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MATTHEW AYERS Obituary

AYERS, MATTHEW B. Matthew B. Ayers, 60 of Norfolk, died Thursday November 27, 2014. Born in Edison New Jersey on March 16, 1954; the son of Dr. Albert and Corinne (Egan) Ayers. Matt was an accomplished mason and carpenter, talented musician, artist, an avid collector, and a warm, kind soul. In addition to his parents Matt is survived by his beloved daughters Bridget Ayers of New Orleans and Abigail Ayers of Boston. Bridey and Abbey were his world and his love for them was absolutely boundless. Matt also leaves behind his siblings Elaine Ayers Boratko of New Hartford, Veronica Ayers of Torrington, Daniel Ayers and wife April of Norfolk, Timothy Ayers and wife Rene of Norfolk, Emily Ayers of Torrington, Neil Ayers and wife Hedy of Simsbury and many nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends. He was predeceased by his big brother Greg. Matt spent his early years as a commercial fisherman; his final resting place will be at sea. A celebration of Matt’s life will be held at Infinity Music Hall in Norfolk, CT on Saturday December 6, 2014 from 12:00 p.m. until 2:00 p.m.

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Published by registercitizen from Dec. 2 to Dec. 3, 2014.

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Patti and Michael Sinclair

December 15, 2014

WE all remember Matt as a kind and gentle soul. I even had a crush on him when I was only 8 years old because of his amazing eyes and warm smile. Our hearts and minds are saddened for the Ayers family to suffer the loss of another family member. Our prayers and thoughts are with all who loved Matt. Especially his parents, his siblings and his daughters. Remembering you all each day as you walk through this difficult time. Much love and many blessings!
Patti and Michael (Phelan) Sinclair

Sue Burke

December 14, 2014

Dear Emily, I am so sorry to hear of Matthews passing; I'm not quite sure of how to contact you but, want you to know your in my thoughts and prayers. Please extend my deepest sympathy to your family

michele Goodrow ( Carroll )

December 8, 2014

So sorry to hear of Matts passing I went to high school with him the world has lost a good person

December 6, 2014

so very sorry for the loss of such a great guy.our thoughts and prayers are with you all.you will be missed dearly matt.rest in peace.nancy and ted wilkinson

Debora Ferrier

December 6, 2014

We are sorry for your loss.

Mike and Deb Ferrier

Billy and Vicki Mulville

December 5, 2014

Timmy, Emily and your Family,
We are truly sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers

Donna Sweeney

December 5, 2014

So sorry to Hear about Matt. Thoughts and Prayers to Nikki and Family. Matt was a funny guy I remember hanging out with him on the "wall" back in day. He always put a smile on your face>

Greg (fester) and Karen Cook

December 5, 2014

So sorry to hear about Matt, Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.

Scott Sinclair

December 4, 2014

My deepest sympathy to those closest to Matt-I remember Matt as a very kind and interesting person to talk with. I am thankful that I had an opportunity to know and work with Matt-Love and light to all of Matt's family.

Michael (Hippie) Cook

December 4, 2014

So unbelievable. We were friends going back to grade School. You will be sadly missed by many, old Friend.

December 4, 2014

Emily Tim and family sorry about your brother. Our thoughts are with you all.Burt and Rob

Phyllis Carroll

December 4, 2014

Emmy, Tim and Family,
So sad to hear of Matt's passing. Hugs and prayers go out to all of you.
Duke, Phyllis and Jake Carroll

Peggy Kelehan

December 4, 2014

My wishes for peace to you all ... I recall all the good times in Norfolk way back when ..

David Bentley

December 4, 2014

R.I.P. Matt you were a good person. David Bentley, Dorset, Vt.

Will and Berta Read

December 3, 2014

WE are so very sadden to hear of the loss of Matt. He was a true light among the stars. Though we have not seen him in many years, we feel blessed to have known him. Our deepest sympathy to the Ayers family.

Robert Brown

December 3, 2014

The Matt I knew really was a warm kind soul and never will be forgotten.

Susan and Jim Bascetta

December 3, 2014

Sympathy and prayers to all of Matt's family. Susan and Jim Bascetta

Tex Boratko

December 3, 2014

I am so sorry to hear of Matt's passing. I knew Matt from high school and from his days when he lived in Cohasset. He was a great person and friend. Please accept my condolences to the entire Ayers family and especially my dear sister-in-law Elaine.

Jonathan and Tina Prigge

December 3, 2014

we will miss your drive by visits,,,love and light to you and all your family

colleen kelley and rick fisher

December 3, 2014

So sorry to hear about Matt, wish we could be there Saturday.

colleen and rick

December 3, 2014

Our sincere sympathy on your loss. Wish we could be there Saturday.

Linda Patnoe Miller

December 3, 2014

So sorry to hear, Prayers to you all

Randy & DeAnn Orie

December 3, 2014

We were so sorry to hear of Matt's passing. He was a good friend, and he will be missed. Our hearts go out to his family.

Art Benedict

December 3, 2014

My condolences to the Ayers family and friends. I graduated with Matt from Northwestern Regional. I am sure he will be sorely missed by everyone.

Tim Durham

December 3, 2014

So sorry for your loss. Matt was a good friend during my Norfolk days. Terrible loss.

Betty Kochiss

December 3, 2014

My sympathy, thoughts and prayers to the Ayers family.

David and Bonnie Boratko

December 2, 2014

To the Ayers Family: we are so very sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace.

Jeffrey Barker

December 2, 2014

Condolences to the Ayers Family

Ginny Rizzi

December 2, 2014

My deepest condolences to the family. Matt was one of the kindest people I ever met. Once you knew him you always felt warm and welcome. God bless to all his family. The world was a better place by having Matt here.

Jean Crow (Keiller)

December 2, 2014

My deepest sympathies to the Ayers family.

Richard Patnoe

December 2, 2014

I'm so sorry to hear about Matt. I haven't seen him in years but always thought of him as a true friend and a great guy. My heart goes out to his family and friends.

Carmelina Connole

December 2, 2014

To Emily and Family, So sorry for your loss! I haven't seen him in years, but he was a nice guy!
From Jim & Carmelina,
Genesa and Jim Connole

John Bazzano

December 2, 2014

My heart goes out to his daughters and family. He was the best friend anyone could have and would readily give the shirt off his back without flinching.

Karen Phelan

December 2, 2014

My deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences to the entire Ayers clan. I have fond memories of Matt and may he rest in peace always. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers God bless you all

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