Oakdale, CA.
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Priscilla Wyatt
December 22, 2008
To Sis.  Betty,
My prayers are with you and the rest of the family during your bereavement.  Keep looking up because "Father Knows Best!"  God will take care of you during the hard times.  Remember all the fond memories.
Mr. Bryan Lincoln
December 20, 2008
God Is good, "he calls on his Angels when he needs them to do his work", i remember Paula and her brothers from way back in the day (60's), i was sadden when my brother told me about her! My prayers go out to all the family (Gaines),My God bless all of you!!
Linda Thomas
December 16, 2008
To Paula's Family
God needed another angel, so he called Paula home to be with him, we will all live on her loving fond memories, she will be deeply missed and loved.  May god forever keep you all in his loving arms.
arlene howard
December 16, 2008
I am sorry to hear about your loss. I have known Paula for a long time. I met her in the 70's with the Gladney's. Paula is in a better place resting with all her work's well done speaking for her. Hold your head up things will get better some day. May god bless you all.
Tamika Steward Jones
December 15, 2008
Dearest Betty, Little Johnny and Tink, I loved Paula so much. She was a very giving and loving woman. I pray that you will feel the comfort of God during this time of sorrow. Love and Prayers Always
LOIS GARRETT
December 15, 2008
TO THE GAINES FAMILY AND MOTHER GAINES MAY THE LORD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU IN HIS HAND LOVE LOIS
GARRETT
Charlene Steward
December 15, 2008
Sis Betty,
I was so shocked and sadened to hear about Paula.I know this is a hard time but God is our comfort. I remember the last time I got to see Paula we were praying together. I will always remember the good times in the Lord with Disciples in Action. I know you miss her but til we all meet again where there is never goodbye. We will praise the Lord  together forever one day! God Bless you and know we are praying for you
Pastor and Sis Steward (Rockford, IL)
December 14, 2008
THANK YOU FOR BEING A POSITIVE FORCE IN MY LIFE.....
    LOVE UNTIL GOD BRINGS US TOGETHER     THE FIELDS FAMILY
            TEDDY & ADDDIE
Kevin Kemp
December 13, 2008
I thank the Lord for the time we all shared with Paula. She truly had a "Servant's Heart" and she taught me the importance of considering others. I will always carry her spirit in my heart.
Sheryl Jones Longmire
December 12, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Tina (Thompson) Fisher
December 12, 2008
Sis. Betty and family. I was saddened to hear of your loss. You may remember me as (the twins Tina and Terrie). My family and I are praying for you.
Rosalind Thompson
December 12, 2008
My beautiful Sister Paula, I thank God for allowing you to be a part of my life. You have been a true friend and sister to me. I am truly going to miss you. Rest in Peace with Our Heavenly Father. I Love You Always your Lil' Sis. Roz
Carla Lane - Simmons
December 12, 2008
To my family:
May God deeply bless you right now in your time of sorrow. Know that all of the wonderful moments you shared with her will never be forgotten. Each memory was a page in her wonderful book of life. You watched her grow into an awesome woman of God. We shared her love and warmth. God allowed us to be a part of her novel of life. In some way, somehow, we were all touched by her in the way that God allowed. We take each day as though we have forever. Let us all be reminded that we know not the hour but let us cherish this life now, each day and the one thereafter. Although I am unable to be there with you, I am there in spirit as I pray for my many remaining family members. Bless you all. Love, Carla,Carena, Charlotte, and John Lane Jr.
Darlene Hall-January
December 11, 2008
To Paula's family she was a good women and a true friend, Let God comfort you in you time of sorrow.
Alice Cisneros
December 11, 2008
I just want to say a few words about Paula she was someone who always made it a point to call me by my name and we would talk about how things were going. She was a very loving and caring person. I got to work with her at one of the schools.We took breaks together she always smiled when she talked about her son.She was a wonderful person to work with. Paula I never got to say thank you for all the many breaks we took together, our lives were so busy with our families ,church and work that somehow when I got sent to another school we lost track of each other . Paula THANK YOU for being you.
Kimberly Griffith
December 11, 2008
What a beautiful picture of Paula!
Just how I'll always remember her.
I loved her spirit of prayer and will 
miss her most at our Monday night
prayer sessions.  Her sensitivity to
move in God's Spirit and her compassion
for others has always been a blessing.
God Bless Mary, Sis Ranking and the family
Kimberly Griffith
Kevin " Pookie" Lincoln
December 11, 2008
Betty Paula was a mighty woman of god and she will be dearly missed, God has called her to a better place. She is now living in one of those many mansion,
May God bless your family
Sandra Douglas
December 11, 2008
To: The Family from the Douglas family we are sadden for your lost of your love one we know that Paula she is going to be missed by many ,But always remember that God doesn't make mistakes and that she is going to always be with us in spirit we love you all and may your family be blessed
Paula Johnson-Shelton
December 11, 2008
To Paula's Family,
  I'm so sorry about your sudden loss and pray that God give you extraordinary strength.  
  I remember Paula being a virtuous women who loved her family. I will never forget those delicious stuft bell peppers she made for Johnny and his cousins in high school.     Thank God for the time she gave to her family and friends. Take care of each other.
With fondest memories,
God Be With You!
