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James J. Kelly

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James J. Kelly obituary, 1939-2020, Chester, NY

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James Kelly Obituary

James J. Kelly
February 6, 1939 - July 14, 2020
Chester, NY
James Kelly, 81 years old of Chester, entered into rest on Tuesday 14, 2020 at Garnett Health Center Middletown, NY. Son of the late William Kelly and Mary Kelly, nee: Meaney, he was born on February 6, 1939 in Bray, Co. Wicklow, Ireland.
After a brief stint in the Irish Army, James emigrated to the USA in 1957. He was drafted into U.S. Army and served from Jan. 1962 to Dec. 1963. During that time, he was a proud member of the 82nd Airborne Division.
James received his GED from New York State. From 1972-1974 he attended Rockland County Community College earning an AAS. In 1974 – 1976 he went to Iona College earning a BS and continued on to L.I.U. C.W. Post in 1976-1978 earning a MPA.
James joined the New York City Police Department in 1968 earning the rank of Detective. He retired in 1988 where he joined the U.S. Department of Justice, Drug Enforcement Administration as an analyst. James worked with the DEA for 15 years before retiring.
James was a devoted and loving husband, father, and grandfather. Survivors include his loving wife, Bridget Kelly; his children: William and his wife, Julia of New Hampton, NY, and Maria Morris and her husband, Todd of Monroe, NY; his brother, Billy and his wife, Chris of Iselin NJ; his sister, Maria of Wicklow Ireland, and his brother, John "Jerry" of Wexford, Ireland; his grandchildren: William, Samantha, John and Joseph along with many nieces and nephews.
James was a member of the Ancient Order of Hibernians, Division 1 Monroe, NY from 1978 until his passing. He received the Burns – Hayes award, the highest award bestowed upon a Hibernian. James served as Div. 1 President from 1996-97, District 8 Director 1992-94, AOH County Board President 2001-2005, AOH Historian from 1990 -2014. He founded the Fleming Scholarship Fund. In 1992 He was the Grand Marshall of the Mid Hudson Saint Patrick's Parade.
James was a bagpiper in the AOH Pipe and Drums for 38 years. He taught new pipers and mentored bagpipers from West Point from 1991- 96.
Outside of work, he had many interests. He loved to play golf, tend to his gardening, and especially loved to research and write about Irish recipients of the Medal of Honor from the American Civil War. He also loved to watch soccer games when he could.
A Public Wake will be held from the hours of 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m. on Sunday, July 19 at Flynn Funeral & Cremation Memorial Centers, Inc., 139 Stage Road, Monroe, NY 10950. A private Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 11 a.m., Monday, July 20, at St. Columba R.C. Church, 27 High Street, Chester, NY 10918. A Burial with Military Honors will follow at Orange County Veterans Cemetery, 111 Craigville Road, Goshen, NY 10924.
Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to Thomas F. Flynn and Brendan T. Flynn and the staff of Flynn Funeral & Cremation Memorial Centers, Inc.; to offer an online memorial please visit www.flynnfh.com

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Published by Times Herald-Record from Jul. 17 to Jul. 19, 2020.

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Kevin Dooner

July 11, 2023

You were a great! A good guy with a good sense of humor. We miss big fella!

Kevin Dooner

July 11, 2021

Jim was good guy,a great guy. He made the Hibernians proud. I know he's leading the pipe band in Heaven. We miss you Big Fella!

Cheryl Smith

July 26, 2020

Dear Breda and Family, so sorry to hear of Jim’s passing he was such a nice and giving Person and I always enjoyed watching him in all the parades. May he Sleep in Peace

jerry boss

July 21, 2020

So sorry always a friend a true GENTLEMAN WILL BE MISSED.

Elizabeth Tudor

July 19, 2020

Thoughts and prayers to the Kelly family. Jim was a good man and he will be missed.

Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

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Charmaine Quinn

July 18, 2020

Jim was a great friend and person in general. Always happy and smiling. Every year we would have a St. Patricks day party at our home and he played at a few of them. We had a special dedication at one of our parties for Mike Garay and we all wore Sligo shirts for Mike as his family came from their ...and Jim played at that Party also honoring him. He would talk to all our guests and pose for photos with them. He really enjoyed all of it. But then he announced he was retiring from the pipes and we were sad. Im very sad that such an honorable and witty Irish comrade has passed. RIP Jim. We will always remember the good times we had with you and we will miss you. Love to all your family.

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Eugene Rogers

July 17, 2020

knew James for over 35 yrs The number one reason I respect that man
He always put everyone else first

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