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1963
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2010
Richard Patterson Obituary
1963 - 2010
Richard Patterson Sr., born July 26, 1963 in Eureka, CA.,
passed away November 4, 2010 in Carmichael, CA.
Richard was a graduate of Shasta High School in Redding, CA.
Loving husband of Valerie Patterson. Father of Melissa Luann and Richard Jr. Son of Dale and Elizabeth Patterson.
Brother of Cindy and Chuck Hawkins, Dale and Debbie Patterson , John and Debbie Tarleton. Uncle of Cheryl Nolasco, Jeremy Hawkins, Paul Patterson, Tiffany Ellison, Brian Tarleton, Claire and Kingsley Tong. Son-in-law of Donald and Gayle Leyden Sr. Brother-in-law of Donald Leyden Jr. and Michele and Darren Tong.
Friends are invited to attend Visitation
Monday November. 8, 2010 from 5 to 8 p.m. at MILLER FUNERAL HOME
507 Scott St. Folsom, CA 95630, and
Funeral Services Tuesday November 9, 2010 at 10 a.m. at Sun River Church
11223 Trinity River Dr. Rancho Cordova, CA 95670.
A reception will follow at the church.
Interment will be at Pleasant Grove Cemetery in Elk Grove, CA.
Donations can be made to a Trust for the Children.
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Memories and Condolences
for Richard Patterson
Dale and Debbie Patterson
November 2, 2011
Richard, Valerie, Melissa, and Richie,
Richard, near one year ago your family and friends said goodbye to you. Not a day goes by without thinking of you and how life changes in a matter of seconds. Please know you are missed. You always teased me about if I ever caught a Salmon, it would probably cost $3,000 a pound, well, I've caught two this year, and while reeling them in, thought of you and our fishing trips. Brother, I miss you more than words can say and I love you. Valerie, Melissa, and Richie, we know how hard this is and we love you tremendously and are here for you all. Richard would be proud of how you have adjusted and put the best smile you can on everyday.
December 12, 2010
There will be an empty chair at the holiday table this year, but it will be filled with loving memories.
December 12, 2010
His mother and I loved Richard very much. His passing left a very big hole in our hearts. As his brother Dale was giving his euology during his funeral services I had chest pains. I now know it was not a mild heart attack but my pain was that of a broken heart. We cry often. He is with us in spirit I know, and we talk to him as if he is still standing next to us. We will forever miss his phone calls and his asking, hi dad or mom, whats up? And then go into the subjects of our family, our work, our state, our nations problems, and of course the latest Raiders news. Like he always said there is no "I" in we, ours, or team. He believed it, and lived it everyday.
His mother and I have always been very proud of our Richard. It was wonderful to know how many people loved and respected him as a friend, co-worker, inlaw, brother, son, fafther, and loving husband to Valerie. May you rest in peace son. You will be missed by all, and never forgoten. Son you left one heck of a dash between July 26, 1963 - Nov. 4, 2010. Dale & Betty Patterson. Prattville Alabams.
Barbara Lane
November 12, 2010
I sit in my classroom, reflecting on the past 7 years that I have worked with Richard. I miss my daily greeting, "How are you young lady?" I miss my farewell, "Have a good evening kiddo!" And I miss everything in-between, especially the daily banter about his Raiders and my Niners. What I would give to have him hide my 49er treasures once again, or place them out of my reach, or yes, even put them in the garbage can (but he always denied he did that)! Yep, I sit here in a Raider shirt (oh, Richard, you ARE having the last laugh, aren't you!), smiling through the tears. I miss you!
Valerie, Melissa, and Richie, what a wonderful husband and father you had! You are all in my daily prayers. May God provide you with strength, peace, and comfort during this most difficult time.
November 11, 2010
When someone we love passes away,
We ache, but we go on;
Our dear departed would want us to heal,
After they are gone.
Grief is a normal way to mend
The anguish and pain in our hearts;
We need time to remember and time to mourn,
Before the recovery starts.
Let's draw together to recuperate,
As we go through this period of sorrow;
Let's help each other, with tender care
To find a brighter tomorrow.
The Kuznetzow Family
Marty Deradoorian
November 11, 2010
Richard my friend,you will be missed by me and many others...always willing to help me when I needed you and always wanting to spend your time off with your family and telling me how much you loved them.R.I.P.Brother.Marty M.J.Martin Painting
Jim Allen
November 10, 2010
May God bless you and your family at this time of sorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cindy Rosada
November 9, 2010
Richard will truly be missed...he made so many people smile. It was so wonderful to listen to him talk about his family with such love. Now he will be your angel....and will watch over all of you. (The raiders WON,didnt they??) I will keep you in my prayers to give you strength and try to remember that Richard wouldn't want you to be sad. I feel blessed to have known him.
