Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
Add a Memory
Make a Donation
BORN
1961
DIED
2013
FUNERAL HOME
James Cattey Obituary
But nothing compared to his music. James was born with music in his soul. He was a gifted musician and music producer. He could play anything on both the guitar and keyboards. All James had to do was hear the song one time, and he could reproduce it. He made his living in his early twenties by playing in his professional band, Thrasher, traveling and opening for many famous bands. He was later part of the local band, Factor 5, who were in the midst of preparing for a mini reunion. James loved to cook for his family and was teaching his youngest son the tricks of the trade, preparing him for a career in the culinary arts. His wife and two sons were everything to him. They enjoyed being together more than anything. It did not matter what they were doing as long as they were doing it together.
In addition to his wife and mother, James leaves his two amazing sons, Nicholas James Cattey, 21, and Michael Liam Cattey, 14, both of Torrington. He also leaves two brothers, Robert Cattey of Shokan, New York and Joseph (Jay) Cattey of West Palm Beach, Florida, several aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, extended family and an amazing circle of wonderful friends. And last, but not least, his beloved dog Basil, who was his faithful and loyal companion.
Funeral services will be held at Calvary Baptist Church, 342 Prospect Street in Torrington at 10:30 a.m., Wednesday, Jan. 16. Friends may call Tuesday, Jan. 15 from 6 to 8 p.m. at Phalen Funeral Home, 285 Migeon Avenue, Torrington.
www.phalenfuenral.com
Memories and Condolences
for James Cattey
19 Entries
February 6, 2013
May the family rely on the God of all comfort during this time.
Selena Eddy
January 18, 2013
So sorry for your tragic loss he was truly a brilliant man!
Maura Bogan
January 17, 2013
Betsy, So very sorry for you and your sons. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
January 17, 2013
Dearest Betsy and family, I'm truly sorry to hear of your loss. May you find comfort in knowing that Jimmy is with God making music in heaven and watching over you. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Much love, Lisa Villareale DuBois.
Lois Arnott
January 15, 2013
Love you.....so sorry
Angela Arnott
January 15, 2013
My thoughts and prayers go to Gloria and all of Jim's family.
Chris Maiorino-Morey
January 15, 2013
RIP Jimmy
Chris Maiorino- Morey
January 15, 2013
So broken hearted over your passing!! We just said to each other, friends to the end! This end came too quick!! You'll be missed forever!! RIP Jimmy!! Praying for peace & strength for your family! See ya on the other side.......
Robert MacKinnon
January 15, 2013
Robert MacKinnon (Bahama Kin) E-mail: [email protected]
Jim Cattey, I will always remember all the good you did on Earth. Music, Faith, & Eternal Light to you my dear friend. Memories of times we had and dreams will never fade away. May Jesus Christ be with you and your family. thank you for loving my music as much as I Loved your music.
January 14, 2013
Jim, we remember you as a talented young man, sincere person, Betsy's husband and father to Nick and Michael and an especially considerate and thoughtful "grandson" to Grandma Josephine. We wish you peace. You will always be in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless You, Aunt Ginger & Uncle George
Cris Revaz
January 14, 2013
I was close to Jim growing up in Torrington. Boyhood pals. Lost touch over the years, but still have many great memories of a dear friend. Im so saddened by this news. Peace and sympathy to Jim's family.
laura moriarty
January 13, 2013
Prayers for strength and inner peace.
January 13, 2013
We are very sorry for your loss, I also grew up in Bantam next door to the Arnott family, later in life Joe and Gloria, were our friends
Bill & Carol(Schnell)Dwyer
January 13, 2013
We are sorry for your loss. I also grew up in Bantam, next door to Gloria and her family.
Joseph Mazzarella
January 13, 2013
To be absent in body, is to be present with the Lord, to those who believe. I will see you in paradise my dear friend.
Greg aan Barb Hart
January 13, 2013
Rest in peace Jim, with our sympathy to Jim's entire family.
Hazelee (Mycock) Robinson
January 13, 2013
Sending a message of sadness to you and your extended family. Being born and raised in Bantam - on Circle Drive - we are all family. Stay strong in God's comforting arms.
Sandy Marchetti
January 13, 2013
My prayers go out to Betsey and your sons. Words can't express how sad this is. Jim was such a good man who always had a warm 'hello'. Heaven is now blessed with his presence.
Dan Soucy
January 13, 2013
You were an amazing friend, I enjoyed your energy and quick wit. Thanks for the time I shared with you, wish it were more.
Showing 1 - 19 of 19 results
Make a Donation
in James Cattey's name
Memorial Events
for James Cattey
How to support James's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief
Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.
Read more
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreWays to honor James Cattey's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more