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Joseph DeMercurio Obituary
Hornbrook, CA
Joseph Clay DeMercurio, 54 years old, went home to be with the Lord on November 30th, 2015. Born in San Jose, CA, he was a beloved son, brother, uncle and friend to many.
As a teenager, he attended Central Valley High School and excelled in leadership and sports, including Basketball, Cross-Country and Track, holding numerous records for many years. Clay was a long time resident of Central Valley, CA, residing in Hornbrook, CA during his later years.
He was a master glass sculptor and an enthusiast of the creative arts. A man of generous heart, he has finished the race well.
Clay is survived by father Joseph, mother Maureen, brothers Cal and Ben, nephews CJ, Donald, Joshua and Isaac and niece Kaytie.
A Celebration of Life service will be held on Saturday, December 12th at 1:00 p.m. at Little Country Church in Redding, CA.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Doctors Without Borders. events.doctorswithoutborders.org/campaign/ClayD
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Timothy Calkins
December 22, 2015
My sincere condolences to Clay's family. I am very saddened to hear of his passing. Clay and I attended Central Valley High School together in the late 70's and we both graduated in 1979. We had classes together and attended and participated in all the normal high school events that one would expect including the prom. Although we were not close friends there was always a warmness between us when we connected, even at pick up basketball games at Sequoia. In fact, it was at one of these games that I last saw him. We laughed and joked frequently during that game that occurred many years ago. What I remember most about Clay was that he was easy going but sincere, friendly and caring. He was a good man and he will be sorely missed.
December 20, 2015
It's sad to lose a child and sibling. Find strength in one another. Our prayers include all of you.
Randy and Debbie Memeo
December 13, 2015
Our sincere condolences to Cal, Christa and the De Mercurio family. May the many happy memories help in some small way to alleviate your sorrow at this time of extreme sadness. Our prayers are with you.
Robert Calvillo
December 12, 2015
Clay was my Godson and although I was not close to him physically, but he was always in my thoughts and will always be. I have a glass piece made by him and cherish it. I will miss him.
Diana Cramer
December 9, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with all the DeMercurio family. May the good memories and happy times fill your hearts and your upcoming days find some peace
John Freire
December 8, 2015
No parents should have to loss a child. I am so sorry for your lose. Your memories will help you get through your loss. God Bless you and your family
Kimberly Scotti
December 8, 2015
I know Clay is looking over each and everyone of us who knew him. He was always willing to help a friend, is lovable personality was infectious. I will miss our talks on the phone. I love the DeMercurio family my heart aches for you. You will always have a special place in my heart.
December 8, 2015
I'll always love you, my fiend...Thank you for all the wonderful times, talks, concerts & our crazy road trips in the porch & I-rock,& the many bottles of Merlot we shared.. Loving you too, Bob Farmer.
Jim and Shalon (Schoniger) Larmour
December 8, 2015
Many happy memories of Clay bring fun and laughter and kindness into our lives in high school. May God comfort your hearts in this sad time.
Evonne Lawson
December 8, 2015
I graduated from CV with Clay...we ran track together and had a boat load of fun in doing so...my prayers and love go out to the family
Kevin Brown
December 7, 2015
I am saddened by the news of Clay's passing I have many great memories of my buddy Clay and friends from our younger crazy days of sun and fun on Shasta Lake in the real Northern California in later years our visits were fewer as miles between our homes are great I will miss our phone calls out of the blue the last was November I'll miss stopping at the ranch on my way to and from Alaska with some wild game meat of some kind a open fire and a grill and we were in business great great times I was lucky now and then to visit with the family at different anniversaries openings and birthdays Clay was very good about giving me dates and time he always asked about my mom !! As does Maureen my heart goes out to you all
Annette Moonen
December 7, 2015
Aunty, Uncle, and cousins there are no words for our loss. Blessings and Peace to Clay and all he leaves behind.
December 7, 2015
My heart is breaking as I fight back tears...Clay & I were such close friends. We had more than our fair share of fun. He always brought me a bottle of Merlot. We would sit & talk for hours... I'll never stop loving my special friend... Cheers Mr.D
Paula Emler
December 7, 2015
My heart goes out to all who loved Clay. He was such a talented man. Condolences to the family.