Hountalas Family
November 9, 2010
Lakeview will not be the same without Richard walking around to bring joy to everyone. Everytime he saw one of our boys in anything other then a Raider jersey he would razz them. He saved us many times when one of our kids forgot their books, he would go out of his way to help us find the teacher to let us into class. Richard will be deeply missed by our family. Thank you Richard for bringing our family such joy in the six years of knowing you. Your family will remain in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Mike, Denise, Connor, Jason, & Cole
Laura Landsittel Pearce
November 8, 2010
Richard was such a wonderful part of so many lives. I still can see him walking around the preschool in his Raiders clothes, cracking jokes, and always willing to help. He will be missed by many.
Love, The Pearce Family
Vanessa Lopez
November 8, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
November 8, 2010
School just wont be the same without Richard. We will remember him by his love for his family - his face would light up talking about them.....and his dedication to our school - he was ALWAYS willing to help out. As I watched the big Raider win yesterday, I couldn't help think about him...He will be greatly missed.
The McCarver Family
Bryant, Kirsten, Max, Kate & Lolo
Susan Kakavas
November 8, 2010
Valerie, I have never met you or your children but I know so much about you because Richard talked about you constantly. He talked about your weekends, your school events, just everything was "his family." We would share stories about our kids and he was always so proud of you and the kids. I can't begin to tell you how much Richard touched my life and made me laugh...I never knew in the beginning when he was joking but I learned really fast because he always had that smile. I will miss him so much at Lakeview- who will I leave food for after my cooking classes? He loved when I left stuff for your kids. We will truly miss you Richard. Love, Susan, Bill, Madison and Julia Kakavas
Judy Chance
November 8, 2010
Richard will remain a much loved member of our Lakeview Elementary School family. His good nature, his sense of humor and his willingness to go above and beyond for all of us will long keep him in our hearts. He will truly be missed, but all of us feel blessed to have known him.
Dawn Davenport
November 8, 2010
To Richard's Family...
You are truly blessed to have had such a wonderful man in your lives. We were also blessed to have had Richard in our "school family". He was always smiling and joking with everyone. If he didn't tease you at least once a day, you were in trouble!! As for the Raiders...tomorrow I will wear the colors "FOR RICHARD" and in honor of a great man. We will truly miss this amazing man.
The Davenport Family
Richard, Dawn, Ben, Alexis, Emilee and Mitchell
November 8, 2010
Dear Valerie, As soon as my students left for the day, I could hear Richard coming down the hallway. I will miss the anticipation I felt of seeing him walk through my classroom door and hearing a story about the Raiders, or the housing market, or the weather. He was always kind and helpful to me. My prayers are with you and your family. Tamara Barry, Lakeview Elementary School
Karen Lindwall
November 8, 2010
We are so saddened by the loss of Richard. His wonderful personality and spirit will be missed around the school. He was so proud of his family! He bragged about his children and his wife with such pride. We are sending you off with prayers and blessings, Richard! Know that you will be missed.
Andrea VanderVeer
November 8, 2010
Lakeview won't be the same without you. You were so helpful with the various things that were asked of you. So ready with a smile and conversation about your Raiders. I am deeply saddened for your family and for everyone at Lakeview. You will be missed!
~Andrea, Dylan, & Tyler VanderVeer
Jean Shirkman
November 8, 2010
Valerie, Melissa and Richie,
I pray God will help you all through this difficult time. It was truly my pleasure to have worked with Richard for the past 7 years. His laughter will be greatly missed.
November 8, 2010
We will miss your wonderful compliments of our tattoos and style. You always made us smile! You will truly be missed by all.
Love,
The Shaddix Family
Jacoby, Kelly, Makaile & Jagger
Cindy Shafi
November 8, 2010
Valerie, Melissa and Richie,
We are so saddened by your loss. Rich was such a down-to-earth, funny and caring guy, and it was a privilege to know him. He will truly be missed by so many people. You are in our hearts and prayers, and we hope you find strength from all the love surrounding you.
