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Deborah Fasce Obituary
July 29, 1963 - January 22, 2020
Smallwood, NY
Debi Fasce of Smallwood, a teacher at the Monticello Central Schools, passed away on Wednesday, January 22, 2020 in Monsey, NY after a courageous battle with a long illness. She was 56.
The daughter of the late John Fasce and Ann Twomey Fasce, she was born July 29, 1963 in Teaneck, NJ.
Though Debi won no awards and never received public accolades, her successes are remarkable and breath taking. Debi influenced, supported, inspired, mentored and enriched the lives of those students who came in contact with her. Countless students have noted that having known her was the key to surviving their teen years and flourishing as strong adults. Debi lived her life with integrity and a fierceness rarely seen. She consistently fought against injustice, prejudice, and cruelty. She worked to break down barriers and help others realize their dreams. Her impact lives on. She was one of a kind and her loss resounds throughout our community.
She is survived by her daughter: Taylor Alper; two brothers: Frank and his wife, Rose of Taipei, Taiwan, and Johnny of West Palm Beach, FL; and her nieces and nephews: Kate, Caroline, Jessika, Dion, Jonae and Tavé; great nephews: Grayson and Ethan; and great nieces: Eluna and Milani.
Family and friends are invited to gather from 4 to 7 p.m. on Tuesday, January 28 at the VanInwegen-Kenny Funeral Home, 401 Broadway in Monticello. A prayer service will be held at approximately 6:30 p.m.
Arrangements are under the direction of the VanInwegen-Kenny, Inc. Funeral Home of Monticello. For additional information or to send an online condolence, please visit www.kennyfuneralhome.com
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Jacqueline Dabbraccio
January 18, 2021
You are missed... But never forgotten!❤
Lynne Porter
January 28, 2020
I worked with Debi for several years at the Center for Discovery. I always respected her honesty and directness. Debi worked very hard to ensure the children she served were provided with the best of care. She would never back down from anything that she felt worth fighting for. I am very sorry to hear of her passing. My condolences to her friends and family.
Whitney Mitchell
January 28, 2020
Thank You For Everything. You Will be Missed. praying For Your Daughter And Your Family
January 26, 2020
My sincere condolences to the fasce family. Debi you will never be forgotten for all the people you have helped ❤My you RIP hug my husband for me ❤ God has gained a beautiful angel fly high my friend till we meet again ❤
Brigitte Nesteroke
January 25, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow and give you the strength to focus on the wonderful memories of joyful times together. Deb was a REALLY caring person. We need more like her and she will be missed.
Brigitte Nesteroke
January 25, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Elisha Colon
January 25, 2020
May you rest with the angels
Frances and Phil Russo
January 25, 2020
Our deepest condolences to the family. May she rest in heavenly peace.
Connie Mckenley
January 25, 2020
So sorry for your loss
Aunt Fran Fasce
January 25, 2020
My dearest niece: you are a super hero. I will be missing you so very much. No more texts or phone conversations. Rest peacefully in the arms of angels. No more pain and suffering.
I look forward to your celestial visits, as promised. I love you so much.
Aunt Fran
Miriam Perez
January 24, 2020
Knew Debi for many years and am testament to the the impact she had on the students of MSCD. An honor to have known her and work along with her for the district.
Bettina Sommer
January 24, 2020
My heart is heavy, you will be greatly missed, you were such a kind and caring person and a great friend , love you ..... I am glad you are in no more pain... heaven has gained another angel, RIP my beautiful friend ❤
Leslee Howard
January 24, 2020
Dear Debi, I hadn't been in touch with you for a long time, but when I think of the times we did spend together, they're all filled with laughter and the joy of life. You were a special person, and I am honored to have had you in my life and to have been in yours. You were so strong and you loved your little girl, Taylor, and you smiled at life and any adversity in it, damn, you were one of the good ones, taken way too soon! Rest easy sister, until we meet again~~ Love, Leslee
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