NOVA 9th grade
Robin (Bell) Maddalena
December 7, 2015
Joe, Maureen, Cal, Ben, family and friends
It is a struggle to find words that can ease the pain of such a significant loss.
Clay left a favorable impression on my entire family and knew he was destined from the first day he delivered the newspaper to our house.
I can only imagine how difficult the days have been, and know there will be difficult days to come.
My heart aches for you all and pray God gives you comfort through the tears, smiles through the beautiful memories and much support from friends and family close and dear to you.
This is an old photo of Clay from 9th grade.
Al & Jan Yrigoyen Yrigoyen
December 7, 2015
To the Demercurio family, our thoughts and prayers go out to you. Clay and I worked together, what a great guy, he will be missed.
Julie Norman
December 7, 2015
So sorry for your loss. We pray for your comfort and peace.
Colin Peacock, Jr.
December 7, 2015
Prayers and condolences...
Kelly Jensen (Hancock)
December 7, 2015
To Cal and family. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to each of you.
Maureen Gaynor
December 7, 2015
I am so saddened to hear the news of Clay's passing. He was such a delight in high school. Many prayers to the Demercurio Family at this difficult time.
Don and Debbie Fluhrer
December 7, 2015
Words cannot express the sorrow felt for your loss, but believe in the joy Clay now holds being in the presence of our Heavenly Father. Our prayers are lifted to you and your family during this time.
Debra Kemp (Boyd)
December 7, 2015
He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.
Gwynda Cassedy
December 6, 2015
My deepest sympathy for Clay's loved ones. We were schoolmates from before middle school through high school graduation and always held Clay in such high regard. He always showed such kindness, strength of character, and had a smile for everyone. Will always remember Clay's sweet nature and will keep him in my heart with fond memories. Grateful to have had the honor to be one of his many, many friends.
Cathy and Steve Arganbright
December 6, 2015
We are deeply saddened to hear of Clay's passing! He was the life of the party and a shining light of love and joy and he will be missed. My prayers are with the family at this time and I hope their joy returns soon. I look forward to seeing him again in Heaven!
Cindy Seawright
December 6, 2015
I have many happy memories of Clay, he was my brother in law for over 18 years. My heart breaks for my sons, Cj and Josh as well as Maureen, Joe, Cal, Ben and the rest of the family. Clay, you will be forever in our hearts. Rest in peace.
Sharon Dougall
December 6, 2015
Forever in our hearts
Carol Thornton-Crider
December 6, 2015
Prayers to Clay's Family for the loss of such a wonderful person. Went to school with Clay and I am positive he is watching from above!
Teresa Harrigan
December 6, 2015
I am glad we reconnected. He will be remembered with kindness in his heart.
Bonnie & Les Mason
December 6, 2015
Our hearts and our prayers are with the entire family....
Kristi (Barlow) LeMmond
December 6, 2015
Kristi (Barlow) LeMmond
Mr. And Mrs. Demercurio, Cal, Ben, and your families:
Firstly, I was so very sorry to hear the news that Clay had passed. He was the best of us and a true leader in our class. He was loved by fellow students, teachers, and his community.
When I think back on our childhood, I think of how he was already on his way to becoming honorable leader and gentleman. His smile and kind heart were so welcome in a time when other teens were not as tactful. He was a classic gentleman. Mr. And Mrs. Demercurio, thank you, you raised him well.
Living in the south is great but it's times like these I wish I were still a Cali girl. I hope you know my heart is with you even though I can't be.
I pray that God help you through this horrific time. We will keep you in our hearts and prayers.
Kristi (Barlow) LeMmond
Oklahoma
Colin & Dottie Peacock & Family
December 6, 2015
Our heartfelt condolences in your time of loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you
Mary Gross
December 6, 2015
Always enjoyed talking with Clay. We were blessed to have seen him this summer at the R Ranch. He helped us prep tubs for the float. Such a kind man. Love to the family- Jay and Mary Gross
Dennis Conley
December 6, 2015
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Christa DeMercurio
December 6, 2015
Clay was light in everyone's life with a genuine smile and a heart to give. God grant peace to all who will miss his presence in the midst of the holidays.
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