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Leslie Garner Obituary

Leslie Holland Garner Mr. Leslie Holland Garner, 89, of Greenville, died Monday, Feb. 23, 2009, from injuries sustained in a fall. He was born April 26, 1919, in Newport, the son of Lila and Howard Claus Garner. The funeral service will be conducted Friday at 11 a.m. in the Christian Life Ministry Center at St. James United Methodist Church. Burial will follow in Pinewood Memorial Park with Masonic Rites. Les dearly loved his family and was extremely proud of his children and grandchildren. He reserved a place in his heart for children with special needs. He had a wide circle of friends in Greenville, Pitt County and across the state and nation, who he loved as an extended family. Throughout his long life, he freely and generously gave of himself as he worked to make this a better world for everyone. Les Garner served his country in World War II and received the Distinguished Flying Cross for his 51 missions in the Army Air Corps. He was a successful businessman, a founding partner of Garner Wynne Manning, Inc., President of Garner Wholesale Merchandisers, president of the North Carolina Wholesalers Association and board chairman of the national Toiletries Merchandising Association. He was a Charter Member of St. James United Methodist Church. An active member of the United Methodist Men and the Men's Sunday School Class, he chaired the church's Advisory Board and Finance Committee. In the Greenville community he was an active supporter of the Salvation Army, a life member and past chair of its Advisory Board. He enthusiastically led the Salvation Army's Christmas Fund Drive for more than 40 years. He was a member of The Masonic Order since 1946. He was elected Grand Master of the Grand Lodge of North Carolina in 1976 and achieved the 33rd Honorary Degree, the highest degree in masonry. He was a member of Crown Point Lodge #708 and a Shriner of the Sudan Temple. He was a board member of Oxford Orphanage for 9 years, serving as Chairman and President. Les Garner was an active member of Kiwanis for more than 40 years. He was Kiwanian of the Year of the Greenville Club in 1971 and Kiwanian of the Year of the University City Club in 1990. He was both Lieutenant Governor and Governor of the Carolinas District. During his leadership of Kiwanis, he helped organize more than 50 clubs, including the first Golden K Club and the first all-female club in Kiwanis International. He was instrumental in the success of the University City Kiwanis Peanut Project, which now annually raises more than $50,000 for the benefit of local charities. Les Garner was the second President of the East Carolina University Pirate Club and an active supporter and fan of ECU athletics. In recent years, one of his greatest joys was leading the singing of "Take Me Out to the Ballgame" during the seventh inning stretch at all home Pirate baseball games. In 1975, he was named the Citizen of the Year by the Greenville Area Chamber of Commerce. He served as Mayor of Greenville from 1986-1987. He received the Boy Scouts of America Distinguished Service Award in 1995. He played an instrumental role in the Scales-Aldridge Golf Tournament for the benefit of J. H. Rose High School which last year was renamed the Scales-Aldridge-Garner Golf Tournament in his honor. Just last month he was honored by the Greenville-Pitt County Chamber of Commerce as the second recipient of the Legends Award for his decades of community service. The Legends Award recognized Leslie Garner's "outstanding character and his commitment to his community and to all of the people in it." Les had a zest for life that was evident to all who knew him. He remained active and involved until his last days. This past Saturday before the fall that injured both Les and his friend Gladys Chianello, he led the singing of "Take Me Out to the Ballgame" at an ECU baseball game, and that evening escorted Gladys to a formal charity event. He was predeceased by his parents, his wife of 47 years, Evelyn Griffin Garner; his brothers, Walter Glenn, Leroy, Leland, and Arnold; and his sister Madeline Rivers. He is survived by his son, Leslie H. Garner Jr. and wife, Katrina Jolly Garner, of Mt. Vernon, Iowa; daughter, Elaine Garner Denton and husband, Wayland Denton, of Greenville; son William Griffin "Griff" Garner and wife, Christie Priestley Garner, of Greenville; his foster daughter, Gail Lynch Manning and husband, Mac Manning, of Greenville; and his foster son Barry Lynch of King. He is also survived by grandchildren who adored him, Brantley and William Garner of Cedar Rapids, Iowa, Derek Denton of Greenville, Scott Denton of Albemarle, Brad Garner and wife, Emily, of Greenville, Amie Garner Miles and husband, Jeremy, of Leon, Nicaragua, Ashley Garner of Chapel Hill, Gray Garner of Greenville; and a step-granddaughter, Frances Manning of Greenville. He is also survived by his sisters-in-law Anna Garner, Louise Griffin Hill and husband Frank, and Peggy Griffin; brother-in-law, Billy Green; and by his many loving nephews and nieces. The family will receive friends at Wilkerson Funeral Home Thursday from 4 to 7 p.m. and other times at the home of Griff and Christie Garner, 4104 Hardwick Court. Memorial contributions may be made to the Les and Evelyn Garner Scholarship Fund, c o St. James United Methodist Church, 2000 E. 6th St., Greenville, NC 27858, the University City Kiwanis Endowment Fund, c/o Todd Brown, 600 Lynndale Court, Suite D, Greenville, NC 27858, or the Salvation Army, P. O. Box 113, Greenville, NC 27835. On-line condolences at www.wilkersonfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Daily Reflector on Feb. 25, 2009.