With love,
The Shafi Family
-Azi, Cindy, Adeem & Ammar
Kelli Bryan
November 8, 2010
Dear
Valerie, Melissa and Richie
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.Our deepest sympathy
The Bryan Family
Bobby, Kelli, Ryan, Brooke,and Leta
Cindy McKinney
November 8, 2010
It was an honor and a pleasure working with Richard. He will be missed more than you know. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Janice Styrsky
November 8, 2010
I am so very sorry to here about Rich. I remember meeting him for the first time and just how comfortable he made me feel. You know how you're around some people that just make you feel awkward and uncomfortable? Rich was the exact opposite of that. It's like he gave you permission to be comfortable in your own skin and I loved that! Apart from that, everyone knows how sweet and funny he was. Valerie, my heart aches for you and the kids.
All my love,
Janice
Bonnie Hawkins
November 7, 2010
I pray for God's peace and comfort for you all. It has been a privledge to be a part of the Patterson family for these many years. God bless all.
Cheryl Nolasco
November 7, 2010
My uncle was not a dull man...always the butt of the joke...despite the challenges he lived with, he held his head high with pride and zeal for life. May this never be forgotten...Valerie, Melissa, and Richie - I pray that you will always remember and treasures those things! Love, thoughts, and prayers. Cheryl
Sarah Thompson
November 7, 2010
Dear Valerie, Melissa, and Ritchie, My thoughts are with you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.
Lisa Shea-Stojkovic
November 7, 2010
Valerie, Melissa and Richie,
Our deepest sympathy to you for this terrible loss. Rich was such a sweet, funny guy and dedicated father, during preschool rarely a day went by without one of his corny jokes, Our family will always think of him and smile. Just know that he is with you, loving you all and giving you strength during this most painful time. Our prayers are with you and we are always here if you need anything.
-The Stojkovic Family-
Lisa, Drahomir and Drago
Alison Milobar
November 7, 2010
Rich touched so many lives and was loved by so many. He will be missed tremendously. Like Richie, Rich had a great smile and that too will be missed.
The Milobar Family
Stacey Bandell
November 7, 2010
Richard, you laughter filled a room and your brought a smile to everyone you encountered.
Valerie, Melissa and Richie, you have been in my thoughts constantly. I hope you are able to draw on the strength from the love around you. We will continue to think of you.
Stacey, Yaron, Sterling, Layna & Zander
Shala Germsheid
November 7, 2010
Valerie, Richie and Melissa:
I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Rich has touched so many lives in so many ways. He will be greatly missed. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you.
~The Germscheids
Stacey Bandell
November 7, 2010
Much love to you Richard :) You always made me smile and had a laugh for everyone.
Valarie, Richie and Melissa our hearts go out to you and we are here when you need us.
November 7, 2010
Wow words can't explain how much Richard will be miss. He was great a guy with a awesome sense of humor..who could brighten anybody's day...I'm sure his up there watching the raider game with the best seats in the house...Miss you! :)Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family during this time.
~The Rees Family
November 7, 2010
Val,
We are so sorry for your loss. You were truly blessed to have such an awesome, funloving and generous man as your husband and father of your children. Our thoughts and prayers are with you! The Peña Family
November 7, 2010
Val,
We are heatbroken over your loss. There are no words that can help the pain you feel. You were very lucky to have such an awesome man as your husband and father of your children. He was one of the most funloving and generous men I ever knew. Our prayers and thoughts are with you! The Peña Family
P.S. COME ON RAIDERS WIN THIS ONE FOR RICH!!!
Lori Kennedy
November 7, 2010
Valerie, Melissa and Richie:
I am so sorry for your tremendous loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you during this difficult time. We will be thinking of you and keeping you all in our prayers.
-The Kennedy Family-
Cortney, Lori, Zachary and Hudson
Denise Stein
November 7, 2010
Valerie I am so sorry for your loss and my heart and prayers are with you and the children and your family during this time.
Denise Stein
November 7, 2010
Valerie, my heart and prayers go out to you and your children and your family.during this time and I am so sorry for your loss.
November 7, 2010
It was an honor for me to have known and worked with Richard. I will always remember his sweet nature and smile. He will be deeply missed by all of us in the Rescue Union School District, where he had the respect and regard of everyone, especially the children.
In deep sympathy,
Carol Bly
RUSD Superintendent
Nancy Roha
November 7, 2010
We will miss seeing your smile. You were such a dear friend and will be truly missed. Love, The Roha Family
November 7, 2010
We will miss seeing your smile. You were such a dear friend and will be truly missed. Love, The Roha Family
November 6, 2010
Baby brother....You will be missed by all. Love-Your sister
November 6, 2010
We will miss you very much little brother. Rest in peach Rich. We love you! Dale & Debbie Patterson
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