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Frank Trifilo Obituary



Frank Edward Trifilo, 47 years old, died unexpectedly at his residence on Sunday, March 23, 2008.

He was born in Beacon, NY, on June 7, 1960, the son of Gene and Sandy Murphy Trifilo of Glenham.

Frank was a graduate of St. John's School in Beacon and Beacon High School, as well as Dutchess Community College, where he earned an Associate's degree. He was employed as a Sergeant with the New York State Department of Corrections. He was a member of St. John's Church in Beacon and was an avid chess player and enjoyed bowling.

In 1985, at Christ United Methodist Church in Beacon, he married Patti Dragon. Mrs. Trifilo survives at home. In addition to his wife and parents, Frank is survived by a son, Sean Trifilo; two daughters, Sonya and Chelsea May Trifilo; three brothers: Mark, Gene and Timothy Trifilo; his paternal grandfather, Frank Trifilo; his maternal grandparents, Edward and Alice Murphy; several aunts, uncles and cousins.

Calling hours will be held on Thursday, March 27, from 7 to 9 p.m. at the Robert H. Auchmoody Funeral Homes, Inc., 1028 Main St., Fishkill.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, March 28, at 10 a.m. at St. John's Church, 31 Willow St., Beacon, with the Rev. David Nolan officiating.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations be made to Frank's children's college fund, c/o Eugene Trifilo, Sr. or Eugene Trifilo, Jr., PO Box 208, Glenham, NY 12527.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Times Herald-Record on Mar. 26, 2008.

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Allison Witmer

April 4, 2008

To the family,
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
My sincerest condolences.
Take care.

Lindsay Trick

April 2, 2008

Patti, Sean, Chelsea and Sonya,
I am so sorry for your loss. Frank was a very intelligent and witty person. I will not soon forget all the of good times. If you need anything. I am here.

Jerry and Janice Hazelwood

April 1, 2008

Patti, Sonya, Chelsea and Sean,

Do not stand at my grave and forever weep.
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn’s rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and forever cry.
I am not there. I did not die.
-author unknown

May you all find peace and comfort knowing that Frank is looking down on all of you.

We Love You,

DON CURFMAN

March 31, 2008

FRANK,
YOU LEFT US MUCH TOO SOON.
MAY GOD KEEP YOU IN HIS CARE.
CURF

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