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Marc & Sheryl Ghidotti

March 20, 2009

Griff and Family,
So sorry to hear about your Dad. He certainly lived life to the fullest. Glad to have met such a wonderful, giving and fun loving man while working at Garner Wholesale. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours during this difficult time.

Bill Webb

March 19, 2009

To the Garner Family.
I just learned of Mr. Garner's passing. I only knew him for the 2 years I worked at Garner Wholesale in the late 80's, but I will never forget him. He was one of those "once in a lifetime" characters you meet, and he seemed to enjoy life about as much as anyone I've ever known. I know he will be greatly missed.

John Clark

March 8, 2009

I pray God's continued blessing and healing upon the Garner family. A classmate of Les Garner Jr.

Jim Copeland

March 1, 2009

May God bless the Garner family. Thanks Leslie for your sevice to our country and service to ECU. My mother who passed away 2 years ago was also born in Williamston like your lovely wife Evelyn . I am sorry to see another member of the "greatest generation" and a true Pirate leave us.

Debbie Gurganus Edmundson

March 1, 2009

Griff, Elaine, and family,
Mom and I want to let you all know you are in our prayers. Mr. G. was one of a kind. In our old days at GWM, he always made everyone laugh or said hello. He will be missed.
Debbie Edmundson, Doris Gurganus Chauncey.

Lisa Green Smith

February 27, 2009

Griff, Elane and family,
I was so sorry to hear about the death of Mr. Garner. I worked with all of you at Garner Wholesale back in the late 80’s and I have very fond memories of the great times we had. My office was beside Mr. Garner’s in the warehouse and I feel honored to have known him. He has had a positive impact on the community and has touched so many hearts with his caring and jovial character. One thing that sticks out during the Garner Wholesale days was he had a trailer at the beach that he kept for employees to use on a sign-up basis - what a wonderful “perk” for ALL of his employees! That was Mr. Garner – he had such a big heart! I remember his “Butterbean” song and I gave a copy to my father and he still sings it to this day. Mr. Garner will never be forgotten and I’m so glad I had the chance to get to know him. My prayers are with all of you during the most difficult time and even though we’ve lost touch through the years, please feel free to contact me if there is anything I can do for you. God Bless you all!

DEBI COPPOLA

February 27, 2009

I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOST AND MY PRAYERS ARE WITH ALL OF THE FAMILY- I HAD THE PRIVILEDGE OF WORKING FOR GARNER WHOLESALE WHEN WE FIRST MOVED TO GREENVILLE- MR. GARNER WAS A TRIP AND I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HIM AS A GENEROUS PERSON WHO ENJOYED LAUGHTER -I FELT I FOUND A FRIEND IN MR. G WHILE WORKING AT GARNER WHOLESALE AND EVEN AFTER WHEN OUR PATHS CROSSED. HE WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED IN MY HEART AND WITH LAUGHTER- GOD BLESS YOU ALL

Betty Fulford

February 26, 2009

Elaine and family. Sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with you.

Malik & Paula Khan

February 26, 2009

Dear Griff and Christie,
We are sorry and saddened to hear about your loss. Although we were never fortunate enough to meet Griff's Dad, we felt we knew him through the stories you shared with us. He was clearly a wonderful, remarkable person, who will be sorely missed by your family and the whole community. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
With our sympathy,
Malik and Paula

Sherrie Wasserman

February 26, 2009

Dear Griff:

I am very sorry for your loss. Your father must have been one incredible person!!

Please know that I am praying for you and your family.