 The Shelton Family
Derrick Shaw
December 11, 2008
May GOD Bless this family. Thank you for your freindship. Rest in the Lord.
Circle C Ranch, Inc.
December 11, 2008
Please accept our deepest sympathies; Paula will truly be missed at Circle C Ranch. The world was truly a better place with place with Paula in it. she will always be loved and never forgotten. May God Bless and comfort her Family.
Tiffany Carpenter on behalf of Katzakian Property Management
December 11, 2008
Betty, we are very sorry for your loss! Paula was a wonderful woman, mother, daughter...etc! You are in our prayers.
Lisa,Julian,Joseph, Joel,and Family
December 11, 2008
Paula was my sister. She showed me what a Christian, a mother, a daughter, a wife, a woman, and friend is. I don't know where i'd be if it wasn't for Paula and being a part of her family. RIP Andre,Terry, Bill,Sanah, and Grandma. God continue to be with Betty, Andrea, Natalie, Johnny and Family, Mary,Terry, Ralph and all the children and other family and friends she has touched. I love you all.
Stephanie Beard
December 11, 2008
Sis. Betty Rankins
I love you, and I am sorry for your loss.
-Stephanie Beard (Bunn)
Sherri Gregory
December 11, 2008
Betty and Andrea, I pray that the peace of God be with you and your family at this difficult time. Paula told me at one time during a difficult time in my life, that only the strength of God and our faith could give us peace.  Please continue to trust God in all things and may God bless you and your family.
Love Sherri Gregory (Hall) and Ronnie Holmes
December 10, 2008
Paula was a wonderful woman who'll be missed by all of us.    Mine and Paula's family go way back to junior high school, having been from the same neighborhood as Paula,  when Johnny and Paula first dated.  Now who would've thought I'd marry into the Binder family, also.   Until we meet again, RIP Paula.
Jerome and Deb Binder
Laura Loewen
December 10, 2008
Mary and family,
All of my thoughts and prayers go with you at this time of sorrow. Paula was a great person who always walked with a smile. Paula will be missed by many. Mary you are a very strong young lady and you will only get stronger from this, remember there is a reason for everything.
Evelyn Brown
December 10, 2008
A pray for Paula's Family, Lord help us to put our faith in you and to feel your presence near, When things don't go the way we want them too.Give us the strenth we need to understand and to always put our trust in you that your will be done.
Kayla Woods
December 10, 2008
Paula I will Miss you so much. You were such a great God Mom to me you were always here for me and my mom. You made sure that I would never have to go without. You were a tremendous blessing in my life and I will miss you and I love you. I know you were looking forward to seeing my son come into this world and i was looking forward to him being able to know you. I hope I will be the good mother that you told me I will be. I know you are with God now because you were one of his angels here on earth and you blessed so many people. I understand that he was ready for you to come home and have you closer to him. I will try to remember that to keep me strong. I will remember everything you taught me and done for me and keep it close to my heart. I will also remember our adult converstations and everything we shared with each other you inspired me and your memories will continue to. I love you. 
Love your God Daughter 
Kayla
Yasmin & DeValle Mercer
December 10, 2008
Praises to God and Peace to all of our family members at this difficult time. Paula is so well loved by all her family and will be dearly missed.
We know deep down in our hearts that she's watching over all of us,
cause She did God's work here.
MIMI GALVAN
December 10, 2008
PAULA'S FAMILY I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOU LOST. PAULA WE'LL MISS YOU
Jane Burhoe
December 10, 2008
I remember Paula walking down the hall past my office. She had a great smile and wonderful personality. I feel heartache for Mary and Paula's other family members. Paula's untimely death is a terrible loss. Mary is a dear young lady and was so connected to Paula. We will try to give Mary extra support at Lincoln High School, especially during this very sad time.
Heather Carroll
December 10, 2008
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Paula was a lovely woman and will be missed. Love- Heather Carroll
Esther Jones
December 10, 2008
To Paula's Family, our thoughts and prayers are with you.  May God give you grace and strength at this time.
Paula was a treasure and has gone to her reward.  Love Stan Jones Family
Julian Girouard
December 10, 2008
We'll miss you here at Lincoln High School.
Brenda Marriott
December 10, 2008
May all the wonderful memories you have help you and your family get through this most difficult time. Take comfort in knowing that you have a special guardian angel watching over you now.
Cindy Franco
December 10, 2008
My deepest sympathy to Paula's family. My heart goes out to you. May god be with you in your time of need.
Tracey Gilmore
December 10, 2008
I would like to send my deepest sympathy to Johnny & Khadijah Binder for their loss. Paula was a wonderful woman and will be greatly missed. She was the epitomy of hard work, dedication, and determination. She was a good friend to all and was always there to listen. We love you Paula.
Audi Howard-Armstead
December 10, 2008
May God continue to bless the entire family. Terry, keep your head up man, know that you are loved by all. We're here if you need us.
Renee coss
December 9, 2008
Our hearts are saddened to hear of  Sis. Paula's untimely passing. We are honored to have known her and cherish our fond memories of her. 
May our Lord comfort & strengthen you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. All our Love, Randy & Renee Coss and family
Jesse E. Cooley, Jr. Funeral Service
December 9, 2008
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
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