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Wesley Shockley Obituary

Wesley Shockley

Rocklin

It is with heavy and saddened hearts that we share the unexpected passing of Wesley Leland Shockley on November 2, 2016 in Rocklin, CA.

He was an amazing husband, father, son, brother and friend and will be greatly missed by all who loved him. 40 years young, an Iraq war veteran, Vet Center Director at U.S. Department of Veteran Affairs in Rocklin, CA.

He is survived by his wife, Carolyn; daughter, Lucy; and son, Jacob. Wes was raised in Redding with his sisters: Allison and Crysta; and brother, Dwight. He graduated from Enterprise High School and Chico State University.

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Published by Redding Record Searchlight on Nov. 9, 2016.

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Mario Lopez

January 15, 2025

Sadly, I just came across this information. I went to bootcamp and AIT @ Ft. Sam with Wes. This is tragic, condolences to friends and family. He was an absolutely kind, warm human being and this world was lucky to have Wes. Wes had a calming presence during the most stressful of situations. I remember carrying him on my back and vice/versa when we would run up the hills at 5am in San Antonio (he was heavy - hehe). On graduation, he went out of his way to approach my parents and say nice things about me which they remember to this day. He attended a BBQ I hosted at my Aunt's in San Antonio and was happy, appreciative, and so darn friendly to all. Wes selflessly served his country, and I'm sure was an amazing husband, father, and friend.

Charles E. Ramirez

November 3, 2024

I remember you Wesley Shockley... You were me counselor at Sunrise VA for a short period of time in Sacramento, CA... I am sorry that our time in the counseling process was so short... I am lost for words but God Bless you on the other side of The Rainbow Bridge... Charley Ramirez

Charles E. Ramirez

November 3, 2024

Remembering you Wesley Shockley... You were me concealer at Sunrise VA for a short period of time... I am so so sorry it could have been longer... Your memory is still with me and I really did noy know you... God Bless, Charley Ramirez...

Rose-Marie Eckes

November 3, 2022

I will never forget Wes. He still lives in my heart. Blessings to all his family and friends.

Rose-Marie Eckes

December 6, 2016

Carolyn, Jacob and Lucy... It has been over a month since the loss of Wes. I still tear up when I think of his beautiful spirit and how much he loved all of you. I will keep a prayer for you, always. I will miss Wes, always. Blessings and love to you.

Susan Ferguson

November 24, 2016

There aren't words to express the sadness I feel for Wes's family, his staff and all those he touched at the Citrus Heights Vet Center. R.I.P. Wes.

Daren Maloy

November 20, 2016

Wesley was my Vet Center counselor. I only had a few sessions with him. Every time we had a session, upon leaving,I felt like he had given me good advice and helped me see things from a different perspective. I was shocked to hear of his passing and my condolences go out to the family.

mario ramirez

November 19, 2016

I met Mr. Shockley four years ago at the Chico Vet center. I started attending his Iraq And Afghanistan groups. I am very sad to hear of his passing away. He helped me transition and guide me through my hardships. Mr. Shockley was one of the few individuals that I felt one hundred percent , and was able to move on in life. Thank you sir for your service. And to his family and friends sorry for your loss. I will never forget him and he will never be forgotten since he helped so many combat vets. See you in Vanhalla Shockley. - Sgt. Mario Ramirez USMC

November 19, 2016

Our prayers for your family. He helped so many vets as well as their families and we will be forever grateful. Matthew and Laurie Vidosh

Wes Shockley, Jim McCormick (Sac Choral Society) and Tim Whalen (Vet Center, Citrus Heights)

James McCormick

November 18, 2016

Wesley's kind and giving nature will leave an indelible mark on this world, offering hope to so many. His partnership at the Vet Center in Citrus Heights with the Sacramento Choral Society & Orchestra was highly valued re comp tickets for Vets and their Families. Requiem in pace, Wesley.

Charley Ramirez

November 16, 2016

So SAD that we have lost you, GOD BLESS YOU... Rest In Peace my friend Wesley Shockley...

Bob Dunlap

November 15, 2016

Wes was a friend and colleague in the Veteran service business. When I was the VSO in Shasta County, Wes was my point of contact at the Chico Vet Center. He opened the door to countless Veterans who desperately needed help and was instrumental in establishing a Vet Center satellite office in Redding. Wes will be greatly missed.

Joy Monroe

November 15, 2016

Sincere condolences to everyone Wes touched in this world. And he touched so many lives. This has rocked the shakey foundation in my life, and I know the lives of many others. Peace be to you Carolyn and your children, and Wes's family.
Peace also to the many in Wes's work world, like me who Wes helped while in Chico, CA.
I am so, so sorry!

Alfonso C.

November 15, 2016

We are all saddened to learn of loosing our Vet Center and Army colleague

Todd & Amy Yosick

November 10, 2016

Carolyn & family,

Our thoughts are with you through this tremendous loss. I was fortunate to spend a year with Wes in Iraq in 2004. He was such a special person--always willing to go out of his way for others. He was a leader and role model for so many people. We all loved him. I remember how his eyes would light up when talking about going home, or getting a chance to call home. He love Carolyn very much, and it was beautiful to see. Our hearts will be with you from Virginia during this difficult time and transition. Hold each other close and remember he'll forever be in all of our hearts.

Robert Schneider

November 9, 2016

To the Shockley family: you've been in my thoughts and prayers continually since we got the unimaginable news at the Vet Center. God bless. -- Dr. Rob Schneider

Aydin Olson-Kennedy

November 9, 2016

Wes was a unexpected mentor and teacher for me at a time in my life that I needed the kindness and gentleness that only he could provide. Thank you Wes for the countless games of racquetball at Chico Sports Club. And thank you for walking next to me while I learned how to be me. Forever grateful.

Sending all of Wes' family and friends love and light.

Erin Tillmanns

November 9, 2016

Dear Jacob,
Ava came home from school today and told me something she couldn't believe. Our entire family is so sorry to hear of your unimaginable loss. Your dad was a wonderful man who loved you and was so proud of you.
We pray for your family.
With deepest sympathy,
The Tillmanns Family

Cathy Hart

November 9, 2016

Dear Carolyn & family,
Leo & I are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thought and prayers at this difficult time.

Don & Debbie Fluhrer

November 9, 2016

Thank you for your service to our country! May God hold you and keep you.

Lee Ogaldez

November 9, 2016

I served in the Army with Wes. He was a guy I went to for guidance and words of wisdom when things got tough during our deployment. I am deeply saddened to hear of his passing. I will always love and respect you Wes! Rest in peace Brother!

Deb Elliott-DeSorbo

November 9, 2016

Wes's loved ones, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I worked with Wes for a few months at the Citrus Heights Vet Center (he was coming in and I was leaving) and I genuinely liked him. I appreciated the way he blended his sense of humor with his caring nature. He was one of the good ones

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