Sincerely,

Michael Carpentet

February 26, 2009

Dear Les and Katrina, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of your family. In the area of public service, your Dad was a giant. I remember well his service with BSA Troop 340 during its early days and the support he gave the boys. He was one of a kind.

Chief James & Dorothy Tripp Pitt County Sherriff Dept./Former Garner Wholesale Employee

February 25, 2009

To the Garner Family,
Our prayers are with you during this time. As a former Garner Wholesale employee I am very acquainted with Kiwanis and the peanut sale. I was a receptionist so I was in charge of promoting the sale of peanuts. Mr. Garner made sure that I was on top of this more so than answering the phone (smile). He had a very full and enjoyable life. Family "Recall it as often as you wish a happy memory never wears out".

Lyman Cox

February 25, 2009

Griff and family and Elaine and family
We were sorry to hear about the sudden passing of your father and grandfather. It is truly a great loss to your family. We will keep each family in our thoughts and prayers.
Your father and grandfather is truly an example of let the work I've done speak for me. God will take care of the family.
Lyman, Claudette,Travis,Derek and Shannon Cox, Alisha and Alex

Cordell and Debby Avery

February 25, 2009

Debby and I are out of state this week and were saddened to hear of
Les's passing. He contributed so much to the life of our community, both in ways seen and not so obvious. Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to Les, Jr., Griff and Elaine and to their families.

Rick Styron

February 25, 2009

Griff,
I worked for you and your dad from 1981 to 1986 as a salemen and then as a supervisor.The first day I met Mr. Garner he made me feel like I was important to him as a person, not just an employee. He was one of the finest men I have ever known and he will always have a special place in my heart.
May God bless you and your family in this difficult time.

Steven Hardee

February 25, 2009

My prayers go out to the family. Greenville has lost its best friend. I didn't know him personally, but I knew him through all his charity work. What a GREAT public servant.

KIMBERLY(formerG.R.W student) GREEN-JOYNER

February 25, 2009

Mrs. Judy Gail, I would like to express my deepest sympathy to you&your family. Remember that "Weeping May Indur The Night, But Joy Comes In The Morning!" I will continue to pray for your family. Be strong, and hold on to Gods hand.

Belinda Faulkner

February 25, 2009

Les, I am so sorry to hear the news about your father. I remember when he used to do cookouts at NCWC. What a guy! Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. Belinda Faulkner

Charlotte Britton

February 25, 2009

I remember Les coming to our Kiwanis meetings when I lived in Greenville. He was always so happy and made everyone around him feel happy also. He will be dearly missed. May God be with you.

Randy & Amanda Mazey

February 25, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time. We are so proud to say we knew Les and are proud of the legecy he left behind with all his charity work. He was one of a kind and will be missed!

Deborah Lambeth

February 25, 2009

Griff and Christy, just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and your family. Griff, I did not know your dad--but I know that he left an indelible mark upon all of you. May fond memories and the thoughts of so many who care bring you comfort.

Barbara Murray

February 25, 2009

May God keep you in comfort during this time of bereavement.

Jane Crandell Roberson

February 25, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with the family. May God be with you during this time. Greenville has lost one it's most valuable players. I worked for Mr. Garner at GWM for several years and he was always a very caring man for his family, employees and community. I have a lot of fond memories. He will be missed.

Brad Brown

February 25, 2009

Griff and Elaine,

I am very sorry for your loss. Your father was a man of integrity and had a great sense of humor. His friendliness was genuine and I have such fond memories of him growing up.

God bless you and your families.

Jackie Honeycutt Walton

February 25, 2009

"Leslie H" as my family fondly called him will always be remembered as one of our Dad's dearest friends and masonic btothers. He was truly one of a kind and I know he and my Dad are having a great time catching up right now!

Montrose A. Streeter

February 25, 2009

May you find comfort knowing others are praying for you during your time of grief. I became acquainted with Mr. Garner during my Key Club days at Rose High School. His humanitarian spirit and healthy sense of humor will be missed by all who knew him.
"Be not dismayed, whatever be tide, God will take cre of you."

Louis Clark, Jr

February 25, 2009

I am very sorry to hear this news. Les was a wonderful, giving man who touched my life for most of my life. He was a great example of a person giving to our community. I will miss seeing him, his smile and his happy nature. Thank you Les Garner!

G'ville Wholesaler

February 25, 2009

There will only be one Les -- I pray your family can take solace in the 89 years he was on this earth he truly personified "carpe diem".

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