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Thomas Malina Obituary
Thomas A. Malina of Thompson Ridge, NY, loving husband and father, a longtime resident of the area who was employed at First Student in Pine Bush, died after a brief illness on December 23, 2008 in NYC. He was 57.
The son of the late Thomas J. Malina and Rose Restucci Malina, he was born November 4, 1951 in Brooklyn, NY.
He was a member of the Hopewell Presbyterian Church.
Survivors include his wife, Kathryn (Karsten) at home; daughter, Emily Malina of Philadelphia; mother, Rose Malina of Kannapolis, NC; nine siblings: Ann Marie Wells (Fred) of Concord, NC, Joseph Malina (Judy) of Lowell, NC, Alice Hauser (Karl) of Concord, NC, Lee Malina-Ciccaglione (Stephen) of Port St. Lucie, FL, Anthony Malina of Bonifay, FL, John Malina (Pat) of Winston Salem, NC, Karl Malina of Kannapolis, NC, Robert Malina (Sarah) of Concord, NC, and Tina Taylor (John) of Newton, NC. He is also survived by many nieces and nephews; mother-in-law, Elizabeth Karsten Marshall of Pine Bush Sister and brother-in-law, Beth and Peter Kallet of Oneida, NY; brother and sister-in-law, Joe and Joyce Karsten of Pittsboro, NC; brother-in-law, William R. Karsten, Jr. of Montgomery, NY; niece, Kristie Ackert of NYC.
The family requests "To honor Tom's useful spirit, please bring a small toy that fits in your hand or pocket to place in the funeral home.
Visitation will be Sunday, December 28, from 2-4 & 7-9 p.m. at the Millspaugh Funeral Home, 22 Bank St., Walden, NY.
Funeral services will be Monday, December 29, at 11 a.m., at the Hopewell Presbyterian Church, 2 County Rte. 17, Thompson Ridge, NY. Pastor Robin Hogle will officiate.
Cremation will be in Cedar Hill Crematory in Newburgh, NY.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Hopewell Presbyterian Church, PO Box 202, Thompson Ridge, NY 10985, in Tom's memory.
Arrangements were made by Millspaugh Funeral Directors.
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Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Malina
Linda Otto Parlin
December 20, 2022
I miss Tom so very much! He brightened so many lives with his sense of humor and his great heart. He was always there to help. He was a wonderful man and will always be missed.
vincent cassidy
January 6, 2009
DEAR GODSON TOM, KATE AND EMILY :
HOW QUICKLY OUR LIVES COME AND GO. MY MEMORY GOES AS FAR BACK TO CHANGING TOMMY'S DIAPER IN CANARSIE, BROOKLYN WITH ANN MARIE AT MY SIDE. YOU WERE THE FIRST BORN SON OF MY BROTHER TOM AND I COULD FEEL THE WARMTH AND LOVE THAT YOUR PARENTS HAD FOR YOU. NOW YOU ARE WITH YOUR DAD IN HEAVEN AND THAT LOVES GOES ON HERE ON EARTH AS WELL AS IN HEAVEN.
THO LOST TO SIGHT BUT MEMORY DEAR YOU ALWAYS WILL REMAIN, THE ONLY HOPE OUR HEART CAN CHEER, IS OUR HOPE TO MEET AGAIN. GOD'S SPECIAL BLESSINGS TO YOU AND FAMILY.
UNCLE VINCE
shauna Byrum ( Hauser)
January 5, 2009
Dear Aunt Kate and cousin Emily, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart is sad but my memories are sweet. They will be with me always. I'll miss my Uncle Tommy. I love you so much. All my love, Shauna
Frances Malina
January 5, 2009
Dear Kate, Emily and family.
Tom always had a way about him, kidding , laughing. I have fond memories of when the Malina family lived in Coney Island the same time as I, and then visitng upstate in Walden when they moved away. It was always great going to there house to visit.
My prayers are with all of you may you find comfort in knowing how much Tom touched our lives. God bless.
Frederick and Frances Malina
Patricia Anne Malina
January 5, 2009
tom was a great brother,but we know our loss doesn't compare to gods gain, see you in heaven. Love John and Pat.
Rev Reed Goe
January 3, 2009
Nothing we can say or do will relieve your sense of loss but our prayers and those of our church ( Lifeline Community ) are with you and the family. The Bible says that we are to comfort others with the comfort we have recieved. In those times of loss in our family - and there have been several - I have found Him : able, available and a source of great strength. God bless you.
Ann Marie & Fred Wells
January 3, 2009
Dearest Kate and Emily, I am sure you know how much we love and appreciate you. What a blessing to have you as family! Tom loved you both so very much and he was proud of both of you. Our heart's ache with you, though we can't imagine what you are truely going through. Word's are hard to come by at this time, but we want you to know we are here for you. - The services were all beautiful. What a tribute to Tommy. He was well loved! I hope you felt loved and comforted by the presence of all those that were able to attend or send a note or call.- May The Good Lord Bless and Keep you, may He hold you in His arms as you go through this storm.---Tommy, our brother and friend, we love you, we miss you. We look forward to seeing you again when it is our time to leave this world to be with our Lord Jesus Christ.
With Love, Fred and Ann Marie
Helen Hoornbeck Herbert
December 30, 2008
On behalf of all the Hoornbeck's we will miss you and we look forward to seeing you again someday. Godspeed our friend.
For all the other family members you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Josh Malina
December 29, 2008
We are so sorry for this devastating loss of our Uncle Tommy. He was an example to all of us that his love was stronger than his pain. Tommy had been through a lot in his life, but no matter how bad it got, he always showed his love through his actions. We will always hold Tommy in a special place in our hearts. This is a very sad loss and hard time for the family and anyone who knew him. Our Deepest Sympathy's....
