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James F. Post

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James F. Post obituary, 1948-2019, Middletown, NY

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James Post Obituary

James F. Post
June 2, 1948 - October 18, 2019
Middletown, NY
James peacefully entered into eternal rest on Friday, October 18, 2019 at home with his beloved Beth by his side.
Jim was born on June 2, 1948 in Oahu, Hawaii. He was the son of Carolyn K. and the late Frederick H. Post. He was a graduate of Valley Central High School, O.C.C.C., and the University of Maryland. Jim was a retired IBM Executive and thoroughly enjoyed a blissful retirement.
Jim enjoyed the outdoors. He was an avid hunter with numerous trophy Bucks, a fisherman, he loved travelling, and playing golf with his brother Mike and friends. He was a cigar aficionado and enjoyed fine whiskey.
Jim is survived by his loving wife of 32 years, Beth. His siblings: Michael Post and his partner, Renee Bogart, Florida, NY, Barbara Barone and her husband, Steve, Walden, NY, Nancy P. Houghtaling and her husband, Bruce, Walden, NY, Thomas Post, Walker Valley, NY and Vicki P. Vermilyea, Walden, NY.
Jim is further survived by his nieces and nephews: Amy Pooly and her husband, Dave, Thomas Mitchell, Emily DiCuio and her husband, Anthony, Katie Vermilyea and J.M., Paul Vermilyea and Amy Vermilyea; his grand-nieces: Eliza Pooley and Isabella DiCuio; and grand nephews: Henry Pooley and Miles Pooley.
Jim's father was in the Air Force and Carolyn and the children traveled extensively from Guam to the Carolinas, England to New York, Texas and back. Because of this, Jim developed a sense of flexibility. His parents valued education immensely and Jim succeeded wherever he went.
Jim was quick witted and well diversed in all aspects of life. An avid Jeopardy fan, he answered most of the questions correctly. Jim was mentioned in the National Enquirer, several times, for his ability to solve the "Famous Actor or Actress" crossword puzzles. He was positive that he would someday be the grand winner of Quick Draw, scratch offs and the lottery.
Jim's true passion was the authentic renovation of his and Beth's horse farm, known as, Cedar Ridge Quarter Horses, the historic Ogden Farm located in the Town of Wallkill. Beautiful fruit orchards were created by Jim's tree planting. Jim continued his hobby as a horticulturist, farmer and gardener.
Jim's love of animals was exemplified by witnessing his faithful companion Weimaraners, Jake and K.C., traipsing after them wherever he went. He also took care to know every bird variety that visited the farm.
Music was another passion of his. It began in Bethel, NY at the site of the original 1969 Woodstock Festival. Jim contributed his talent for building the sound stages. His original tickets are one of his prized possession!
Other fond memories of that era include his cross-country trip with best buddies Greg Lee and Greg Schloemer, who have remained lifelong friends.
Some of our favorite memories with Jim were inspired by Gram Kelly! At holidays, and family gatherings, the siblings could be found seated around the card tables playing bridge, King's Corners, and several rowdy games of Crazy Rummy. However, we're not so sure Gram would have exactly approved of the occasional stray ace that miraculously appeared from Jim's sleeve or behind someone's glasses!
Jim and Beth sincerely thank the amazing staff of O.R.M.C., Dr. Jeffrey Stewart, Dr. Nkethiah and the 4 East Rehabilitation staff and 2 North Oncology. Any donations in Jim's memory may be sent to O.R.M.C.
The family wishes to thank Jim and Beth's multitude of friends who have supported them, especially Mary.
Visitation will be held at Applebee-McPhillips Funeral Home, 130 Highland Avenue, on Wednesday, October 23, 2019 from 6 to 9 p.m. with a Celebration of Life Service at 8:00 p.m.

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Published by Times Herald-Record from Oct. 19 to Oct. 20, 2019.

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Wayne Walton

October 13, 2021

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peter ogden

October 24, 2019

My kindest thoughts are with Beth and the rest of the Jones-Post family. The Ogden family is so grateful to Beth and Jim for their sensitive stewardship, preservation and respect for the history of the former Ogden Farm [founded 1832]. I feel very blessed to have an open invitation to this wonderful old Orange County farm. It is so wonderful to have observed how Beth and Jim loved the farm as six generations of our family did. Sometimes I feel almost as if Beth were the reincarnation of Orange County author, dancer and school leader Lucile Ogden--who, like Beth could dress up for "society" events and yet dress down enough to "rough it" exploring muddy marshes. Enough about my family [although I feel as if Beth & Jim are my extended family]. I only met Jim twice and I was very favorably impressed with him: "a man's man" as we used to say in compliment; I regret that I did not have the opportunity to spend more time with Beth and Jim. I hope that all of Jim and Beth's family and friends will encourage Beth's efforts to continue preserving the farm we all love so much as long as she thrives there. Thank you Jim for a job done with absolute excellence and class. Kindest Wishes--Peter Gumaer Ogden

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Gail Kirkpatrick

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Lisa Fox

October 23, 2019

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Tina Mikulski

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Svandis Danzer

October 21, 2019

My deepest condolences go out to Ms. Vicki Vermilyea and family. It sounds like he was a wonderful man that lived a very fulfilling life. May his soul rest in peace and god bless you all❤
Love,
Svandis, Jonas and Annika.

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Patricia Bowens

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Elsie Chance

October 20, 2019

Prayers up for the family. RIP Jim. So sorry to hear of this loss. I have many fond memories.

kathleen W

October 20, 2019

So sorry to hear of your passing away.Sincerest sympathy to all of your Family

October 20, 2019

So very sorry to hear of your passing away.My sincerest sympathy to all of your family. May you rest in peace. Kath W.

Wayne Walton

October 20, 2019

Mike, Very sorry to hear of Jim's passing. Prayers and condolences to you and your family. RIP. Jim, God Bless

Lydia Enright

October 20, 2019

Dearest Beth,
I'm truly sorry for your loss. I never really had the pleasure of knowing Jim other then a few brief encounters when he and you stopped in our shop and a few times you were at the lake. However you were always happy and smiling Beth , I'm sure he was the reason. My love and prayers are with you and Jim's family.
May he Rest In Peace

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