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Steve Olesin Obituary

Acton, Mass.

Steve Andrew Olesin, 56, and Jane Brechlin Olesin, 53, of Acton, Mass., both died Monday, April 17, 2006, in an automobile accident in Vernon, N.J.

Steve was born on April 21, 1949, in New York City, the son of Andrew and Maria Olesin. He grew up in Iselin, N.J. and graduated from JFK Memorial High School in Iselin. He joined the U.S. Army, serving two tours in Vietnam. He attended Northeastern University.

Steve worked as an engineer for Digital Equipment Corp. for many years, retiring several years ago. He did volunteer work for the Acton Council on Aging, was a member of the Acton Congregational Church and was president of the Eastern Massachusetts Woodworkers Guild. He built guitars and furniture projects, and also taught classes and wrote about his passion. His book, "Tool Making Projects for Joinery and Woodworking" was recently published.

Steve is survived by his mother, Maria Olesin of Wellington, Fla.; his brother and his wife, Andrew and Nancy Olesin of Princeton, Mass.; nieces: Katherine, Emily and Sandra Olesin; and a nephew, Alexander, all of Princeton. His father, Andrew, died in 1991.

Jane was born on May 10, 1952 in Meriden, Conn., the daughter of Howard and Ella Brechlin. She graduated in 1970 from St. Margaret's School in Waterbury, Conn., and graduated from Mount Holyoke College with degrees in Math and Physics, and was one of the first women to earn a Master's in Engineering at Dartmouth College. She also earned an MBA from Simmons College.

She worked for Yale University, Westinghouse, New England Telephone Co., and Digital Equipment Corp. before retiring several years ago. She was a member of the Congregational Church of Acton; the Acton Council on Aging, and was a member and former president of the Acton Garden Club. She enjoyed quilting and making ceramics and jewelry.

Jane is survived by her mother, Ella Brechlin; her sister and her husband, Nancy and Stephen Hoverman of Warwick; a nephew and his wife, David Hoverman and Abigail Smith of Boston, Mass.; a niece, Carrie Hoverman of Berkley, Calif.; and twin nephews, Michael Hoverman of Brookline and Matthew Hoverman of New York City. Her father, Howard, died in 1999.

A Memorial Service to celebrate the lives of Steve and Jane will be held at 2 p.m. on Saturday, April 22, at the Acton Congregational Church, 12 Concord Road, Acton, Mass.

Flowers may be sent to the church or memorial donations may be made to the Nature Conservancy, 4245 N. Fairfax Drive, Suite 100, Arlington, CA 22203, or to a charity of one's choice.

Arrangements are under the direction of Lazear-Smith & Vander Plaat Memorial Home, 17 Oakland Ave., Warwick, NY 10990.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Times Herald-Record on Apr. 20, 2006.

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jj mish

September 1, 2022

Knew steve from high School. We went job searching together. Steve had a silver 66 GTO at the time. One summer we both got jobs at Sinclair Koppers in Carteret, NJ. Just saw this obit, now 8.22. had been searching for Steve for a few years. Just checked the year book for the spelling which thew me off. Steve was a great guy! Rest in Peace buddy!

Dave Eaton

April 21, 2006

Steve was a very good friend. One whom I wish I had been able to spend more time with. Only having known him for a few years, I was looking forward to growing a deep friendship well into the future. His wife Jane was also wonderful. I will truly miss them but will never forget Steve's kindness and wisdom from the short time I was blessed with him. Steve spoke to me about his desire to leave a mark on the world. Well my friend, aside from your recent book, you will live inside me and many others, which is the best type of mark one could ever hope to leave in this world, one that will continue forever. God Bless you both. Until we meet again...

Margaret Hoffmann

April 21, 2006

Jane was a dear friend of many years from Mount Holyoke and Dartmouth, through skiing and Connecticut connections. Her wedding to Steve was memorable, and their lives together an example of shared goals and committment to friends, family, volunteer work and creative expression through art and gardening and many other areas. My sympathy and condolences go out to all their friends and family. They will be missed by many.

Albert and Harriet Chmela

April 21, 2006

We knew Steve and Jane through the Lexington Arts and Crafts Society. These two creative and vibrant artists were masters of their crafts. Steve's ability to mentor his fellow woodworkers will be especially missed. His cheerful and enthusiastic participation in the activities of LACS and his encouragement for the growth of the Guild made him an outstanding member.

The beauty of his work and Steve's amazing craftsmanship will be a lasting legacy to all who knew him as will Jane's love and care for the environment.

We offer our prayers and sincerest sympathy to the neighbors, friends and family of Steve and Jane.

Pam Drucker

April 21, 2006

Many fun memories of skiing together in Vermont, spending Thanksgiving with you and friends when Steve lived in Marlboro, and of course your holiday party in Acton.

You are greatly missed.

My deepest sympathy to your families.

-Pam & David

Priscilla Caskey

April 20, 2006

Words cannot adequately express the overwhelming sadness we felt when we heard the news of your devastating loss. We hope that your faith, family and friends help to carry you through this dark time. You are in our prayers.

Patricia McConnell

April 20, 2006

To Nancy Hoverman and family,

Our sympathy and prayers go out to you and your family in this time of loss. Please know that many,many in the community are thinking and praying for you all. Dr. and Mrs. David McConnell, Warwick, N.y.

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