Love always,
Josh, Gina, JJ, & Devante.
Joseph Jay Malina
December 29, 2008
My brother Tommy was my hero. He saved me from drowning in cold, icy waters when we were both teens and risked his own life. He gave me a second chance at life. We Malinas are a very close family---when one hurts, we all hurt; when one feels joy, we all feel it. I could not be in New York for Tommy's services because I have serious health problems and am scheduled for surgery tomorrow. I am there in spirit for Tommy, my family, and friends. Tommy will always be missed but will remain a part of us forever.
love,
Jay
Nancy and Bob Hughes
December 29, 2008
Dear Kate & Emily,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family, Tom's never ending smile and willingness to help will never be forgotten. We wish that we could be there for support, but please know that we are praying for you and Emily and hope to see you if we come back for a visit. Your faith will be of comfort and knowing that he is free from pain and I truly believe we will meet again. Our love to you both.
Ruthanne Akacki
December 28, 2008
I wanted to express my appreciation for all the help Tom gave me with the Vacation Bible School program which was held each summer at Hopewell. Tom did whatever I asked of him. I truly feel VBS could not have been the success it was without the work of many, including Tom and Kate. And so, If I am too emotional tomorrow to speak at the service, please know you have my deepest appreciation and gratitude. Rest peacefully Tom.
Judy Jackson-Malina
December 28, 2008
I will always remember Tommy for his kind heart, easy going nature, and his natural appreciation for life and all living things. He was a joy to be around and had a way of making everyone feel valued. I am sure that Tommy knows we are here for Kate, Emily, and Rose (Tommy's mother) and all the Malina family, immediate and extended.
love,
Judy
Joseph (Jay) Malina
December 28, 2008
Tommy was my older brother. If it weren't for him when he saved me from drowning in the icy, raging, waters when we were in our early teens and putting his own life in danger, I would not be alive today. So from that day, he gave me a new beginning. My family is one of the closest families I know. When one hurts, we all hurt. When one is happy, we are all happy. I could not make the trip to New York for the funeral as I am very sick and going into surgery in 2 days, but Judy and I are there in spirit. My love for Tommy will be there till my dying day. We will miss you!
love, Jay and Judy
Lisa,Joseph & Michael Cartisano
December 28, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Lisa Bybel
December 28, 2008
Tommy - The cousin who took the time to teach me boy games when I was very young - cops and robbers, cowboys and indians, war games. You had the gift of sharing family history which was a welcome treasure. Go with God and rest in peace. May love and memories sustain Kate, Emily, your mom Rose and all of your siblings and their families.
Love, Cousin Lisa
Renee Gill (Sigler)
December 27, 2008
I have not seen Tom, Kate or Emily since Emily was a baby - my dad Gene Sigler worked with Tom at McLean's Trucking when I was a little girl. I remember a huge BBQ in your backyard - Kate showing me her really cool sewing machine, Emily cute as a button in her baby bouncer, and Tom laughing with my dad - teasing one of their buddies. Your family is one I have always had fond memories of - people who have been dear to my heart even though time and distance has taken us apart. My heart and prayers go to you Kate, and Emily - I pray you find comfort and solace - I believe Tom is among the angels - his spirit was very uplifting. I remember his smile well - and the love he had for you and Emily shown in his eyes enough to make a lasting impression on a very young girl. Love & Light, Renee - Gene & Phyllis Sigler's daughter
T.c. Poggio
December 27, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Tommy at first Student. He was a great man, He was always so nice to me and my little boy Nicky. no matter how much work he had to do he always had time to say HEY NICK! with a smile I will always remember tommy and his happy spirit He will be sadly missed by me and Nick, He will always be in our prayers.
Mandi Cooper
December 27, 2008
Katie, Emily & Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Tommy was a great man . a wonderful friend and someone who made everyone feel like they had a friend in him. His smile and wit will be sorely missed.
"May The Road Rise Up to Meet you "
liz bieske
December 26, 2008
Tommy you will be very much missed.Tommy was always there to bring a smile to my face,i know for me it worked Tommy you will always be in are hearts.we love you and miss you liz & frank bieske jr.
carol (ofeldt) wilson
December 26, 2008
i knew tommy and his family years ago.i am sorry to hear of his passing.
Linda Parlin
December 26, 2008
Dear Kate, Emily, and family;
My heart aches for you. I have always thought of Tom as timeless, and I believe he will continue to be just that. There has been no one else like Tom - truly unique among men and always true to himself. Tom, you will be dearly missed by so many. Thank you for the joy in knowing you and sharing your quick laugh, easy spirit, helping hand, and reflective laid-back philosophies.
My deepest sympathy to you, my dear friend Kate. I wish you and Emily peace and comfort in the months to come.
Love,
Linda
Phyllis and Marty Turoff
December 26, 2008
So very sorry to learn of your loss. Our thoughts are with you at this time.
Sincere sympathy,
Alice Hauser
December 26, 2008
Words cannot express how much I will miss you Tommy. Your loving sister Alice
Joanne Gleeson
December 26, 2008
Dear Kate, Emily and family, We are so very saddened by Tom's passing. Tom always had a ready smile and wave as he was mowing when I passed by on the way to the post office. We will miss him. Love, Glenn, Joanne, Scott and Ryan Gleeson
Jenifer Thompson Brennan
December 26, 2008
Katie, I was sorry to read about Toms death. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Emily.
Deanna Collura-Karsten
December 26, 2008
I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love.
Susan Mary Egan
December 26, 2008
I only knew Tommy for a few years, but he was the type of person who instantly made you feel you knew him your whole life with his friendly words and spirit. He will be greatly missed by all of his friends at First Student.
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